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Topic: Fear
Peekinin Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 4970	Mon 04/23/12 07:55 AM
People who are afraid of this maybe haven't accepted themselves. Its only a loss of me if its "one-sided" There's only a "we" if both parties so take a chance on each other. You are correct my Sistah It's all about belief, faith and hope In oneself and the other

indianadave4 Joined Wed 02/09/11 Posts: 1308	Mon 04/23/12 09:36 AM Edited by indianadave4 on Mon 04/23/12 09:42 AM
What truly makes a man afraid of a woman in all aspects of the spectrum? Women want to change their man after getting into a long term relationship. Mold him into her ideal man. Women become disappointed when he remains the same. Men want their women to stay the same after getting into a long term relationship. Men become disappointed when she changes. This is what men fear. Does she have a right to change? Yes. Is it written somewhere that he has to like what she becomes? No.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 04/23/12 04:30 PM
What truly makes a man afraid of a woman in all aspects of the spectrum? Women want to change their man after getting into a long term relationship. Mold him into her ideal man. Women become disappointed when he remains the same. Men want their women to stay the same after getting into a long term relationship. Men become disappointed when she changes. This is what men fear. Does she have a right to change? Yes. Is it written somewhere that he has to like what she becomes? No. Yeah and you men don't ever try to change a woman because you are so perfect.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 04/23/12 05:43 PM Edited by MariahsFantasy on Mon 04/23/12 05:45 PM
What truly makes a man afraid of a woman in all aspects of the spectrum? Women want to change their man after getting into a long term relationship. Mold him into her ideal man. Women become disappointed when he remains the same. Men want their women to stay the same after getting into a long term relationship. Men become disappointed when she changes. This is what men fear. Does she have a right to change? Yes. Is it written somewhere that he has to like what she becomes? No. Yeah and you men don't ever try to change a woman because you are so perfect. Yeah this is what baffles me so much about the sexes. One always thinks they are better than the other. News flash: men are whack jobs too, even moreso in most cases. I never tried to change a guy if they wanna be an azz. There's the door, why waste each other's time concealing the inevitable? They are probably the wrong guy for you ultimately.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Wed 04/25/12 09:19 AM
What truly makes a man afraid of a woman in all aspects of the spectrum? Women want to change their man after getting into a long term relationship. Mold him into her ideal man. Women become disappointed when he remains the same. Men want their women to stay the same after getting into a long term relationship. Men become disappointed when she changes. This is what men fear. Does she have a right to change? Yes. Is it written somewhere that he has to like what she becomes? No. Yeah and you men don't ever try to change a woman because you are so perfect. Yeah this is what baffles me so much about the sexes. One always thinks they are better than the other. News flash: men are whack jobs too, even moreso in most cases. I never tried to change a guy if they wanna be an azz. There's the door, why waste each other's time concealing the inevitable? They are probably the wrong guy for you ultimately. Quite right. Just about every guy I dated has tried to change me in some way; which is why the relationships ended. I am not somebody's puppet to control but guys don't seem to get that.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 04/25/12 10:13 AM Edited by MariahsFantasy on Wed 04/25/12 10:15 AM
What truly makes a man afraid of a woman in all aspects of the spectrum? Women want to change their man after getting into a long term relationship. Mold him into her ideal man. Women become disappointed when he remains the same. Men want their women to stay the same after getting into a long term relationship. Men become disappointed when she changes. This is what men fear. Does she have a right to change? Yes. Is it written somewhere that he has to like what she becomes? No. Yeah and you men don't ever try to change a woman because you are so perfect. Yeah this is what baffles me so much about the sexes. One always thinks they are better than the other. News flash: men are whack jobs too, even moreso in most cases. I never tried to change a guy if they wanna be an azz. There's the door, why waste each other's time concealing the inevitable? They are probably the wrong guy for you ultimately. Quite right. Just about every guy I dated has tried to change me in some way; which is why the relationships ended. I am not somebody's puppet to control but guys don't seem to get that. Intelligence, independence and humor. Those are the main fears a man has in a woman.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 04/25/12 10:24 AM
What truly makes a man afraid of a woman in all aspects of the spectrum? Women want to change their man after getting into a long term relationship. Mold him into her ideal man. Women become disappointed when he remains the same. Men want their women to stay the same after getting into a long term relationship. Men become disappointed when she changes. This is what men fear. Does she have a right to change? Yes. Is it written somewhere that he has to like what she becomes? No. What women are you speaking for?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 04/25/12 10:26 AM
Intelligence, independence and humor. Those are the main fears a man has in a woman. I'm not sure where humor fits in, but yes, I do think independent and intelligent women do make some men feel very insecure.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Wed 04/25/12 01:40 PM
Intelligence, independence and humor. Those are the main fears a man has in a woman. I'm not sure where humor fits in, but yes, I do think independent and intelligent women do make some men feel very insecure. Men probably don't like it when a woman laughs at them.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 04/25/12 01:44 PM
Intelligence, independence and humor. Those are the main fears a man has in a woman. I'm not sure where humor fits in, but yes, I do think independent and intelligent women do make some men feel very insecure. Men probably don't like it when a woman laughs at them.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 04/25/12 03:55 PM
Intelligence, independence and humor. Those are the main fears a man has in a woman. I'm not sure where humor fits in, but yes, I do think independent and intelligent women do make some men feel very insecure. Men probably don't like it when a woman laughs at them. I do this daily.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Wed 04/25/12 08:28 PM
Intelligence, independence and humor. Those are the main fears a man has in a woman. I'm not sure where humor fits in, but yes, I do think independent and intelligent women do make some men feel very insecure. Men probably don't like it when a woman laughs at them. I do this daily. Yeah me too. Explains why I am single.

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Wed 04/25/12 08:48 PM
Wow I came in at the wrong time... LoL

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Wed 04/25/12 09:05 PM
What truly makes a man afraid of a woman in all aspects of the spectrum? i not afraid of women lollllllllllll i think they are beautiful and fun to chat too and they sure can chat up a storm lollllll if guys are afraid of lady's i think they just insecure most of the time :) but i saw some guys scared to ask a gal to dance cause they would feel stupid if refused so i use to walk up and ask them first lolll cause i mean if no 1 ever makes a first move then what? i tell you thou theres guys afraid of being used for money n being cheated on n being nagged at n gal being possessive asking where you are every minute ........... myself i don't give a crap about money i like to buy a gal a drink or food as for being cheated on if you don't have trust why u in a relationship? now as for nagging all gals nag lollllllllllll here and there but thats ok but i tell you when a gal gets to possessive ,time to move on cause then its bad it can work both ways and so sad :)people need to have more trust and more love and more honesty in this cold world cheers :)

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Wed 04/25/12 10:00 PM
Afraid? Is a man really afraid of a woman? Afraid of getting a broken heart, ok. Afraid of fighting, ok. Afraid of being lonely, ok. Afraid of loosing your identity, ok. Afraid of being murdered in the middle of the night, ok. Afraid that we might have to clean up, ok. Afraid that she might spend all the money, ok. Afraid that she listens to only country music, ok. Afraid that she wants to dress me, ok. Afraid that she won't like snoring, ok. Afraid that she wants the lawn cut & trimmed every week, ok. Afraid that she doesn't like paper plates, ok. Afraid that the car's not dent proof, ok. Afraid of that special monthly friend, ok. on, and on, and on.....

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 04/25/12 10:07 PM
Nice to hear from CHEER UP. DO men fear women? News to me! Apprehensive maybe? Fear? I wonder.... Why dont the men speak up and tell us what goes on in their minds about the opp sex?

Kaleijoscope Joined Fri 10/15/10 Posts: 3319	Wed 04/25/12 10:18 PM
I have been crushed 3 times in my life and I still desire a woman without fear. Call me stupid. "i'll have you know, i love stupid...especially the romantic ones...they are the real ones....cheers!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 04/25/12 11:15 PM Edited by MariahsFantasy on Wed 04/25/12 11:23 PM
Intelligence, independence and humor. Those are the main fears a man has in a woman. I'm not sure where humor fits in, but yes, I do think independent and intelligent women do make some men feel very insecure. Men probably don't like it when a woman laughs at them. I do this daily. Yeah me too. Explains why I am single. Nah, just means you haven't lost your ability to be a woman. Real men, are NOT intimidated by a woman who knows what she wants. Its acceptable to laugh at the dumb things the men folk do...

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 04/26/12 08:31 AM
Intelligence, independence and humor. Those are the main fears a man has in a woman. I'm not sure where humor fits in, but yes, I do think independent and intelligent women do make some men feel very insecure. Men probably don't like it when a woman laughs at them. I do this daily. Yeah me too. Explains why I am single. Nah, just means you haven't lost your ability to be a woman. Real men, are NOT intimidated by a woman who knows what she wants. Its acceptable to laugh at the dumb things the men folk do... Well, that explains alot. Guess I haven't met any real men because every single one I met is intimidated by me. Thanks Mariah. You made my day.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Thu 04/26/12 08:45 AM
Afraid? Is a man really afraid of a woman? Afraid of getting a broken heart, ok. Afraid of fighting, ok. Afraid of being lonely, ok. Afraid of loosing your identity, ok. Afraid of being murdered in the middle of the night, ok. Afraid that we might have to clean up, ok. Afraid that she might spend all the money, ok. Afraid that she listens to only country music, ok. Afraid that she wants to dress me, ok. Afraid that she won't like snoring, ok. Afraid that she wants the lawn cut & trimmed every week, ok. Afraid that she doesn't like paper plates, ok. Afraid that the car's not dent proof, ok. Afraid of that special monthly friend, ok. on, and on, and on..... You mean there's more?!!???!