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Topic: Generalization topics
prashant01's photo
Sun 11/13/11 01:16 AM
I can understand,it's not easy to avoid generalization every time but I found many people are generalizing unnecessary.

Is it due to the fact that generalization creates more controversy & such topics gets more response?

Few generalized topics I seen here are really unnecessary & funny too.anyone who has fairly balanced thinking will not ever tolerate those thoughts.

To my opinion generalization in any matter always makes injustice to someone somehow.

What do u think?

ybcat1's photo
Sun 11/13/11 01:23 AM

I can understand,it's not easy to avoid generalization every time but I found many people are generalizing unnecessary.

Is it due to the fact that generalization creates more controversy & such topics gets more response?

Few generalized topics I seen here are really unnecessary & funny too.anyone who has fairly balanced thinking will not ever tolerate those thoughts.

To my opinion generalization in any matter always makes injustice to someone somehow.

What do u think?


Would you expound on your thread please sir? Generally what are you saying?

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Sun 11/13/11 01:25 AM
agree

people can acknowledge that they are generalizing for brevity's sake to make a point. and acknowledge that there are exceptions otherwise it is hard to take someone seriously who generalizes frequently

even better use specific examples and avoid generalizing altogether

people who generalize frequently about the opposite gender must not know members of that gender very well, or are expressing frustration of a bad experience

or are just joking around - which it's best to make that clear also

we all do it sometimes though but it's good to be aware


msharmony's photo
Sun 11/13/11 01:50 AM

I can understand,it's not easy to avoid generalization every time but I found many people are generalizing unnecessary.

Is it due to the fact that generalization creates more controversy & such topics gets more response?

Few generalized topics I seen here are really unnecessary & funny too.anyone who has fairly balanced thinking will not ever tolerate those thoughts.

To my opinion generalization in any matter always makes injustice to someone somehow.

What do u think?



perception is reality

so people speak in terms of their 'reality' which is hard to pinpoint by any absolute measure

at this point in my life , I have come to accept that when someone speaks , it is a generalization that is based in their perception of reality resulting from their experiences and influences...


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Sun 11/13/11 01:57 AM
Now, I'm just giving a warning Ok.

Do you know how many general jokes can be thrown at this?

generally speaking of course

prashant01's photo
Sun 11/13/11 01:59 AM


I can understand,it's not easy to avoid generalization every time but I found many people are generalizing unnecessary.

Is it due to the fact that generalization creates more controversy & such topics gets more response?

Few generalized topics I seen here are really unnecessary & funny too.anyone who has fairly balanced thinking will not ever tolerate those thoughts.

To my opinion generalization in any matter always makes injustice to someone somehow.

What do u think?


Would you expound on your thread please sir? Generally what are you saying?

Sure,I will try.

Usually people generalize about genders,age groups,nationalities,religions etc.

Latter two are usually prohibited in public forums as those can create nuisance too.

May be sometimes it is absolutely necessary to refer some particular groups but I see people often posting things like

XXXX national behave like XXXX

or

why men are -----

or

Why women are -----

Even I saw some topics tending to discriminate mental processes like thinking,opinion according to gender.I wonder how is that possible!!

Behavior,thinking,opinions,emotions can never be similar for any group of human society.those are found different even in strictly disciplined military forces.

So I think whenever we are trying to defend,offend or even appreciate some tendencies / characteristics it is not fair to refer
that group wise.








josie68's photo
Sun 11/13/11 02:10 AM
Yep at times people hating something as they put everyone into the same box is a pain in the butt.

I think normally it's not so much that they generalise, its just that they get hurt and then to protect themselves they put everyone with the same characteristics into that little generalisation box.. That way they don't take the changce of it happening again.

For example I would never date anyone who drank, even if it was just on occasion, its not because I believe that everyone has a drinking problem, but after being married and hurt by 2 men who had problems, there was no way I would risk the same thing happening to me again.

prashant01's photo
Sun 11/13/11 02:12 AM

Now, I'm just giving a warning Ok.

Do you know how many general jokes can be thrown at this?

generally speaking of course


If one believes injustice happens through generalization,
then generally speaking no one shall throw joke.Any way if someone do...I expect it to be full of wisdom & humor.flowerforyou

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Sun 11/13/11 02:17 AM
Edited by 42BlackBBW on Sun 11/13/11 02:19 AM
These kind of comments frustrate me more than sweeping generalisations because the comments are personalised to individuals and their experience(s) and some fact. whereas yours are not.

There's obviously more to this than you are letting on and if you don't want to personalise your comments, generalise them laugh

This is a bit of fun, not something that will bring about world peace :smile:.

BTW..isn’t this thread a bit of an oxymoron? You’re generalising about generalising

prashant01's photo
Sun 11/13/11 02:33 AM

For example I would never date anyone who drank, even if it was just on occasion, its not because I believe that everyone has a drinking problem, but after being married and hurt by 2 men who had problems, there was no way I would risk the same thing happening to me again.

hmmm...that's a very fair criteria & that's what your expectations were.It's but natural.

Otherwise if you would have decided that both of my ex were drinkers.one was belonging to community / region / religion / gender / = XYZ
& another was belonging to say ABC
if you are generalizing & deciding that u won't be with anyone from community / region / religion / gender = XYZ or ABC

then it is nothing but just an injustice to them.

I know u very well Josie you will never do that!!

josie68's photo
Sun 11/13/11 02:39 AM


For example I would never date anyone who drank, even if it was just on occasion, its not because I believe that everyone has a drinking problem, but after being married and hurt by 2 men who had problems, there was no way I would risk the same thing happening to me again.

hmmm...that's a very fair criteria & that's what your expectations were.It's but natural.

Otherwise if you would have decided that both of my ex were drinkers.one was belonging to community / region / religion / gender / = XYZ
& another was belonging to say ABC
if you are generalizing & deciding that u won't be with anyone from community / region / religion / gender = XYZ or ABC

then it is nothing but just an injustice to them.

I know u very well Josie you will never do that!!


:wink: My problem is i don't see a problem until it smacks me in the mouth frustrated 'I am always so sure everyone is perfecthappy

prashant01's photo
Sun 11/13/11 02:56 AM

These kind of comments frustrate me more than sweeping generalisations because the comments are personalised to individuals and their experience(s) and some fact. whereas yours are not.

what



There's obviously more to this than you are letting on and if you don't want to personalise your comments, generalise them laugh

personalizing is dangerous laugh laugh
& generalization kills innocent!!


This is a bit of fun, not something that will bring about world peace :smile:.


Yeah...I understand,it is nothing to do with world peace & as I already mentioned religional / regional / communally generalised topics are already taken care of by administrators.


BTW..isn’t this thread a bit of an oxymoron? You’re generalising about generalising
laugh

Yeah...agreed & my first line is the explanation for thislaugh laugh

prashant01's photo
Sun 11/13/11 03:04 AM



For example I would never date anyone who drank, even if it was just on occasion, its not because I believe that everyone has a drinking problem, but after being married and hurt by 2 men who had problems, there was no way I would risk the same thing happening to me again.

hmmm...that's a very fair criteria & that's what your expectations were.It's but natural.

Otherwise if you would have decided that both of my ex were drinkers.one was belonging to community / region / religion / gender / = XYZ
& another was belonging to say ABC
if you are generalizing & deciding that u won't be with anyone from community / region / religion / gender = XYZ or ABC

then it is nothing but just an injustice to them.

I know u very well Josie you will never do that!!


:wink: My problem is i don't see a problem until it smacks me in the mouth frustrated 'I am always so sure everyone is perfecthappy

laugh laugh laugh must say it's a good JOKE!!

if not then....

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
-William Shakespeare


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Sun 11/13/11 03:55 AM


These kind of comments frustrate me more than sweeping generalisations because the comments are personalised to individuals and their experience(s) and some fact. whereas yours are not.

what



There's obviously more to this than you are letting on and if you don't want to personalise your comments, generalise them laugh

personalizing is dangerous laugh laugh
& generalization kills innocent!!


This is a bit of fun, not something that will bring about world peace :smile:.



Yeah...I understand,it is nothing to do with world peace & as I already mentioned religional / regional / communally generalised topics are already taken care of by administrators.


BTW..isn’t this thread a bit of an oxymoron? You’re generalising about generalising
laugh

Yeah...agreed & my first line is the explanation for thislaugh laugh


Apologies Prash, I didn't read your question properly flowerforyou

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 11/13/11 05:54 AM
I have never claimed to be fairly balanced so I guess I make a lot of generalizations. But when you are an extremist like I am balanced is always something to hope for. :smile:

prashant01's photo
Sun 11/13/11 07:31 AM

I have never claimed to be fairly balanced so I guess I make a lot of generalizations. But when you are an extremist like I am balanced is always something to hope for. :smile:


Extremist?? In what way am I?

Do you mean Idealistic?

prashant01's photo
Sun 11/13/11 07:32 AM



These kind of comments frustrate me more than sweeping generalisations because the comments are personalised to individuals and their experience(s) and some fact. whereas yours are not.

what



There's obviously more to this than you are letting on and if you don't want to personalise your comments, generalise them laugh

personalizing is dangerous laugh laugh
& generalization kills innocent!!


This is a bit of fun, not something that will bring about world peace :smile:.



Yeah...I understand,it is nothing to do with world peace & as I already mentioned religional / regional / communally generalised topics are already taken care of by administrators.


BTW..isn’t this thread a bit of an oxymoron? You’re generalising about generalising
laugh

Yeah...agreed & my first line is the explanation for thislaugh laugh


Apologies Prash, I didn't read your question properly flowerforyou


That's Okayhappy flowerforyou

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Sun 11/13/11 07:49 AM


I can understand,it's not easy to avoid generalization every time but I found many people are generalizing unnecessary.

Is it due to the fact that generalization creates more controversy & such topics gets more response?

Few generalized topics I seen here are really unnecessary & funny too.anyone who has fairly balanced thinking will not ever tolerate those thoughts.

To my opinion generalization in any matter always makes injustice to someone somehow.

What do u think?



perception is reality

so people speak in terms of their 'reality' which is hard to pinpoint by any absolute measure

at this point in my life , I have come to accept that when someone speaks , it is a generalization that is based in their perception of reality resulting from their experiences and influences...




I can agree with this and I think we all do it at times. but I also think - depending on the subject, as some of the topics obviously are silly & people are joking - generalizations give an impression that the person making them has not thought through the exceptions, or is ignoring the humanity & individuality of members of a group by saying "all" whomevers do....whatever ....when that is clearly not true

luv2roknroll's photo
Sun 11/13/11 07:49 AM
This is ridiculous!huh

I want to talk to the General!:tongue: laugh laugh

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Sun 11/13/11 07:51 AM

This is ridiculous!huh

I want to talk to the General!:tongue: laugh laugh


he's busy sorting through generalizations - come back tomorrow!

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