i have ask myself this question countless times,women falls inlove with men easily.how do one know when a man is in love?what are the signs?

He stops sleeping with other women. LOL.

You'll know, because there's one tail tell sign:

He might often be confused with a stalker. :D

Or he stops thinking about sleeping with other women

I really don't know but I guess he would tell me with his words and show me in his actions...

your picture is his screensaver

when you call he steps away from his friends to talk

he starts buying buy one get one free items and gives you one

and most importantly, you meet his momma

That is the easiest thing in the world. The mind is for the purpose of human behavior, present and future.

When he tries to make a future with you.

Thus, one can measure the depth of love, by how far into the future two can plan and work towards together.

he can watch a chick flick with you without jumping out of the nearest window before the ending

ya know you and I normally clash but not this time.

That is so TRUE. I am a huge Katherine Heigl fan (sp) and he doesn't roll his eyes and go lock himself in the bedroom listening to baseball on the radio when I watch "Knocked Up" for the billionth time and explain all the Canadian references because I dated someone in BC and did not notice them before, he loves me. I tell him, "Katherine is hot and I don't care if you lust her as long as you bring to your sexual frustration to bed with me".

Also, they suddenly care if you have adequate groceries and toilet paper and gas in your car.

They start looking at Maslov's Hierarchy of basic needs and try to fill in any spots they see empty in the triangle.

And also as John says, they all of sudden start talking about you as if you are definitely in their future. They suddenly when they buy a car take into consideration that they should look for a sporty LOOKING four seater instead of their usually real sports car two seater because you want children. They trade in their bike for one with a more substantial biotch seat because they want you to have a back rest and handles so they feel you are safer. They start saying things like "NEXT TIME WE........WE SHOULD......." And this could vary from see your mother bring flowers to go to Costco get the giant pack of your favorite razors or vitamins. OR suddenly, things become OURS that were yours or his. He will be talking about his home, "What color do you think I should paint OUR living room?" "What did the vet say was wrong with OUR cat?" "Ya know, in OUR vegetable garden next spring, I think WE should plant onions..."

Heck picture singular. I was one of my recent boyfriend's ENTIRE SLIDE SHOW on his computer.

Oh ya and when they start doing the two for one because in his head, he now HAS a two that he loves and cares about.

AND MEETING HIS MOMMA IS BEYOND LOVE, THAT IS DEVOTION.

He buys you your own protective gear for whatever.........

Helmets and jackets for motorcycles........

Eye and ear protection for the gun range.........

Condoms..........LOL

a Katherine Heigl movie is how they found Osama Bin Laden

there was an on going debate whether Waterboarding while interrogating prisoners was torture or not, and besides this method wasn't getting them the information they seeked,

one of the male interrogators began having flashbacks of how his girlfriend torture him so they decided to show a Katernine Helgi chick flick movie to one of the prisoners in wide screen surround sound in 3D-a-vision with a pair of stereo headphones

the prisoner after viewing the opening credits said ok look I'll tell you where Bin Laden is but first you have to promise to do two things......turn off that freaking movie and bring back waterboarding

double post

He has your name tattooed inside a big red heart on his left bicep .....

Allow me to state the obvious....
Most guys ain't bright enough to realize that they are in love....someone else has to point it out to their dumb@$$es.

But, I ain't just cracking on the guys here....


Everyone this site has a failed past so we are all just winging along blindly an hoping for the best. Some of us actually get lucky.

One thing I know for a fact....boners got nothing to do with love. Took me 40 years to figure that one out.

I have no idea.

That is too true. It's when it transitions that your well being and happiness is suddenly MORE IMPORTANT TO THEM THAN BONERS.

I am happy to say, I have been loved very deeply. A few times. Guys who you would think were completely self centered and the one day, I became the center of their world and they became the center of mine. I admit it, I am often a completely self absorbed brat often more selfish than a lot of guys but when I love someone as in really love someone, THEY ARE WHAT'S IMPORTANT.

And me, I throw around that word. But you can love someone and not be IN love, when I have BEEN IN LOVE, they are my rock, my anchor, my best friend, my favorite person in the universe. I hear people say they don't NEED people. If you are IN LOVE, you do NEED that person because they make your life so amazing to not have them WOULD HURT. It would be like giving up the stars in the sky or the waves in the ocean NOT TO HAVE THEM AROUND.

When suddenly.....He is only hangin out with you
Its a good guess!