Topic: Should u tell men straight out u hav kids? | |
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I think you have to be someone special to raise somebody else's children. If you don't have it, might as well wait till you have your own. That's only my opinion.
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aw well i could of gotten some flowers too lol
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You should always be honest right away about having kids...Any man that can't except you having kids is never worth it anyway...So let them run!!!!!!!!!
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happy now hbk? |
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yepperz
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Drinks inlieu of flowers
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I've never ran into that problem. The men I dated always accepted my kids as they did them. But yeah always up front never start a realationship based on lies from the beginning.
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well my x had a 3 year old when i met her
so not all run |
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well i'm upfront and some men can't handle kids or fat funny peopl.God Bless em .
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i've no problems getting dates...and i have kids. (for the record, i DON'T date, lol)
they are a part of me...i can't imagine not talking about them. a man has the absolute right to choose not to be with a woman with kids...and frankly, if he does NOT want them...i don't want him around MINE. |
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all good answers... hummmmmmmm... not all the guys run... but it does hurt when they are not up front about not liking kids.. just to get into bed with u... and never hear from them again.. what is wrong with me???? i think im smart.. and funny... is it just me???? don't know.... will have to think about it...
kids or me hummmmmmmmm |
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Just a little suggestion if you don't mind. I just looked at your profile and you have no info on who you are or anything in your life. It might help if you touch up on that so who ever looks at your profile might get an idea about you and wont be surprised that you have kids.
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i will do that... that might help... very good answer... ty
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well true men lying to get a woman into bed is as old as the hills.Somebody lie to me quick!!
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trueokie2 I see your new to this site. Welcome and I hope you find what your looking for :)
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thank you shadow... hav updated my profile... and thanks
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I always say that I have kids, cuz they are one of the biggest parts of who I am.If a woman is turned off by the fact that I have kids, thenthats just tough crap, I wouldn't want to get to know that person.
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trueokie2,nice job and if that don't get them. Let me know Ill take care of it lol
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thats why i say im looking for a guy with kids. cause he'll understand me more and get where im coming from. a single guy really shouldnt have a ready made family thrown at him unless he is really ready!!!
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Viva and ya'll Ladies
Any man worth anything will accept your kids and love them if he really loves you.. You see, I have and will date single Moms., not that i've dated much... You have to accept everything.. If ya'll not man enough for that, then keep looking.. They are not worth your time.... This is IMHO... |
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