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Whoever asks should be ready to pay. But, it's always best to keep those first dates cheap and casual.
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If either of you are thinking about money then it was a lousy date.
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If either of you are thinking about money then it was a lousy date. RIGHT THERE!!!!!!! absolute truth. I only questioned money on crappy dates. |
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Whoever asks should be ready to pay. But, it's always best to keep those first dates cheap and casual. I like cheap and casual....I assume by "Casual" you mean naked. |
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Whoever asks should be ready to pay. But, it's always best to keep those first dates cheap and casual. I like cheap and casual....I assume by "Casual" you mean naked. well, yeah! What else could it mean? 
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it's a delicate subject, yes
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Whoever asks should be ready to pay. But, it's always best to keep those first dates cheap and casual. I like cheap and casual....I assume by "Casual" you mean naked. well, yeah! What else could it mean?
A camera with a tripod... You are seriously fine....you gotta expect it. |
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I would insist on a picture with you just to prove to myself that I am as lucky as I am.
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When dateing when do you think it is approriate to discuss who pays what or how financially capabale a person is to do various things? I ask because I live on a budget and assume most of the people I would date do also. But I am never sure if I am insulting my date by chipping in or making him feel like I am gold digger if I don't. Money seems to be a delicate subject. Any opinions? I always insist on going dutch personally. |
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well being the southern gentleman that I am........I'd let you pay for everything 
My hero! Champion among men! Ruler over all sanity! |
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If either of you are thinking about money then it was a lousy date. Perhaps it is being older and understanding some of the hardships of retirement. If I really like someone I don't want him to be in a bind just to be a traditional gentleman so that kind of rules out the lousy date theroy for me. |
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If either of you are thinking about money then it was a lousy date. Perhaps it is being older and understanding some of the hardships of retirement. If I really like someone I don't want him to be in a bind just to be a traditional gentleman so that kind of rules out the lousy date theroy for me. I agree. People don't realize that some are on fixed incomes. I admire you for thinking that way. 
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well being the southern gentleman that I am........I'd let you pay for everything
My hero! Champion among men! Ruler over all sanity! 
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 Not sure if its just the aussie way, but how about just saying, who's paying you or me.
Although by the time i went somewhere with someone I would know if they coud afford it or not. cause I would have asked when i was first talking to them..
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I am of the belief that who ever does the asking usually pays. I have come across a few fellows where I am a bit more financially secure then them while dating. I have no problem paying Just not every single time forever.
If its a first date or meeting of online friends. YOu may ask if they would like to meet for a drink/ coffee in the afternoon. Then you can figure out if you want to turn into a dinner date, I think at that time you might discuss if it will be dutch to be fair, or if one is treating the other. |
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What about the folks who say they want to get together for a date and asks for suggestions? I always wonder if that is suggesting dutch dates or are they just used to the female "dictateing' the date? Is it really that hard to come up with a specific suggestion for a time and activity to make and invitation?
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I am a firm believer or the person who invites..pays. Reminds me of another thread we had going a bit ago. I believe there was a cruise involved!
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