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Topic: Can you deal with a WILD past?
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Tue 07/17/07 04:27 PM
Could you remain in dating or be in a relationship with someone who has a rough past?

It can be promiscuous risky sexual past, infidelity, or someone divorced with kids.

Let's be honest.

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I saw the "modern day" forum and I was thinking about if he was bisexual or gay in his past if I could trust him. Just a thought..

Wildone4lyfe's photo
Tue 07/17/07 04:28 PM
I saw "wild" and I had to answer.

Umm what if a guy was an ex porn star?

Wildone4lyfe's photo
Tue 07/17/07 04:29 PM
Who is "tattle telling" now. Probably pepper...

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Tue 07/17/07 04:30 PM
Tough question.............and since Im a widow, with two children........guess that means I have baggage from the past..........but having baggage means you have lived.......or that is my opinion on it......

oldsage's photo
Tue 07/17/07 04:30 PM
There are tests that can be done.

Lot of divorced with kids on thei site, I don't see anything wrong with that. Just don't hide the facts.

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Tue 07/17/07 04:31 PM
flowerforyou Snuggles you know I :heart: you.

I have no stance on this question. It's an open-end question just for people to voice their opinions.

I think your story is incredibly inspiring and beautiful. Any man that doesn't admire or cherish that strength you have is crazy!

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Tue 07/17/07 04:31 PM
I agree oldsage

DemonicaAngel's photo
Tue 07/17/07 04:32 PM
considering my wild past yes, I can deal with someone who also has a wild past. just because you made stupid choices as a younger person doesn't make you a bad person now. I am living proof that people change.

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Tue 07/17/07 04:33 PM
flowerforyou Great for you angel! I think that is wonderful.

"bad" is subjective, so that's touchy to label someone.

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Tue 07/17/07 04:33 PM
well my past makes me who i am today kids and all so if you dont like my past then why even start something with me but to be honest i tell a person my past before i start a relationship with them.

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Tue 07/17/07 04:34 PM
i could be with sum one with a wild past

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Tue 07/17/07 04:34 PM
flowerforyou That's responsible and mature convington.

superstar23's photo
Tue 07/17/07 04:35 PM
Regardless of who you are or where you have been or what you have done i fee that everybody deserves a second chance as long as they are truthful and upfront about it..

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Tue 07/17/07 04:35 PM
Im sorry but there is a limit to a "wild" past...especially since I have children and have to be careful as to who I date....when you have children... I think it is important to be picky about the persons past....its ok if he has a little bit of "bad' side but I definitely would stray away from someone who has had done serious jail time or whatever....

jaydizzle's photo
Tue 07/17/07 04:35 PM
what if you found out your significant other is a child molester?

Pepper2007's photo
Tue 07/17/07 04:35 PM
Anybody that has lived, should have a wild past, I have a degree
and served in the military, yet I,ve been arrested 6 times for disorderly conduct, does that make me a lowlife!

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Tue 07/17/07 04:37 PM
hawaiigurl that is so true and understandable flowerforyou So smart!

joshyfox's photo
Tue 07/17/07 04:37 PM
I think if the past is in the past and will not be popping back up at any point, it is best left forgotten.

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Tue 07/17/07 04:37 PM



I agree with Covington... Your past is your past unless you make it your present...

You either accept the person for whom they are or you don't...

Stanne's photo
Tue 07/17/07 04:38 PM
i suppose it depends on how long ago the past was ???

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