YO big ladies you should all talk to me because i love you all at lest when i give you a great big hug i wont breack you write to me if you like my pro my for know

people who have to put others down really bother me. I still go through that. You are gonna find a man who will worship you. someone who wont cheat or do u wrong. all those girls who were mean to you will end up with jerks and guys who abuse them. it's all karma sweetie. what goes around comes around twice as hard.

everyone thats writing horrible stuff really needs to stop. i wont lie. i have lost forty pounds.. and im only eighteen. now im healthy!! the one thing that made me take off the weight was support from my friends and my family! there is no shame in being a big girl!!!

Thats a good point, Racing! People who maliciously mock heavy people may undermine that person's weight loss effort.

size makes no differnce to me it's desire and caring that matter to me

Big people...Little people...Tall people...Skinny people...Short people have one thing in common...We are ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL people and we all need love regardless...Don't let others bring you down...Have confidence in who YOU are and love will find you!!!!!!!!!

People with health problems needs love too

Ugly monkey lovers need love, too, love and lots of chocolate. :)

Sorry ladies I shoulda put an etc on the end of my post!!!!!!

it's ok...even girls with nasty filled balloons needs love

This is true...Well a woman can't think of everything ya know!!!!!!

It is really sad that someone would go out of their way to insult someone else.....good for you for sticking up for yourself! You are worth it!!!!!!!

bbw rule lol hi am babs,i am not a barbie doll lol,but i have fun

Lorraine,

I would not be surpise that person, who is actually sending thoses unsolicited e-mails, is a minor. The fact, that she/he is sending them to multiple parties also suggest this.

Regardless, if she is a minor or not, if she/he is old enough to create a profile & send e-mails, then she/he should know what she/he is doing is wrong. I hope that you have reported this person.

Rambill,

You wrote the following post:
"do i want a woman whose kneees are always blowing out? who eats as much as three other people? who has a pile of health issues because she refuses to take care of herself, and instead lays a guilt trip on anyone who mentions that she has a problem? I want my girl to be around long enough to enjoy our grandchildern. its not being shallow, its just common sense. sorryaboutit. If a person loves themselves, they will take care of themselves.:"

"my point is that there are reasons behind someone not wanting to date them, its not automatically shallow thinking to want someone thin."

1st and foremost, obesity is caused by many different factors including: genetics, medical, nutrition, and exercise. It is a common misnomer that obesity is a result of people who do not take care of themselves properly as you so crudely noted above.

Granted, nutrition and exercise are important, but rarely do they cause obesity in themselves only. There are many things that cause obesity including a person's medication, underactive/inactive thyroid, DNA, and etc. In most cases, a persons obesity is caused by genetics and/or medical conditions with poor nutrition and exercise compounding the effect.

Yes, you are correct that a person natural physical attraction to individuals that fit a particualr criteria is not necessary shallow, but your comments critizing anyone that would fall into the category of obese is insulting and shallow.

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To everyone:

Society's concept of beauty may be limited, but as individuals we can open our minds to find beauty everywhere.

Great post, Alexia.

Lorraine, stay sexy!

well rambill i respect your preferences but not all are fat because of eating....so shove your tread mill up your ass.

sorry alexi i didnt read your whole pot.well said.mines the New England version lol