Topic: Dates: Who should pay?
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Mon 12/19/11 06:42 AM


Hi ladies and gentleman I'm just taking a poll out of curiosity so I know what the dating climate is these days. Who should pay on a date? guy always? always split the check? take turns each consecutive date? or whoever asks for the date? whoever can afford it?

Your feedback is greatly appreciated!


First meet...each pays for their own and when the order is taken (even if it is just coffee or drinks), speak up and ask for separate checks...this takes the responsibility off the man...
As you are starting out in a new relationship, the person who asks for the date pays....
In an established relationship, all of that is, or should be, discussed..who pays, how much money can we afford to spend, where to eat, what to do etc....all discussed...smile2
sounds like a lot of talking to me whoa

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Mon 12/19/11 06:43 AM




I think we should all just send the tab to mano

no more controversy over who pays

problem solvedflowerforyou
shocked noway
flowerforyou waving
yea, try to get on my good side now :angry:


how fortunate that we don;t all know where you live!!!!rofl

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Mon 12/19/11 06:44 AM





I think we should all just send the tab to mano

no more controversy over who pays

problem solvedflowerforyou
shocked noway
flowerforyou waving
yea, try to get on my good side now :angry:


how fortunate that we don;t all know where you live!!!!rofl
AND...you never will pitchfork

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Mon 12/19/11 06:45 AM






I think we should all just send the tab to mano

no more controversy over who pays

problem solvedflowerforyou
shocked noway
flowerforyou waving
yea, try to get on my good side now :angry:


how fortunate that we don;t all know where you live!!!!rofl
AND...you never will pitchfork


prolly a wise idealaugh

you know we wouldn;t do that to you

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Mon 12/19/11 06:48 AM







I think we should all just send the tab to mano

no more controversy over who pays

problem solvedflowerforyou
shocked noway
flowerforyou waving
yea, try to get on my good side now :angry:


how fortunate that we don;t all know where you live!!!!rofl
AND...you never will pitchfork


prolly a wise idealaugh

you know we wouldn;t do that to you
yea...you know it's hard to get blood out of a turnip, don't you? pitchfork

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Mon 12/19/11 08:09 AM


A first date; I insist on going dutch. Guess that's why I don't get a second date. bigsmile


Well, if you're making them take you all the way to the Netherlands, I can see why they might not ask a second time. ohwell


You are so right. Next time it will only be Disneyland. laugh

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Mon 12/19/11 08:12 AM

The guy should pay. Its not about owing, or being fair. . Its called chivalry. . And you call yourself a man!


Just because a guy doesn't pay for the first date that doesn't mean he is not a man. That is certainly an unfair statement. huh

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Mon 12/19/11 08:18 AM


<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys frustrated

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Mon 12/19/11 09:21 AM



<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys frustrated
laugh

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Mon 12/19/11 09:38 AM




<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys frustrated
laugh


Isn't that funny? rofl

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Mon 12/19/11 09:40 AM





<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys frustrated
laugh


Isn't that funny? rofl
YOU can pay for our date bigsmile

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Mon 12/19/11 09:54 AM






<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys frustrated
laugh


Isn't that funny? rofl
YOU can pay for our date bigsmile


Sure as long as you will be willing to spend a couple of thousand dollars to be at the venue tongue2

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Mon 12/19/11 09:55 AM






<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys frustrated
laugh


Isn't that funny? rofl
YOU can pay for our date bigsmile


And Newg honey, make sure you bring your mom on the date....Safely in numbers...:wink:

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Mon 12/19/11 09:57 AM







<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys frustrated
laugh


Isn't that funny? rofl
YOU can pay for our date bigsmile


Sure as long as you will be willing to spend a couple of thousand dollars to be at the venue tongue2
uhhhhh...I thought we have our date...HERE whoa

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Mon 12/19/11 09:57 AM







<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys frustrated
laugh


Isn't that funny? rofl
YOU can pay for our date bigsmile


And Newg honey, make sure you bring your mom on the date....Safely in numbers...:wink:
threesome drool

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Mon 12/19/11 10:08 AM



threesome drool


LOL awesome!

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Mon 12/19/11 10:09 AM
flowerforyou

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Mon 12/19/11 10:13 AM

flowerforyou


oopsYou be careful Dove...

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Tue 12/20/11 06:47 AM


Hi ladies and gentleman I'm just taking a poll out of curiosity so I know what the dating climate is these days. Who should pay on a date? guy always? always split the check? take turns each consecutive date? or whoever asks for the date? whoever can afford it?

Your feedback is greatly appreciated!


First meet...each pays for their own and when the order is taken (even if it is just coffee or drinks), speak up and ask for separate checks...this takes the responsibility off the man...
As you are starting out in a new relationship, the person who asks for the date pays....
In an established relationship, all of that is, or should be, discussed..who pays, how much money can we afford to spend, where to eat, what to do etc....all discussed...smile2


I think if that works for you it's fine, but the same thing isn't going to work for everyone, necessarily. Some men might be offended by you asking for separate checks, some might be relieved. I don;t think that's something I would do if HE has made the invite - I'd feel like it was too controlling

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Tue 12/20/11 06:49 AM








I think we should all just send the tab to mano

no more controversy over who pays

problem solvedflowerforyou
shocked noway
flowerforyou waving
yea, try to get on my good side now :angry:


how fortunate that we don;t all know where you live!!!!rofl
AND...you never will pitchfork


prolly a wise idealaugh

you know we wouldn;t do that to you
yea...you know it's hard to get blood out of a turnip, don't you? pitchfork


well since I do not want blood from a turnip I guess we're OK