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Topic: Why Do People
42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Sun 02/12/12 10:09 AM Edited by 42BlackBBW on Sun 02/12/12 10:10 AM
Apparently I lasted a lot longer than I thought. No one's maimed me yet. Please don't I've only had one 'run -in' but we're pretty cool now...I think Correction..only one run in with someone on the forums...a few with lurkers that have messaged me.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 02/12/12 04:44 PM
leave? Just curious, I keep hearing how lively this place was a while back...how you ever left and came back? I didn't really leave but did de-activate for a while as I found I was spending way too much time on the site.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 02/12/12 05:03 PM
Apparently I lasted a lot longer than I thought. No one's maimed me yet. Please don't I've only had one 'run -in' but we're pretty cool now...I think Correction..only one run in with someone on the forums...a few with lurkers that have messaged me. Awww that's OK. The lurkers are to be expected though.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 02/12/12 05:04 PM
leave? Just curious, I keep hearing how lively this place was a while back...how you ever left and came back? I didn't really leave but did de-activate for a while as I found I was spending way too much time on the site. That's funny what it does to people. I don't think I'm an addict, not yet anyway.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sun 02/12/12 05:13 PM


VintagenNerdy Joined Sat 12/31/11 Posts: 1231	Sun 02/12/12 05:22 PM
I've deactivated. However, I generally don't tell anyone I just do it. This place is like crack though.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 02/12/12 08:38 PM
leave? Just curious, I keep hearing how lively this place was a while back...how you ever left and came back? ya, a few times - once for a pretty long time cuz I had something going on on another site - was gone over a year - then came back have deactivated 3 or 4 times - bored - usually why or sometimes just get that feeling that I have pretty well said all I can say for awhile - or some dude pisses me off < but that don't chase me off here no more so that is why I come & go - others prolly have their own reasons

RoamingOrator Joined Fri 07/20/07 Posts: 4943	Sun 02/12/12 08:50 PM
Me??? Well I get distracted, don't check up on everyone for a while and then all of a sudden I stick my head in the door. Once I do, everyone tells me how happy they are to see me again, so I stick around a while and chat it up. Well, that and I'm still single.

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Sun 02/12/12 08:52 PM
I never leave and then come back. That would be stupid and overly dramatic.

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Sun 02/12/12 08:56 PM
Yep.... I stepped away when I went through manOpause. (it sucked) Wasn't pleasant company at that time and didn't want to be a drag. But, I got over it and came back only to unexpectedly get b!tch slapped with the love I never thought I would find. Go figure. Lotsa people bail for lotsa reasons. Disappointment, lack of patience, meeting someone who aint "all dat and a bag o chips".... fixed it for you...

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Sun 02/12/12 08:59 PM
yes, yes I have...

pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Sun 02/12/12 09:09 PM
I have never deactivated my account but i did stop loging on here and all the our sights i use to use for about a year because i just got burned out on the whole online thing. Now i only post here.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48974	Sun 02/12/12 09:18 PM
leave? Just curious, I keep hearing how lively this place was a while back...how you ever left and came back? I didn't really leave but did de-activate for a while as I found I was spending way too much time on the site. Too much time? Is that possible?

SilentlyScreaming Joined Mon 09/10/07 Posts: 10681	Mon 02/13/12 01:07 PM Edited by SilentlyScreaming on Mon 02/13/12 01:08 PM
leave? Just curious, I keep hearing how lively this place was a while back...how you ever left and came back? Yup... i deactivated a couple times... the first time was because my ex (who i met on here, when it was still justsayhi) thought the site was causing issues because i was "too flirty"... i figured it wasnt worth the fight and deactivated (should have been a sign... we see how that worked out) The second time was because i was in another serious relationship and working two job and just didnt have time for mingle...

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Mon 02/13/12 01:09 PM
yes, I have.

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Mon 02/13/12 01:12 PM
Nah I get busy sometimes, but keep dropping in to see what everyone is doing, even if i don't post.

machug Joined Sun 09/04/11 Posts: 6601	Mon 02/13/12 01:17 PM
I deactivated for 3 days recently, I came back to get in touch with someone and realized only 1 person knew I was gone. Pffft. There are several people here that I really really missed.

miken747 Joined Mon 02/13/12 Posts: 98	Mon 02/13/12 01:20 PM
I simply wasn't here. I got up one day jumped a plane to Honolulu where I spent most of my time on the beach since I lived only 10 minutes from it. From there I went to Australia and was preparing to teach English but I came back. I think I'm going to go to Italy or Spain now lol

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76471	Mon 02/13/12 01:31 PM
Truth is once ya check in ya don't check out well unless you get dropped down the black hole...........

alookat101 Joined Fri 12/12/08 Posts: 17442	Mon 02/13/12 01:33 PM
I deactivated for 3 days recently, I came back to get in touch with someone and realized only 1 person knew I was gone. Pffft. There are several people here that I really really missed. I bet you it was-n't me.