Maybe he has two personalities. One is 54 and one is 33 (makes perfect sense to me for him to be in the 'mental health' field in that case). Then maybe the 54 y/o is the Marine and the 33 y/o was dating the 24 y/o? I just wonder which one of him is "Looking for a petiet woman" and hopefully he knows what a petiet is, cause I sure don't.

Thanks Leigh. When I am feeling my worse; I just have to be thankful that its only pain and that I didn't end up in a wheelchair or worse dead. Overall; I can't really complain as life is so precious to me.

Good for you!!! Best way! Put it behind you and move on to better things..I never want to become cynical...Peeps are good until they "prove to me" otherwise...It's what works for me.....Life is very precious and must not be wasted on that which we cannot change! Luv you girl!!

why would anyone spend the time to create a fake page

In your profile you said:

I guess you can say I have no baggage.

But your post above says quite the opposite. You are obviously hurt and angry because you adopted a 24 year old girl and she flew the coup.

My advice would be (if you asked me) to not think you can buy love or a wife. Try someone closer to your own age. Don't say you are 33 if you are 54.

You ask what women want, and I have said this before. We want strong, confident, grownup, responsible men. We want to be treated as people and as human beings, not as property, not as pets, not as sex objects, not as slaves.

Be honest, be real, and get rid of your baggage. And remember, most women are smarter than you.

Absolutely agreed and thanks again. Luv you right back as you are one classy lady.

Well JeannieB I certainly do like the sound of your last sentence!!! And said with true conviction too!!

Sounds like it was true in at least the last case. Remodeled her house, put her through school then she went to find somebody who wasn't her Dad... Apparently he didn't see that one coming.....

You are also a classy Lady

I am sure that there are genuine nice guys who have been abused by women who pretend to be nice ladies.

A true partner would never take you for a ride like that. When someone cares enough.. they will do things together with you..not expect all that from you. Sounds like you were pulling 90% of a relationship. That blows..but just because you have had that experience doesn't mean all women are equal. I do wish you luck and remember you have those kids of yours who love you unconditionally.

Oh, I have no doubt that this happens; its certainly not a one way street.

Believe me I know.

Give me her name I will kick her butt.

I think she might be bigger than you..

No; you don't strike me as the whiny type. I was referring more to all the threads I have read on here about why women don't like nice guys and how we all want abusers. Having been the victim of abuse; I find this offensive when someone makes such an insensitive remark like that. This guy struck me as just another guy that was frustrated and is making the same generalization. Interestingly; I read a book about why men love b-tches and this book was written with input from men. To sum it up; no man wants a clingy woman that is nothing more than a doormat. She stands her ground and doesn't come running to him when he wants her. I think the same can be said about women not wanting that in a guy. A man or woman can be nice without proclaiming it to the world; just need to be yourself but also don't let others push you around. Do you want me to kick the woman's butt? I am a big strong gal.

You're kidding me right?!!! Four words...GROW THE PHUCK UP!

Dating someone more than half your age is SERIOUSLY unsavoury IMO.

If you make a judgement call this 'bad' maybe you need to get in touch with MENSA and have your IQ retested JMO

She is not bigger than you. No contest

Neo is "the one" and he's to busy boning trinity to hook up with you on Mingle, you might have to settle.