Topic: was I right or wrong?
nurjoyce's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:21 PM
hi shadowdog!!

tomokun---it was not exactly 50, you know what i was saying

heart_break_kid--lollaugh

izzie's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:22 PM
shoes!!!!!!!!!!!!:wink:

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:24 PM
yes--izzie sweetie we can go shopping for shoes!!!!!!!!!bigsmile

izzie's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:25 PM
yea!!!
shoees and icecream!!!!!!!!
:wink: laugh bigsmile bigsmile

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:26 PM
yes...shoes and ice cream.....lots of both

Tomokun's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:26 PM
Moi? *Certainly you wouldn't think that I would ask a question just to mess around *flutters eyelashes.

izzie's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:30 PM
no... not you!!!! never you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:wink: laugh :tongue:

Lorraine227's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:31 PM
Did you do the right thing, yes and no!
Some men are anal about time, he seems to be one of them.
understanding that you had a tough day, it was inconsiderate for you to simply forget about him like that, and maybe you should have shutup and let him vent for 2, or 3 minutes, afterwards put the ball in his court on whether or not he wanted to reschedule.

no photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:33 PM
hard to say.

Lorraine227's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:34 PM
no its not!

izzie's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:35 PM
shoes!!

no photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:37 PM

{{{{{Joyce}}}}}flowerforyou

Hope your day was grand and that ***** guy didnt bother you anymore LOL. Well, he was probably looking for attention, get rid of him laugh

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:37 PM
this is what he wrote me tonight:
<<he is starting to grow on me>>>

You met a guy who:

you can laugh with.

shares a strong mutual attraction (I know I wasn't faking it).

is intelligent.

noticed a tatoo you were trying to hide on your left breast.

trying to improve his place in life, despite recent hardships.

can admitt when he's wrong.

is willing and able to work through a problem.

is honest.

lost a loved on in a car accident and was afraid something similar had happened to you when you didn't call.

shared that special glare with you when you first sat down agross from him.

has never cheated and never will.

you trust enough to exchange personal information with.

made a mistake.

and is now going to challenge you:

Your advice to me was to not expect "the next girl" to be perfect. What if you followed your own advice and didn't expect THIS GUY to be perfect?

Would you stay in contact with him? Would you call him?

Balls in your court sweetheart,

Carl

izzie's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:40 PM
aaaggghh!!!

now im confuzed again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile huh huh huh huh
huh huh huh huh
^ caterpiller.. hehe

Tomokun's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:45 PM
Hmmm.huh

I think that if he was being in honest in his last letter, he wouldn't have written this letter. Bah, I could be wrong....what he wrote is very sweet, but ....well if I went back and read the last letter I'd know for sure.grumble

Lorraine227's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:52 PM
Thats rude to share his feeling with all of these people, and women wonder why men don,t show sensitivity!

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 07/20/07 08:55 PM
he is not on this site!!!
no one here knows him.
i am sharing it with my friends for their advice.

Tomokun's photo
Fri 07/20/07 09:12 PM
*Cough* Actually men are sensitive and we show it. It's just you girls have so many emotions...and ALL AT THE SAME TIME! That's crazy to us! Men are Hungry, Horny, Happy, Sad, or Angry. And we only experience one of those at a time. Meanwhile you girls have emotions we don't even have names for, and you experience 16 different ones simultaneously...and they you use emotional language to speak about it!!!sad I don't know how you do it!

Lorraine227's photo
Fri 07/20/07 09:14 PM
well nujoyce, you know he won,t like it, you,re the kind of woman, that give women a bad name!

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 07/20/07 09:16 PM
Lorraine--no i think the kind of woman that gives women a bad name would be the ones who do not post their pics and post i need a hot guy now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!