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Topic: Real Men: are most of us fake?
Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sat 02/25/12 02:08 PM
I don't start threads often so: In women's profiles we often read "I want a Real Man"? In women's terms what is a "Real Man"? Haven't seen this recently as a topic so thus my question. Well... I will need about 20 men to strip and stand in a line facing me..I will point. I like this idea.... But....... Only if I.... Win!!!!!

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Sat 02/25/12 02:24 PM
I don't start threads often so: In women's profiles we often read "I want a Real Man"? In women's terms what is a "Real Man"? Haven't seen this recently as a topic so thus my question. Well... I will need about 20 men to strip and stand in a line facing me..I will point. I like this idea.... But....... Only if I.... Win!!!!!

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sat 02/25/12 02:26 PM
I don't start threads often so: In women's profiles we often read "I want a Real Man"? In women's terms what is a "Real Man"? Haven't seen this recently as a topic so thus my question. Well... I will need about 20 men to strip and stand in a line facing me..I will point. I like this idea.... But....... Only if I.... Win!!!!! WHAT????????????

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/25/12 04:48 PM
When women refer to such thing, I think they mean the want a man, not a boy or fake make I guess... I'm gonna say a "real man' is a guy that is responsible and somewhat mature. - Doesn't play the ever popular games. - Has a job/car/own place. - Can possibly provide in a monetary sense/cents. You know, your basic quintessential perfect person. That just describes an adult who is able to provide for themselves and doesn't play silly games. No one is perfect. I'd expect this from any guy I'm thinking about dating, though.

Dinepre87 Joined Fri 02/24/12 Posts: 4	Sun 02/26/12 01:02 AM
who's not real? every guy is real, the issue there is there are good guys and bad guys.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sun 02/26/12 06:43 AM
Once there was a little girl She had a little curl right down the middle of her forehead. When she was good, she was very very good and when she was bad she was horrid.

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Sun 02/26/12 06:55 AM
I don't start threads often so: In women's profiles we often read "I want a Real Man"? In women's terms what is a "Real Man"? Haven't seen this recently as a topic so thus my question. Real men don't care what women want. That is what they have girlfriends for.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 02/26/12 08:25 AM
I don't start threads often so: In women's profiles we often read "I want a Real Man"? In women's terms what is a "Real Man"? Haven't seen this recently as a topic so thus my question. Real men don't care what women want. That is what they have girlfriends for. real men care very much what their woman wants or they won't have her for long

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 02/26/12 08:32 AM
who's not real? every guy is real, the issue there is there are good guys and bad guys. Girls always want the bad guys....personally I find the good blokes more of a catch.

ShannonMarie21 Joined Thu 02/17/11 Posts: 1169	Sun 02/26/12 08:34 AM
who's not real? every guy is real, the issue there is there are good guys and bad guys. Girls always want the bad guys....personally I find the good blokes more of a catch. I used to want the bad boys..now all I want is a good man.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 02/26/12 08:38 AM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sun 02/26/12 08:38 AM
who's not real? every guy is real, the issue there is there are good guys and bad guys. Girls always want the bad guys....personally I find the good blokes more of a catch. same but u can't always tell a book by it's cover.... just as u outgrow wanting the bad boy the bad boys can become good men not that I'd hold my breath counting on it - I try to see the good in everyone

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Sun 02/26/12 08:38 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n0KNTahw-DY

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 02/26/12 08:40 AM
I don't know.. I've never really been into "bad boys."

ShannonMarie21 Joined Thu 02/17/11 Posts: 1169	Sun 02/26/12 08:44 AM Edited by ShannonMarie21 on Sun 02/26/12 08:45 AM
I don't know.. I've never really been into "bad boys." I wish I could say that...Oh, how I wish I could say that. My former love of bad boys is legend in my group of friends. I still get teased about it. My best friend here in Kansas always tells people that there was a point of time in my life that I wouldn't be interested in a guy unless I thought he would look good in jailbird orange one day. In my defense, I wasn't that bad. She exaggerates a LOT.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 02/26/12 08:50 AM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sun 02/26/12 08:52 AM
(was laughing at what Shannon said about friends who exaggerate BTW)

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 02/26/12 08:51 AM
bad boys have always been a turn off for me. Never understood the appeal. Its just not one I share. I think guys who complain about gals who go for them, however, are worse. just be you and look for one who appreciates that. guys who complain about gals who go for them??? are they gay?

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Sun 02/26/12 08:53 AM
Women possess the two most valuable resources to mankind: Sex and Babies. Most women have to feel secure that you are going to take care of her or she'll never be truly happy. Where many men fail is that a woman will test his resolve and the man will back down. A real man isn't afraid to spend a night on the couch if he knows he's right; in the morning, she'll respect him for it. Men have to learn to pick their battles and hold their ground. If you won't stand up to your wife, why should she trust you to stand up for her?

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 02/26/12 08:55 AM
bad boys have always been a turn off for me. Never understood the appeal. Its just not one I share. I think guys who complain about gals who go for them, however, are worse. just be you and look for one who appreciates that. guys who complain about gals who go for them??? are they gay? meh. its been corrected smartazz sorry bout that I didn't see the change but ya - a man who can't appreciate a woman's interest definitely deosn't deserve it I am sure we all receive interest from someone who we are not also interested in...it happens. and it can be handled in an adult manner...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 02/26/12 08:57 AM
Women possess the two most valuable resources to mankind: Sex and Babies. Most women have to feel secure that you are going to take care of her or she'll never be truly happy. Where many men fail is that a woman will test his resolve and the man will back down. A real man isn't afraid to spend a night on the couch if he knows he's right; in the morning, she'll respect him for it. Men have to learn to pick their battles and hold their ground. If you won't stand up to your wife, why should she trust you to stand up for her? just don't spend too many nights on the couch - ya never know who might be sneaking in through the bedroom window

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Sun 02/26/12 09:00 AM
Women possess the two most valuable resources to mankind: Sex and Babies. Most women have to feel secure that you are going to take care of her or she'll never be truly happy. Where many men fail is that a woman will test his resolve and the man will back down. A real man isn't afraid to spend a night on the couch if he knows he's right; in the morning, she'll respect him for it. Men have to learn to pick their battles and hold their ground. If you won't stand up to your wife, why should she trust you to stand up for her? just don't spend too many nights on the couch - ya never know who might be sneaking in through the bedroom window I real man gets called back to the bedroom before he has a chance to fall asleep.