sometimes i laugh at myself coming online hoping a good man comes along. but it just seems some of these guys aint gat no feelings or time for loving a woman. the 1st thing dat goes on in mans mind when he sees a woman dat catches his fancy is sex. but hey why do men beat about the bush just because they wana get in btw our thighs?

its funny. but hey its part of being human. thank god they weren't made like dogs or goats chasing us down the streets just to hit and run.
I know there are good men out there , but u just not too sure about them on dating sites because the bad pervert ones are many.

Sooo, what's the question?

I have intensely studied women my entire life and conclude...I know nothing, lol!

If I may be candid...I think as men and women, we are wired completely opposite from each other.

We men want to first be physically attracted and bed you, then we'll explore your minds and decide if we like the entire package.

You ladies want know who we really are INSIDE before you decide whether we are deserving enough of your intimacy...


Am I anywhere in the ballpark? Even in the correct city? :-)

Sounds about right! Women do look at the outside too, but most of us want a little more connection before ravishing.

Some men are like that and some women are like that. Then there are the women who want to be physically attracted to you and have sex fairly quickly and there are men who are the opposite.

Can't really generalize about everyone.

Welcome to mingle and the diversity that comes with it.

ahmm.... AMEN girl!

there few guys in here who seek true love. but alot of the opposite part. it actually depends on us, you, or them to choose.

It's not true men have no feelings. They just don't show it as easily as women can do! But it's true that on a dating site you can never be so sure about the guys mind.. If the guy is real about his feelings, you will only know that when meeting him for real!
The good thing is you can talk with people very easily in here but bad thing is writing nice stories on your computer with strangers is also very easy!

Last time I checked.....sex.....wasn't a bad thing. I'm just saying....it's good. But enough about that heathen practice we call getting off and getting her off (most important of all). Let's talk about why men lie. Why do they decieve chicks? Why? Why? Why?

The answer? Well, this game has been going on for a long time. Hell...longer than I have been alive. And, like my Grandpapa always said, if it ain't broke, don't fix it. And to a ton of guys, if it is working, then they'll do it. Sounds simple, and silly...but it is true.

(ok I don't know how to use this) But that's crap! we all feel the same things. We've just been so pitifully conditioned. You bed a thousand women and your a stud, a women would be a whore. Such choices. Yet loving in vain is unsatisfying for both, regardless of how good the sex is, so go figure. And does anyone really know what's inside another? Or can some, bring out the better parts of you, and others the worse?
Be well

I agree with u lil bit..I have talked to some seem pretty good then out of no where it like stops and I am like wtf??I know its a risk doing online dating or just dating period. But come on now why waste a persons time what's the point?

I think I have found another androgyne like myself. She is really easy to talk to. It has been interesting to be around her. I have been amazed how much we seem to have in common. As time goes by the friendship has been really nice. It is like this kindred spiritual thing. It is kind of uncanny the way we keep opening up to each other. I really like the feeling.

I like that,if people like me didnt know people like you love would lose its meaning and its richness too.for the friends that we make are life's gift of love and we think friends are sent right from heaven above and thinking of you somehow makes me feel that God is love and is love and he's very real.want to b ur frnd.

True love is hard to find but meeting someone like of makes it much more easier than ever why dont you give me a try remember their is no age when it comes to love.

I think "pitifully conditioned" is a very good choice of words.