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Alterette Joined Mon 06/06/11 Posts: 1600	Mon 02/20/12 07:29 AM
... a good online support group/mailing list for full-time caregivers? I am taking care of my elder brother who is blind, diabetic and on dialysis. His diabetes is pretty advanced, so I have to do many things for him and I need to connect with others who do this. Online is particularly important because I rarely, if ever, get out of the house. Thanks in advance.

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Mon 02/20/12 07:59 AM
It is indeed nice to see you back. I wish I could give you some assistance. You are a special person a hero in fact. I found one site that seems to look pretty good. It is Helpguide.org I hope that it gives you some support, and help you with care givers burn out.

Alterette Joined Mon 06/06/11 Posts: 1600	Mon 02/20/12 08:19 AM Edited by Alterette on Mon 02/20/12 08:20 AM
Thanks, Hon. It's nice to see you too. I missed everyone terribly. I'll try the link. You know what they say: "heroes" are just ordinary people in extraordinary circumstances. I'm no hero; I love my bro and my strength comes from the Lord so he gets all the credit. (((hugs)))

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 02/20/12 08:19 AM
Try searching on Google. You may find what you're looking for that way.

Alterette Joined Mon 06/06/11 Posts: 1600	Mon 02/20/12 08:22 AM
Thanks Sing. I did google it but there are a gazillion choices. And nothing local for sibling support, just cancer, spousal and things like that. I guess I'll just have to weed through the results.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Mon 02/20/12 08:23 AM
What a wonderful thing you do, for your brother.

miken747 Joined Mon 02/13/12 Posts: 98	Mon 02/20/12 08:35 AM
Ill ask a friend of mine. She's been doing the same sort of thing only at a home for quite some time and has all sorts of website info. Ill post when i get. Other than that be strong him in who is strong in those who believe in him and who's hearts belong to him.

mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Mon 02/20/12 11:13 AM
Check your local hospital or social services, they should be able to help you with info...One thing you need to do and that is to take some time for yourself..It's really important to take care of you..

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Mon 02/20/12 12:14 PM
http://www.facebook.com/scrubsmagazine http://scrubsmag.com/the-nursing-uniform-of-the-future/ Robo Nurse and Wonderwoman

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Mon 02/20/12 06:57 PM
http://www.davita.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=55 This site seems to be aimed at support givers of dialysis patients. Most seem to be spouses or elder children taking care of parents. Check it out, they might have information for you and your brothers specific needs.

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Mon 02/20/12 08:40 PM
There are also free video classes at www.learningcenter.pahomecare.org

Alterette Joined Mon 06/06/11 Posts: 1600	Tue 02/21/12 09:58 AM
What a wonderful thing you do, for your brother. Thanks, Soufie. He's always treated me decently; never judged me and I'm glad I can do this for him.

Alterette Joined Mon 06/06/11 Posts: 1600	Tue 02/21/12 10:01 AM
Ill ask a friend of mine. She's been doing the same sort of thing only at a home for quite some time and has all sorts of website info. Ill post when i get. Other than that be strong him in who is strong in those who believe in him and who's hearts belong to him. I appreciate the help, Mike! It's kind of you and I can't wait to read about the resources offered. The Messiah renews my strength every day; I am also handicapped and take care of my youngest, who's autistic. If it weren't for G-D, I could never get through the day - and certainly without this measure of peace and happiness. He is my ALL.

Alterette Joined Mon 06/06/11 Posts: 1600	Tue 02/21/12 10:02 AM
Check your local hospital or social services, they should be able to help you with info...One thing you need to do and that is to take some time for yourself..It's really important to take care of you.. Thank you, Mss. I hadn't thought about contacting the hospitals for info. Great advice!

Alterette Joined Mon 06/06/11 Posts: 1600	Tue 02/21/12 10:07 AM
http://www.facebook.com/scrubsmagazine http://scrubsmag.com/the-nursing-uniform-of-the-future/ Robo Nurse and Wonderwoman thanks, RT. I'll read more as I find time.

samsultan07 Joined Sun 01/15/12 Posts: 113	Tue 02/21/12 12:49 PM
great job

Smallpebble Joined Mon 01/31/11 Posts: 29	Wed 02/22/12 07:21 PM
My prayers are with you. I nursed my Brother with diabetes, my mother with a stroke I love I had kept me going But you do need to find time for yourself to recharge your batteries. Good luck in finding the help you so need

volant7 Joined Thu 06/02/11 Posts: 616	Fri 03/02/12 08:02 PM
The Beautiful Truth http://www.youtube.com/movie/the-beautiful-truth?feature=mv_e_rel Dying To Have Known http://www.youtube.com/movie?v=DoUl7F7dWdE&ob=av1e&feature=mv_sr copy and paste