Topic: Date in another STATE?
Down2earthdebbie's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:03 PM


Why on Earth would a guy go all the way to another State just to see you take you out on a Date?
Damn I know I wouldn't do that for a guy......... I mean the guy is really HOT! He has his **** together
Women are everywhere........ slaphead oops


How far is "all the way to another state?" Around here, some states are close by, so it wouldn't be a big deal at all.
Michigan....... we have been talking for months he's not a perv of anything he's coming to San
Diego for work, but still flying to Sac to see me......

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Tue 01/24/12 02:04 PM



Why on Earth would a guy go all the way to another State just to see you take you out on a Date?
Damn I know I wouldn't do that for a guy......... I mean the guy is really HOT! He has his **** together
Women are everywhere........ slaphead oops


How far is "all the way to another state?" Around here, some states are close by, so it wouldn't be a big deal at all.
Michigan....... we have been talking for months he's not a perv of anything he's coming to San
Diego for work, but still flying to Sac to see me......


So he's coming to your state for work and you're wondering why he's coming to see you? Why?

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:23 PM




Why on Earth would a guy go all the way to another State just to see you take you out on a Date?
Damn I know I wouldn't do that for a guy......... I mean the guy is really HOT! He has his **** together
Women are everywhere........ slaphead oops


How far is "all the way to another state?" Around here, some states are close by, so it wouldn't be a big deal at all.
Michigan....... we have been talking for months he's not a perv of anything he's coming to San
Diego for work, but still flying to Sac to see me......


So he's coming to your state for work and you're wondering why he's coming to see you? Why?

MariahsFantasy's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:24 PM


If money weren't an issue, would people be a little more open-minded?


I don't think it matters. A lot of people want to stay entrenched in their comfort zone. Moving out of it scares them enough that they will look for reasons to find fault in it.


Yeah I think its fear I also think its personal reasons. Maybe they have family/kids keeping them there. Whatever it may be. I don't have really anything keeping me planted here for very long. I complain about my area to no end. I could go anywhere if I had the green.

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:26 PM





Why on Earth would a guy go all the way to another State just to see you take you out on a Date?
Damn I know I wouldn't do that for a guy......... I mean the guy is really HOT! He has his **** together
Women are everywhere........ slaphead oops


How far is "all the way to another state?" Around here, some states are close by, so it wouldn't be a big deal at all.
Michigan....... we have been talking for months he's not a perv of anything he's coming to San
Diego for work, but still flying to Sac to see me......


So he's coming to your state for work and you're wondering why he's coming to see you? Why?

Not sure maybe I should be asking him this question......He wants to take me on a DATE!!!
He texts me everyday.........I know he's not ever going to move here........& I'm stuck here for a while....
just seems strange?

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Tue 01/24/12 02:29 PM






Why on Earth would a guy go all the way to another State just to see you take you out on a Date?
Damn I know I wouldn't do that for a guy......... I mean the guy is really HOT! He has his **** together
Women are everywhere........ slaphead oops


How far is "all the way to another state?" Around here, some states are close by, so it wouldn't be a big deal at all.
Michigan....... we have been talking for months he's not a perv of anything he's coming to San
Diego for work, but still flying to Sac to see me......


So he's coming to your state for work and you're wondering why he's coming to see you? Why?

Not sure maybe I should be asking him this question......He wants to take me on a DATE!!!
He texts me everyday.........I know he's not ever going to move here........& I'm stuck here for a while....
just seems strange?


Do you get along with him? Do you even like him? Sounds like you do if you're in contact with him this much. Why not go out with him? It doesn't have to be a serious thing. If someone I talked to quite a bit was coming here for work, I'd definitely want to see them. It also sounds like you're over thinking it.

justme659's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:39 PM
It is just a date. Only a date. He is in town, wants to meet you, have conversation and a meal. Whats the question again? He is not asking you to marry him, have his kids or buy him a car. Say to yourself, it is just a date.


Down2earthdebbie's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:43 PM

It is just a date. Only a date. He is in town, wants to meet you, have conversation and a meal. Whats the question again? He is not asking you to marry him, have his kids or buy him a car. Say to yourself, it is just a date.


He has to fly from San Diego to Sac........ Yes I am probably over thinking it? He is after all my
Friend...flowerforyou

ujGearhead's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:44 PM






Why on Earth would a guy go all the way to another State just to see you take you out on a Date?
Damn I know I wouldn't do that for a guy......... I mean the guy is really HOT! He has his **** together
Women are everywhere........ slaphead oops


How far is "all the way to another state?" Around here, some states are close by, so it wouldn't be a big deal at all.
Michigan....... we have been talking for months he's not a perv of anything he's coming to San
Diego for work, but still flying to Sac to see me......


So he's coming to your state for work and you're wondering why he's coming to see you? Why?

Not sure maybe I should be asking him this question......He wants to take me on a DATE!!!
He texts me everyday.........I know he's not ever going to move here........& I'm stuck here for a while....
just seems strange?


Meeting up to hang out for a bit is one thing. Going on a 'date' would be.....fairly pointless then. Unless he's just hoping to get a little action.....

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:46 PM







Why on Earth would a guy go all the way to another State just to see you take you out on a Date?
Damn I know I wouldn't do that for a guy......... I mean the guy is really HOT! He has his **** together
Women are everywhere........ slaphead oops


How far is "all the way to another state?" Around here, some states are close by, so it wouldn't be a big deal at all.
Michigan....... we have been talking for months he's not a perv of anything he's coming to San
Diego for work, but still flying to Sac to see me......


So he's coming to your state for work and you're wondering why he's coming to see you? Why?

Not sure maybe I should be asking him this question......He wants to take me on a DATE!!!
He texts me everyday.........I know he's not ever going to move here........& I'm stuck here for a while....
just seems strange?


Meeting up to hang out for a bit is one thing. Going on a 'date' would be.....fairly pointless then. Unless he's just hoping to get a little action..... Ummmm I am sure there will be some action! LoL ....

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Tue 01/24/12 02:50 PM







Why on Earth would a guy go all the way to another State just to see you take you out on a Date?
Damn I know I wouldn't do that for a guy......... I mean the guy is really HOT! He has his **** together
Women are everywhere........ slaphead oops


How far is "all the way to another state?" Around here, some states are close by, so it wouldn't be a big deal at all.
Michigan....... we have been talking for months he's not a perv of anything he's coming to San
Diego for work, but still flying to Sac to see me......


So he's coming to your state for work and you're wondering why he's coming to see you? Why?

Not sure maybe I should be asking him this question......He wants to take me on a DATE!!!
He texts me everyday.........I know he's not ever going to move here........& I'm stuck here for a while....
just seems strange?


Meeting up to hang out for a bit is one thing. Going on a 'date' would be.....fairly pointless then. Unless he's just hoping to get a little action.....


Don't call it a date, then. Meet up with the friend and have a good time.

winterblue56's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:58 PM

If money weren't an issue, would people be a little more open-minded?


Yep! I'd be flying all over meeting people laugh .

winterblue56's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:58 PM
Edited by winterblue56 on Tue 01/24/12 03:03 PM

If money weren't an issue, would people be a little more open-minded?


Yep! I'd be flying all over meeting people laugh

Did I say that twice??? :wink:

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:58 PM








Why on Earth would a guy go all the way to another State just to see you take you out on a Date?
Damn I know I wouldn't do that for a guy......... I mean the guy is really HOT! He has his **** together
Women are everywhere........ slaphead oops


How far is "all the way to another state?" Around here, some states are close by, so it wouldn't be a big deal at all.
Michigan....... we have been talking for months he's not a perv of anything he's coming to San
Diego for work, but still flying to Sac to see me......


So he's coming to your state for work and you're wondering why he's coming to see you? Why?

Not sure maybe I should be asking him this question......He wants to take me on a DATE!!!
He texts me everyday.........I know he's not ever going to move here........& I'm stuck here for a while....
just seems strange?


Meeting up to hang out for a bit is one thing. Going on a 'date' would be.....fairly pointless then. Unless he's just hoping to get a little action.....


Don't call it a date, then. Meet up with the friend and have a good time.
Your cute!! All-righty drinker :wink:

MariahsFantasy's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:59 PM


If money weren't an issue, would people be a little more open-minded?


Yep! I'd be flying all over meeting people laugh .


bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

winterblue56's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:59 PM


I believe, Sweet, she lives somewhere near the Bay area of California.

With that said..

It'd be a pretty freaking sweet ride to get to Nevada, which I think is the closest...


Driving to CA from PA next month. drinker


Well...it's about fliggin time!! laugh drinker

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Tue 01/24/12 05:00 PM
I don't think it matters. If there is something there worth fighting for, I say go for it.

I went from Texas to Canada for someone once, and then I got stuck to boot. So the thought of distance does not bother me. Life is challenge sometimes, and to have what you want, distance may become that challenge.

krupa's photo
Tue 01/24/12 05:13 PM
I have flown from Texas to Oregon twice for dates and they were worth it! Using my income tax co fly out there again too

Sure there are plenty of good looking and really cool women here (Abilene, Texas)...but, I fell in love with a woman in Oregon. I am done settling for less...I will gladly fly halfway across the country for the best damn love I have had.

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Tue 01/24/12 09:04 PM

I have flown from Texas to Oregon twice for dates and they were worth it! Using my income tax co fly out there again too

Sure there are plenty of good looking and really cool women here (Abilene, Texas)...but, I fell in love with a woman in Oregon. I am done settling for less...I will gladly fly halfway across the country for the best damn love I have had.
COOL that's really great!!! Ya if I have any doubts he is very reassuring! I am going for it.....
If anything I'm sure we'll always be friends! biggrin :thumbsup:

ujGearhead's photo
Tue 01/24/12 09:15 PM



I believe, Sweet, she lives somewhere near the Bay area of California.

With that said..

It'd be a pretty freaking sweet ride to get to Nevada, which I think is the closest...


Driving to CA from PA next month. drinker


Well...it's about fliggin time!! laugh drinker


Ya, well, I never claimed to be the most timely person.....laugh