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Topic: Lessons for men and women!
NicholasDDuncan Joined Fri 12/10/10 Posts: 67	Sat 02/11/12 06:13 PM Edited by NicholasDDuncan on Sat 02/11/12 06:16 PM
Ive decided I'm just done trying to find the one. I dnk what it is, but I try and try and try to open up to people. Maybe I'm TOO open I dnk. Maybe what Ive been through pales there issues and they feel its too much. ether way Ive got some advice for you all. To the men #1: When you first start talking to a girl and she asks you about your parents, If your like me they recently offed them selves and well this doesn't come across well to women as far as the ideals of your possible sanity goes. just say there doing well, technically they are since there issues are no longer bothering them. #2: When she immediately starts the conversation with your cute "Or any other variance of the term", add her to your ignore list immediately! The reason for this is simple, if that's the first and probably only thing she noticed about you then shes vane and obviously we don't want a vane woman... With vanity comes a huge self worth problem. Usually stemming from her parents. Which means your gonna have to path her up more then the **ing Titanic needed. #3: If the girl shows a huge amount of cleavage in her display pictures, I know this is hard to do but press the back button and go some where else. Obviously she thinks that's all shes worth "Eye candy" since she wants to put her self out there that way. More then likely shes a clinger and overly needy. Now theres nothing wrong with a woman or her needs but like us if its overdone this is a turn off and a sign an impending failure waiting to happen, leaving you heart broken and shattered. #4: if a woman always listens to her mom, get the ** out now while you can. There is nothing wrong with taking advice but the moment the mother decides she doesn't like you "which 9/10 she will hate you guts simply because her daughter likes you" life will become a living hell, you cant defeat there madness so just walk away while you still can and not get hurt. Finally #5: If the girl you love/like or w/e never seems to have any thing to talk about and you find your self wanting to talk more but cant think of what to say. Walk away. Obviously the mental summation has worn off and while you make like/love her she obviously is a closed Pandora's box and that's again to much work for the ending result of absolute pain. To the women #1: Stop being so critical towards your self and the poor guys, obviously you have your reasons, but hes not your x... Drop the chip on your shoulder and give him a chance! #2: For god sake Stop listening to your mother if in some way shape or form she was involved with or responsible for more then 1 relationship failure. Your moms got it out for em because shes don't wanna see u grow up, understandable as that may be. Do your self a favor and go freely into the world and make mistakes, that's how we truly learn, not advice or some one telling us how or what to do. #3: Just because a guy seems angry or mean, doesn't mean he is in his heart. He could actually have all the love in the world to give but hes just been hurt to many times and rejected more times then he can even dare count. Simply because no one can see beyond the face of the beast the world has chiseled him into. The world is much harsher towards men and there emotions, please remember that. That's my Dr Phil moment of the day, Enjoy. Nicholas D.D.

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sat 02/11/12 06:19 PM
Wow all this coming from an experienced 24 year old.....good job!

NicholasDDuncan Joined Fri 12/10/10 Posts: 67	Sat 02/11/12 06:22 PM
Wow all this coming from an experienced 24 year old.....good job! HAHA that's just the beginning -_- LOL! Man I typoed allot, oh well I dnt wanna fix it.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 02/11/12 06:25 PM
#3: If the girl shows a huge amount of cleavage in her display pictures, I know this is hard to do but press the back button and go some where else. Dammit! Show the cleavage, don't show the cleavage. Will you guys make up your frikken minds?

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Sat 02/11/12 06:40 PM
#1: When you first start talking to a girl and she asks you about your parents, If your like me they recently offed them selves and well this doesn't come across well to women as far as the ideals of your possible sanity goes. just say there doing well, technically they are since there issues are no longer bothering them. My parents have been dead for many years, so conversation on that subject is usually very brief. #2: When she immediately starts the conversation with your cute "Or any other variance of the term", add her to your ignore list immediately! The reason for this is simple, if that's the first and probably only thing she noticed about you then shes vane and obviously we don't want a vane woman... With vanity comes a huge self worth problem. Usually stemming from her parents. Which means your gonna have to path her up more then the **ing Titanic needed. Agreed, I'd prefer someone who had something with a little substance to say. Compliments are great but I'm more interested in being understood. #3: If the girl shows a huge amount of cleavage in her display pictures, I know this is hard to do but press the back button and go some where else. Obviously she thinks that's all shes worth "Eye candy" since she wants to put her self out there that way. More then likely shes a clinger and overly needy. Now theres nothing wrong with a woman or her needs but like us if its overdone this is a turn off and a sign an impending failure waiting to happen, leaving you heart broken and shattered. The cleavage shots always strike me as desperate and pathetic. Of course, I'm not a boob guy, so a cleavage pic is just slightly less likely to draw me in than a pic of a wombat wearing a kimono. #4: if a woman always listens to her mom, get the ** out now while you can. There is nothing wrong with taking advice but the moment the mother decides she doesn't like you "which 9/10 she will hate you guts simply because her daughter likes you" life will become a living hell, you cant defeat there madness so just walk away while you still can and not get hurt. One of the bizarre things that I've noticed in past relationships is that their mothers almost always end up liking me more than my girlfriends do. This is just wrong, and indicates that the world is a completely messed-up place. Finally #5: If the girl you love/like or w/e never seems to have any thing to talk about and you find your self wanting to talk more but cant think of what to say. Walk away. Obviously the mental summation has worn off and while you make like/love her she obviously is a closed Pandora's box and that's again to much work for the ending result of absolute pain. I never ever have any trouble coming up with something to say. But most of my exes had the intellectual/conversational skills of a 17th century umbrella stand, so things ended up being boring and one-sided. And, after three months, all any of them wanted to talk about was how much they needed to have a baby.

NicholasDDuncan Joined Fri 12/10/10 Posts: 67	Sat 02/11/12 06:43 PM
#1: When you first start talking to a girl and she asks you about your parents, If your like me they recently offed them selves and well this doesn't come across well to women as far as the ideals of your possible sanity goes. just say there doing well, technically they are since there issues are no longer bothering them. My parents have been dead for many years, so conversation on that subject is usually very brief. #2: When she immediately starts the conversation with your cute "Or any other variance of the term", add her to your ignore list immediately! The reason for this is simple, if that's the first and probably only thing she noticed about you then shes vane and obviously we don't want a vane woman... With vanity comes a huge self worth problem. Usually stemming from her parents. Which means your gonna have to path her up more then the **ing Titanic needed. Agreed, I'd prefer someone who had something with a little substance to say. Compliments are great but I'm more interested in being understood. #3: If the girl shows a huge amount of cleavage in her display pictures, I know this is hard to do but press the back button and go some where else. Obviously she thinks that's all shes worth "Eye candy" since she wants to put her self out there that way. More then likely shes a clinger and overly needy. Now theres nothing wrong with a woman or her needs but like us if its overdone this is a turn off and a sign an impending failure waiting to happen, leaving you heart broken and shattered. The cleavage shots always strike me as desperate and pathetic. Of course, I'm not a boob guy, so a cleavage pic is just slightly less likely to draw me in than a pic of a wombat wearing a kimono. #4: if a woman always listens to her mom, get the ** out now while you can. There is nothing wrong with taking advice but the moment the mother decides she doesn't like you "which 9/10 she will hate you guts simply because her daughter likes you" life will become a living hell, you cant defeat there madness so just walk away while you still can and not get hurt. One of the bizarre things that I've noticed in past relationships is that their mothers almost always end up liking me more than my girlfriends do. This is just wrong, and indicates that the world is a completely messed-up place. Finally #5: If the girl you love/like or w/e never seems to have any thing to talk about and you find your self wanting to talk more but cant think of what to say. Walk away. Obviously the mental summation has worn off and while you make like/love her she obviously is a closed Pandora's box and that's again to much work for the ending result of absolute pain. I never ever have any trouble coming up with something to say. But most of my exes had the intellectual/conversational skills of a 17th century umbrella stand, so things ended up being boring and one-sided. And, after three months, all any of them wanted to talk about was how much they needed to have a baby. I like your thoughts and comparisons, good work. The mother thing is a hit and miss sort, it really depends on you and them ofcourse. But i've noticed that allot of men even myself, have problems with the mothers, the fathers np at all.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/11/12 06:46 PM
#3: If the girl shows a huge amount of cleavage in her display pictures, I know this is hard to do but press the back button and go some where else. Dammit! Show the cleavage, don't show the cleavage. Will you guys make up your frikken minds? I never laughed so much - kinda feel sorry for him (OP) and I know I would need a PhD to remember all his rules OP if it were that easy to put people into little boxes you might be saying something - mostly you sound like you're dissing women and on a dating site???? might not be a functional plan on a DATING site (the negative attitude)where idea is to meet and ATTRACT women but at least you're honest sorry to hear about your folks

NicholasDDuncan Joined Fri 12/10/10 Posts: 67	Sat 02/11/12 06:50 PM
#3: If the girl shows a huge amount of cleavage in her display pictures, I know this is hard to do but press the back button and go some where else. Dammit! Show the cleavage, don't show the cleavage. Will you guys make up your frikken minds? I never laughed so much - kinda feel sorry for him (OP) and I know I would need a PhD to remember all his rules OP if it were that easy to put people into little boxes you might be saying something - mostly you sound like you're dissing women and on a dating site???? might not be a functional plan on a DATING site (the negative attitude)where idea is to meet and ATTRACT women but at least you're honest sorry to hear about your folks I can respect your point and thank you. No there are acceptions to these rules. But from my personal stand point these are my own HAHA LOL. Simple notes to myself being shared with others. I might have a problem with women, its possible. But only because well Ive never cheated and yet Ive been hurt more times then I can even count.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/11/12 06:51 PM
#1: When you first start talking to a girl and she asks you about your parents, If your like me they recently offed them selves and well this doesn't come across well to women as far as the ideals of your possible sanity goes. just say there doing well, technically they are since there issues are no longer bothering them. My parents have been dead for many years, so conversation on that subject is usually very brief. #2: When she immediately starts the conversation with your cute "Or any other variance of the term", add her to your ignore list immediately! The reason for this is simple, if that's the first and probably only thing she noticed about you then shes vane and obviously we don't want a vane woman... With vanity comes a huge self worth problem. Usually stemming from her parents. Which means your gonna have to path her up more then the **ing Titanic needed. Agreed, I'd prefer someone who had something with a little substance to say. Compliments are great but I'm more interested in being understood. #3: If the girl shows a huge amount of cleavage in her display pictures, I know this is hard to do but press the back button and go some where else. Obviously she thinks that's all shes worth "Eye candy" since she wants to put her self out there that way. More then likely shes a clinger and overly needy. Now theres nothing wrong with a woman or her needs but like us if its overdone this is a turn off and a sign an impending failure waiting to happen, leaving you heart broken and shattered. The cleavage shots always strike me as desperate and pathetic. Of course, I'm not a boob guy, so a cleavage pic is just slightly less likely to draw me in than a pic of a wombat wearing a kimono. #4: if a woman always listens to her mom, get the ** out now while you can. There is nothing wrong with taking advice but the moment the mother decides she doesn't like you "which 9/10 she will hate you guts simply because her daughter likes you" life will become a living hell, you cant defeat there madness so just walk away while you still can and not get hurt. One of the bizarre things that I've noticed in past relationships is that their mothers almost always end up liking me more than my girlfriends do. This is just wrong, and indicates that the world is a completely messed-up place. Finally #5: If the girl you love/like or w/e never seems to have any thing to talk about and you find your self wanting to talk more but cant think of what to say. Walk away. Obviously the mental summation has worn off and while you make like/love her she obviously is a closed Pandora's box and that's again to much work for the ending result of absolute pain. I never ever have any trouble coming up with something to say. But most of my exes had the intellectual/conversational skills of a 17th century umbrella stand, so things ended up being boring and one-sided. And, after three months, all any of them wanted to talk about was how much they needed to have a baby. Theresa Marie up there has chosen this for the first date. She has asked you assist in dressing her.....

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/11/12 06:56 PM
#3: If the girl shows a huge amount of cleavage in her display pictures, I know this is hard to do but press the back button and go some where else. Dammit! Show the cleavage, don't show the cleavage. Will you guys make up your frikken minds? I never laughed so much - kinda feel sorry for him (OP) and I know I would need a PhD to remember all his rules OP if it were that easy to put people into little boxes you might be saying something - mostly you sound like you're dissing women and on a dating site???? might not be a functional plan on a DATING site (the negative attitude)where idea is to meet and ATTRACT women but at least you're honest sorry to hear about your folks I can respect your point and thank you. No there are acceptions to these rules. But from my personal stand point these are my own HAHA LOL. Simple notes to myself being shared with others. I might have a problem with women, its possible. But only because well Ive never cheated and yet Ive been hurt more times then I can even count. {{{hugs x 100}}} for the OP - please feel better soon! we all have our good & bad points there are certain traits in guys I avoid as well doesn't mean I don't like men just as I am sure you do like some women - it is hard to learn to heal and to trust - but u can {{{1 more hug for the road}}}

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 02/11/12 06:57 PM
Can you print me out a copy? I forgot my notebook in the other classroom.

NicholasDDuncan Joined Fri 12/10/10 Posts: 67	Sat 02/11/12 07:07 PM
LMFAO u guys are hilarious ((HUGS BACK)))

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/11/12 07:24 PM
well we'd be organized too if Totage wasn't so slutty and forgetful

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 02/11/12 07:45 PM
True story!

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Sat 02/11/12 07:48 PM
#1: When you first start talking to a girl and she asks you about your parents, If your like me they recently offed them selves and well this doesn't come across well to women as far as the ideals of your possible sanity goes. just say there doing well, technically they are since there issues are no longer bothering them. My parents have been dead for many years, so conversation on that subject is usually very brief. #2: When she immediately starts the conversation with your cute "Or any other variance of the term", add her to your ignore list immediately! The reason for this is simple, if that's the first and probably only thing she noticed about you then shes vane and obviously we don't want a vane woman... With vanity comes a huge self worth problem. Usually stemming from her parents. Which means your gonna have to path her up more then the **ing Titanic needed. Agreed, I'd prefer someone who had something with a little substance to say. Compliments are great but I'm more interested in being understood. #3: If the girl shows a huge amount of cleavage in her display pictures, I know this is hard to do but press the back button and go some where else. Obviously she thinks that's all shes worth "Eye candy" since she wants to put her self out there that way. More then likely shes a clinger and overly needy. Now theres nothing wrong with a woman or her needs but like us if its overdone this is a turn off and a sign an impending failure waiting to happen, leaving you heart broken and shattered. The cleavage shots always strike me as desperate and pathetic. Of course, I'm not a boob guy, so a cleavage pic is just slightly less likely to draw me in than a pic of a wombat wearing a kimono. #4: if a woman always listens to her mom, get the ** out now while you can. There is nothing wrong with taking advice but the moment the mother decides she doesn't like you "which 9/10 she will hate you guts simply because her daughter likes you" life will become a living hell, you cant defeat there madness so just walk away while you still can and not get hurt. One of the bizarre things that I've noticed in past relationships is that their mothers almost always end up liking me more than my girlfriends do. This is just wrong, and indicates that the world is a completely messed-up place. Finally #5: If the girl you love/like or w/e never seems to have any thing to talk about and you find your self wanting to talk more but cant think of what to say. Walk away. Obviously the mental summation has worn off and while you make like/love her she obviously is a closed Pandora's box and that's again to much work for the ending result of absolute pain. I never ever have any trouble coming up with something to say. But most of my exes had the intellectual/conversational skills of a 17th century umbrella stand, so things ended up being boring and one-sided. And, after three months, all any of them wanted to talk about was how much they needed to have a baby. Theresa Marie up there has chosen this for the first date. She has asked you assist in dressing her..... No problem! I hope she likes Arby's....!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/11/12 07:51 PM
somehow a kimono seems overdressed for Arby's but ask her...I don;t speak Wombat

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 02/11/12 07:53 PM
I took wombatinese as a foreign language.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/11/12 07:55 PM
I took wombatinese as a foreign language. well u better make sure she doesn't want to have babies we're all tired of hearing Lex whine about dates who talk about their "need to breed"

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 02/11/12 07:58 PM
She says she loves children, preferably with BBQ dipping sauce.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/11/12 08:03 PM
She says she loves children, preferably with BBQ dipping sauce. makes great finger paint OOO Lex has latched onto a hot one loves kimonos and artistic too!!