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Topic: Rant.
OIF_Chef Joined Mon 12/26/11 Posts: 541	Mon 02/13/12 08:43 PM
People who are judgmental and rude for absolutely no reason. It's ridiculous. It's been happening almost ALL DAY. Which in turn makes me grumpy and it's a vicious cycle. Damn kick the dog type of thing. I was good until I was told I was a bad person from someone that doesn't even know me. It's freezing and my bones hurt and I've tried to be nice most of the day, but on days like today it seems virtually effing impossible. I have an overwhelming desire to either kick something or bite someone. I'm not sure about the biting, but.. eh. Just remember, since they don't know you, their opinions and words don't mean anything unless you want them to.

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Mon 02/13/12 08:44 PM
I've never been married myself. I am very picky. If someone tries to change who I am it won't work. Don't like tattoos it wont work especially since I'm getting another. some people will try to change u but ur right it won't work they tried that with me an well they failed lol Only time I try to change someone is from clothed to unclothed lol some how i had a feeling that was coming lol From moi? Never lol nah just in general thought lol Cheeky thought LOL but ya got me time to (oh shiny ....runs away) danger didn't work I'm still here i know its suppose to be about rant but he said CHEEKY? LOL

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Mon 02/13/12 08:45 PM
..thanks, baby. ..but, what about you..? What about me? :O ..I know you wanna rant. o.-

VintagenNerdy Joined Sat 12/31/11 Posts: 1231	Mon 02/13/12 08:47 PM
..thanks, baby. ..but, what about you..? What about me? :O ..I know you wanna rant. o.- I did rant.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 02/13/12 08:47 PM
I have nothing to rant about - I miss my family - my uncle died a few days ago. he and my aunt were married for about ......... 60 years, I was close to them as a child. - she died last year. I can't imagine never seeing them again. I haven't seen them in ages because of my own personal circumstances (the distance) and I just can't imagine never seeing them again, but that's that. A part of me still expects to go there with my mom next year at thanksgiving - I can see my aunt sipping sherry and laughing, patting the couch cushion next to her for me to sit there. and my uncle watching her like a man in love - in their 60s....and he had known her since she was about 20 good memories - but has left me a little down today I'm sorry for your loss. Ditto. thanks been crying like a baby since I got home - ricky nelson did cheer me up a little he's soooo dreamy

VintagenNerdy Joined Sat 12/31/11 Posts: 1231	Mon 02/13/12 08:48 PM
People who are judgmental and rude for absolutely no reason. It's ridiculous. It's been happening almost ALL DAY. Which in turn makes me grumpy and it's a vicious cycle. Damn kick the dog type of thing. I was good until I was told I was a bad person from someone that doesn't even know me. It's freezing and my bones hurt and I've tried to be nice most of the day, but on days like today it seems virtually effing impossible. I have an overwhelming desire to either kick something or bite someone. I'm not sure about the biting, but.. eh. Just remember, since they don't know you, their opinions and words don't mean anything unless you want them to. I think it was just the straw that broke the camel's back of the day.

VintagenNerdy Joined Sat 12/31/11 Posts: 1231	Mon 02/13/12 08:49 PM
I have nothing to rant about - I miss my family - my uncle died a few days ago. he and my aunt were married for about ......... 60 years, I was close to them as a child. - she died last year. I can't imagine never seeing them again. I haven't seen them in ages because of my own personal circumstances (the distance) and I just can't imagine never seeing them again, but that's that. A part of me still expects to go there with my mom next year at thanksgiving - I can see my aunt sipping sherry and laughing, patting the couch cushion next to her for me to sit there. and my uncle watching her like a man in love - in their 60s....and he had known her since she was about 20 good memories - but has left me a little down today I'm sorry for your loss. Ditto. thanks been crying like a baby since I got home - ricky nelson did cheer me up a little he's soooo dreamy I tend to listen to Glen Campbell songs when I'm missing a family member that's passed. I'm not even sure why really..

miken747 Joined Mon 02/13/12 Posts: 98	Mon 02/13/12 08:51 PM
Sorry I still use a lot of Australian terms and words. You should hear me talk I sound like an Aussie LOL. Also what I meant to reply to vintage is I know what you mean only in opposite. Seems I do more listening and caretaking than I do talking. Most people don't understand how its possible for me to be alive. I've had my heart stop for no reason times, hostage in high-school for 10 hours, did anyone want to listen to me then, he'll no,and now? Not a chance. Its like I am supposed to be here for people but forget about what I go through in life. But you know, I don't mind at all, to me doesn't matter bad or good in a persons life,its what you do to change or better yourself that matters and if I am part of that process that makes up for my crappy days.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 02/13/12 08:52 PM
I have nothing to rant about - I miss my family - my uncle died a few days ago. he and my aunt were married for about ......... 60 years, I was close to them as a child. - she died last year. I can't imagine never seeing them again. I haven't seen them in ages because of my own personal circumstances (the distance) and I just can't imagine never seeing them again, but that's that. A part of me still expects to go there with my mom next year at thanksgiving - I can see my aunt sipping sherry and laughing, patting the couch cushion next to her for me to sit there. and my uncle watching her like a man in love - in their 60s....and he had known her since she was about 20 good memories - but has left me a little down today I'm sorry for your loss. Ditto. thanks been crying like a baby since I got home - ricky nelson did cheer me up a little he's soooo dreamy I tend to listen to Glen Campbell songs when I'm missing a family member that's passed. I'm not even sure why really.. I was actually thinking of people they liked (aunt & uncle)- hadn;t gotten to Barbra Streisand and Dean Martin yet - their favorites....

miken747 Joined Mon 02/13/12 Posts: 98	Mon 02/13/12 08:57 PM
My great aunt is Barbara Streisand lol

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Mon 02/13/12 09:01 PM
I personally have an issue. I want to be friends with people, but when something is actually bothering me quite a bit. I usually more often then not.. close up like a clam. I usually hate talking about my bad days, and the days when like you.. it hurts even just to lay in bed and type. I'm not exactly sure what MY deal is. I mean, there is nothing in the world wrong with having someone that understands your pain and turmoil. It's nice to have someone understanding.. but I just seem to have issues. VintagenNerdy, I probably can't take away your "issues", but I can relate to your physical anguish. Mental anguish is something that I can relate to as well, as my blog indicates. Did you ever read the first page of it? I apologize for my own insensitivity toward you. You have every right to clam up when you need to. I consider you to be a Heaven-sent gift, the only person in my county who knows exactly what I am going through physically. I hope to earn your trust so that I can one day hear the sound of your voice.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 02/13/12 09:02 PM
My great aunt is Barbara Streisand lol cool she's a great lady

miken747 Joined Mon 02/13/12 Posts: 98	Mon 02/13/12 09:04 PM
My great aunt is Barbara Streisand lol cool she's a great lady She can also be a bit neurotic but she's changed over the last decade for the better which is good to see.

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Mon 02/13/12 09:13 PM
People who are judgmental and rude for absolutely no reason. It's ridiculous. It's been happening almost ALL DAY. Which in turn makes me grumpy and it's a vicious cycle. Damn kick the dog type of thing. I was good until I was told I was a bad person from someone that doesn't even know me. It's freezing and my bones hurt and I've tried to be nice most of the day, but on days like today it seems virtually effing impossible. I have an overwhelming desire to either kick something or bite someone. I'm not sure about the biting, but.. eh. do somethin before you are consumed by hatred too. Its a bad cycle which goes on and on. A mysterious person said, there will definately be a time when we all could understand each other n live in peace. But i say thats impossible. The least we can do is ignore those rude and judgemental peeps. I always ignore em. Fighting back causes more pain. Someday.... There wont be any hatred and jealousy.

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Mon 02/13/12 09:13 PM
I have nothin to rant about.

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Mon 02/13/12 09:13 PM
Vintage.. I wrote you a letter.. -.-

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Mon 02/13/12 09:15 PM
Vintage.. I wrote you a letter.. -.-

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Mon 02/13/12 09:17 PM
>.> ...yes? <.<

miken747 Joined Mon 02/13/12 Posts: 98	Mon 02/13/12 09:18 PM
Vintage.. I wrote you a letter.. -.- As quagmire would say. Giggidy giggidy giggidy

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Mon 02/13/12 09:20 PM
Bah