me and my ex broke up over a year ago and he is with someone else i keep hopping she will leave him. but my thing is 3 days after we separate he was with someone else and he is already in love now does this sound funny or do you thing he had been seeing her before we split up. he says he never cheated on me. but what do you think.

hmm. that honestly sounds very fishy. either he was dating her already and he lied to you..or he really falls in love very quickly.

Hun.
Doesn't matter.
It's been over a year.
Move away from it.

Hi Jill

You need to decide if it is more beneficial for you to live in the past, or embrace the future. Playing old tapes can be nice if they were good times but creating new tapes is what the now and the future is all about.

I agree with MG.. who cares what he is doing..move on. Do you really think he is sitting around worried about how you feel?

Dont waste your time on this guy. Put you time and effort into building yourself up make yourself happy and then find someone who will appreciated it to share it with.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

I would think you were crazy if you’ve spent a year obsessing about it rather than it creeping into your mind when you’re feeling low and a bit sorry for yourself.

The fact that he got with her 3 days after you guys broke up tells its own story. He was cheating!!!

Humm we call them ex's for a reason....Time to quit dwelling on what if.......and move on into the future as some as already said.

No one can answer what he did or how it happened except for him....Love comes in many different ways and there is not a time limit to put it on a scale how fast it can happen...

Why dwell over this if it has been over a year, my guess is that you still have feelings for him, a little jealousy going on there. Move on do not live for what was in the past live for what is in the present.

Yeah, you shouldn't be hung up on this dude, but to answer your questiion....YES! He was tapping that chick before you and he broke up. Three days later he is with her should have been a sign for ya back then. Anyways....get over him and move along.

Move on. Move on. Move on.

Yes he was cheating. So?

Get over it, get over him before you drive yourself crazy.

Don't be a crazy stalker.

For sure he is a cheater, you dont break up with someone and find someone right away like that unless you are already involved with that person. That sounds very fishy. . .

Maybe maybe not.

He may have decided to call it quits a while before he told you but with women willing to snatch up a guy before the ink is even dry on the seperation filing it could be who ever he bunked up with was someone he met that day.

If he was desirable to you and employed it is quite likely in fact.

But so what. She deserves what she gets and you have the best thing freedom from someone who doesn't want you. Maybe he is an idiot maybe not but you can be smart and accept it for the gift that it is.

One thing I have learned over the years when something hurts and you are too close to the situation it is hard to see the good fortune that goes with whatever happens.

Maybe for you it is short time pain to become single and free to focus on your self. Maybe it is to be free to one day meet the REAL love of your life. Maybe it is to escape horrible future suffering with this guy you are looking back over your shoulder at with someone else.

i think you're too old for all of that drama.
let it go and move on.



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keep your happy memories,

But move on and make new ones with someone else, who wants you and only you..

mo mo jealousy at all epecially if you see what he has and how he looks now I am just making a point okay beside i have moved on and I am withone someone a lot better and a real man not a liar or cheater

thanks I just had to prove my point who said I haven't moved on I have and i have it so much better now but thank you and to me it did matter bevause he made me look like a fool and he still tries to make me look like a fool

oh i have moved aways from it believe me way away