Topic: Dates: Who should pay? | |
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Hi ladies and gentleman I'm just taking a poll out of curiosity so I know what the dating climate is these days. Who should pay on a date? guy always? always split the check? take turns each consecutive date? or whoever asks for the date? whoever can afford it? Your feedback is greatly appreciated! First meet...each pays for their own and when the order is taken (even if it is just coffee or drinks), speak up and ask for separate checks...this takes the responsibility off the man... As you are starting out in a new relationship, the person who asks for the date pays.... In an established relationship, all of that is, or should be, discussed..who pays, how much money can we afford to spend, where to eat, what to do etc....all discussed... |
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I think we should all just send the tab to mano no more controversy over who pays problem solved how fortunate that we don;t all know where you live!!!! |
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I think we should all just send the tab to mano no more controversy over who pays problem solved how fortunate that we don;t all know where you live!!!! |
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I think we should all just send the tab to mano no more controversy over who pays problem solved how fortunate that we don;t all know where you live!!!! prolly a wise idea you know we wouldn;t do that to you |
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I think we should all just send the tab to mano no more controversy over who pays problem solved how fortunate that we don;t all know where you live!!!! prolly a wise idea you know we wouldn;t do that to you |
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A first date; I insist on going dutch. Guess that's why I don't get a second date. Well, if you're making them take you all the way to the Netherlands, I can see why they might not ask a second time. You are so right. Next time it will only be Disneyland. |
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The guy should pay. Its not about owing, or being fair. . Its called chivalry. . And you call yourself a man! Just because a guy doesn't pay for the first date that doesn't mean he is not a man. That is certainly an unfair statement. |
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<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys |
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<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys |
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<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys Isn't that funny? |
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<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys Isn't that funny? |
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<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys Isn't that funny? Sure as long as you will be willing to spend a couple of thousand dollars to be at the venue |
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<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys Isn't that funny? And Newg honey, make sure you bring your mom on the date....Safely in numbers... |
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<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys Isn't that funny? Sure as long as you will be willing to spend a couple of thousand dollars to be at the venue |
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<--- always pays regardless who asked for the date cause she is destined to meet ONLY the poor guys Isn't that funny? And Newg honey, make sure you bring your mom on the date....Safely in numbers... |
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threesome LOL awesome! |
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You be careful Dove... |
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Hi ladies and gentleman I'm just taking a poll out of curiosity so I know what the dating climate is these days. Who should pay on a date? guy always? always split the check? take turns each consecutive date? or whoever asks for the date? whoever can afford it? Your feedback is greatly appreciated! First meet...each pays for their own and when the order is taken (even if it is just coffee or drinks), speak up and ask for separate checks...this takes the responsibility off the man... As you are starting out in a new relationship, the person who asks for the date pays.... In an established relationship, all of that is, or should be, discussed..who pays, how much money can we afford to spend, where to eat, what to do etc....all discussed... I think if that works for you it's fine, but the same thing isn't going to work for everyone, necessarily. Some men might be offended by you asking for separate checks, some might be relieved. I don;t think that's something I would do if HE has made the invite - I'd feel like it was too controlling |
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I think we should all just send the tab to mano no more controversy over who pays problem solved how fortunate that we don;t all know where you live!!!! prolly a wise idea you know we wouldn;t do that to you well since I do not want blood from a turnip I guess we're OK |
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