i just want to know why it's hard to find a good guy?

If good guys were easy to find then there wouldn't be women on this site. The good ones are hidden amongst bad guys pretending to be good.

Tell me this , why do I have to put up a shirtless photo in order to get any views.

It's the fact that your looking for someone that's the problem. No matter how old you are you still have a lot to learn abut yourself. Best is to travel, socialize and try new activities. Make yourself start a new activity every month. When you start down a road and someone is there along side you helping you and yo helping them, that's when you know maybe it's worth trying a relationship. Everyone even you put on a mask when you socialize. we all have our private side, on the toilet or watching a movie or show alone talking to the tv, or responding to your thoughts with verbal comments when your alone. We all have our little things we don't share. When you start dating someone you may try to invade that to get to know someone. You have to realize that if you can't be with someone or they can't be with you and trust that those little quirks are simply that then it will never work out.

Topic: how does women get a good guy to talk to her?
Stomp around on one foot flapping your arms, I can fly I can fly!
Trust me, he'll talk to you. If that doesn't work show him your boobies! jk

cuz you haven't found him or try to hard

Stop chasing guys, and look for good men.

Hard to believe (I'm pinching myself) you cannot find a man with your interests listed in your profile. You just have to weed the bad from the good.

Ya don't say? Really? So you eat any good peaches lately...


Walk up and flick them in the forehead and say, hey... wanna buy me dinner. If he does, he's might be a good guy. If he makes innuendo about eating you for dinner probably a bad boy.

Coming from a "good guy" who lives for nothing more than finding a "good lady" and treating her like a Queen, I will counter with a question of my own. Do women REALLY want a "good guy"? It seems to me ALL women want is a bad boy! They may say they want a sweet, sensitive, treat them good ,good guy. But,when it comes right down to it it seems they push the good guy in to the friend zone and run off with the one who treats them bad and is a A#@hole! My personal experience time and time again!

we are all still good.
We have just had some edges worn or honed by....
Experience....much the same as women.
Ya gotta stop lookin for.....

Perfect.......

and find a compromise that is perfect for you both!!!!
JMO

Well said ghostrider2u, very well said....

because good guys are all taken...

Wrong! I am not taken.

maybe is you guys (women) not playing ball!!!! Im not taken, but no one gets back, just because we say hello to each other dosent mean we have to be tied to each other is not that complicated! give the dog a bone!!!!!!!

That answer is simple your so busy looking 4 superman you cant even notice clark kent right infront of u. But the best answer is there are not many good fathers to teach them 2 be a great men along with them having no fear in God ....

probably because they are swept up so quick..lol

and it takes being a 'good' girl and frequenting those places 'good' guys would be more likely to go as opposed to the usual meat markets,,,,

In that case I hope this is one of the 'Good' places!!

She deactivated. Guess it sounded like too much work for her......