That he wants it....duh

It really depends on how and where the first date is.
I am not into huge PDA's so publiclly kissing on a first date is not my favorite thing.

But if it is someone I have known a while and then the friendship changed over to a dating relationship and I was in a discreet location it is possible that a modest kiss might be an appropriate ending to a desireable date. Not a tonsil tickler but something feminine and nice that says "hey; this worked for me".

Since I would probably NOT go out with someone I was not at least physically attracted to at a minimum level I don't see a modest kiss as extreamly intimate.

I can't imagine any guy not knowing wheather or not I was interested in being kissed by him or not. If a woman is not in a guys personal space then it should be pretty clear that the kiss is not on the agenda.

I am practicing my I want it from Mariah look....

If it's a first meeting and I'm not into them I give them a hug first before they get a chance to try anything else. There's nothing worse than kissing someone you're not attracted to.

If the attraction is there I let them determine if they want to kiss me. I do look them right in the eyes and don't look away. Then it's up to them. If they haven't attempted a kiss by the second or third date they go into the friend zone if we enjoy hanging out.

I would if I wanted him..

With tongue if they're lucky.

That's horrible

First date is too soon. 2nd date he can hold my hand. MAYBE on 3rd date a kiss (one only).
There is so much more important with dating besides kissing. Getting to know each other. Seeing if you are intellectualy on the same page. Letting them know there is no sex until marriage and if they are not sincere then this will turn them off and you know it was not meant to be. Stick to your Christian beliefs and be sure your date is on the same page with this also as this is the most important thing in a relationship your love of God and your Christianity. Be sure he also puts God above all else in life.

Since I'm not Christian and I'm not even sure there is a god, there are no Christian believes I need to stick to.

Its okay to kiss on the first date...it just depends on the kiss...if its one of those dates where you don't think there will be another one then i kiss on the cheek (kinda like a thanks anyway lol) and if i get butterflies...well then the deserves a completely different kiss

No, I would prefer to wait until the third date, cause by then I know he really likes me.

First two dates are really to kinda get to know each other. By the third you know if it is worth the time and energy.

I don't go on looks so I can't get barely any info from that. Cleanliness and fussiness is about it from looks alone.

If a guy actually waited until the third date to kiss me, I'd think he wasn't interested.

Really?

I always think of the first date as the see how it goes date and then the second as a make sure it was as good as it was the first time date and the third as the move into a more sure of things mode. I figure if he is on a date with me, he is interested already so the kiss doesn't signify that to me. But there isn't a right or wrong here, people are very diverse.

I don't assume that there will be a kiss on the first date. But, if there is any interest, I would think it would at least happen on the second. If he hasn't kissed me by then, I'd start to think there was no interest.

And no, just because I'm out on a date with someone, I do not assume we have hit it off. It's to see how things go. Several times, there has been no second date because either he or I had no interest in the other.

I'm not saying there's a right or wrong at all. I completely understand everyone is different. I was just pointing out how I think differently.

if the date really went well,and i really, really like him.there is really nothing wrong in kissing him on the first date if he makes the moves.

YOu kiss and do whatever else you want to on the first date. But I personally advise that you take time to discover something deliciously unique about someone first and then move on to beautiful things. But this is only how I do things.

This is about how each person does things individually, rather than advice for me or others.

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