Topic: should you go to bed with someone on the first date
youngboylon's photo
Mon 10/17/11 02:56 PM
It depends on what you feel I think! :smile:

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Mon 10/17/11 03:29 PM

It depends on what you feel I think! :smile:


Going out on a limb here, but I think you are right, well almost right. It depends on what both feel.:angel:

krupa's photo
Mon 10/17/11 04:02 PM
Hey, if I get spiffied up, drop $3.27 at the McDollar menu for her, then spend an evening getting her drunk on boxed wine while doing an interpretive dance of BraveHeart in my thongitard...She BETTER put out or I will be expecting my money back!

....and she sure as hell won't get a second date!


hehehehehehe

leslie's photo
Mon 10/17/11 04:12 PM

Hey, if I get spiffied up, drop $3.27 at the McDollar menu for her, then spend an evening getting her drunk on boxed wine while doing an interpretive dance of BraveHeart in my thongitard...She BETTER put out or I will be expecting my money back!

....and she sure as hell won't get a second date!


hehehehehehe

oh my! you are something else. BOL!

krupa's photo
Mon 10/17/11 04:25 PM
I treats da laydeez like Ladies!

MzMariah's photo
Mon 10/17/11 04:35 PM
thongitard I almost lost my precious gulp of pepsi on that one :P

as far as fast sex.... well I learned one time the hard way, if you sleep with someone before you know much about them they might NEVER leave your house until police are involved... now I just get married on the first date :D muahahaha

msharmony's photo
Mon 10/17/11 04:40 PM



should you got to bed with somone on the first date


After clean bills of Health are exchanged....:banana:

sure good thought. but how many is really gona have them paper to show LOL!



the sexiest guy I ever dated, and who still hardly ever leaves my thoughts,, WAITED

in fact, was a nurse and was concerned enough about me to be honest in stating his irresponsible behavior with someone he didnt know prior to meeting me

he had had an STD test done(he was a male nurse) immediately after that event and actually took me with him when he got his results

now THATS marriage material , for sure,,,not to mention the man knew the female body,,,,

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 10/17/11 05:17 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Mon 10/17/11 06:02 PM
the sexiest guy I ever dated, and who still hardly ever leaves my thoughts,, WAITED

in fact, was a nurse and was concerned enough about me to be honest in stating his irresponsible behavior with someone he didnt know prior to meeting me

he had had an STD test done(he was a male nurse) immediately after that event and actually took me with him when he got his results

now THATS marriage material , for sure,,,not to mention the man knew the female body,,,,


This sounds crazy to me.

Some hot tootise admidts to being a dumbass having unprotected sex and contracting an STD and your impressed that he waited, a while, to have sex with you even took you to the doctor's office for "moral"(roflmbo) support makes them marriage material. Sounds like that was a long courtship.

Sure shows the minds ability to make itself believe what it wants to hear when hormones are involved.

luv2roknroll's photo
Mon 10/17/11 05:26 PM
Edited by luv2roknroll on Mon 10/17/11 05:28 PM




After clean bills of Health are exchanged....:banana:

sure good thought. but how many is really gona have them paper to show LOL!


Men and those between 55 and 59 were significantly more likely to have an STD than anyone else over 45. Among women, rates were highest among those 45 to 54; among men, rates were highest among those 55 to 60-plus.






I heard yesterday, that 60% of teens now have an STD of some sort.

And 40% of people in college, are on anti-depressants.

Staggering!

luv2roknroll's photo
Mon 10/17/11 05:26 PM
Edited by luv2roknroll on Mon 10/17/11 05:30 PM
Ummmmmm, when I see Ujgearhead, its on and crackin!:banana: :banana:

But I have known him and been talking to him for 3 years.smitten

Goofball73's photo
Mon 10/17/11 05:43 PM
I always tell the ladies no, and yet I always get raped on the first date. Sheesh!

leslie's photo
Mon 10/17/11 05:57 PM

I always tell the ladies no, and yet I always get raped on the first date. Sheesh!

im sure you dont mind it. but do they ever cum back for more?

ujGearhead's photo
Mon 10/17/11 06:34 PM

Ummmmmm, when I see Ujgearhead, its on and crackin!:banana: :banana:

But I have known him and been talking to him for 3 years.smitten


pitchfork :banana: :banana: drinker :thumbsup: drinks smokin

no photo
Mon 10/17/11 06:40 PM
i would definitely go to bed with you on the first date

irisheyes79's photo
Tue 10/18/11 08:22 AM
noway

indianadave4's photo
Tue 10/18/11 12:21 PM
Just my opinion.

I've never understood how a couple can know each other that well after one date to have sex. It would have to be hormone and not love driven. Love takes time to develop but raw sex can get old and it's usually the woman who is hurt emotionally when it falls apart.

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Tue 10/18/11 12:46 PM


the sexiest guy I ever dated, and who still hardly ever leaves my thoughts,, WAITED

in fact, was a nurse and was concerned enough about me to be honest in stating his irresponsible behavior with someone he didnt know prior to meeting me

he had had an STD test done(he was a male nurse) immediately after that event and actually took me with him when he got his results

now THATS marriage material , for sure,,,not to mention the man knew the female body,,,,


This sounds crazy to me.

Some hot tootise admidts to being a dumbass having unprotected sex and contracting an STD and your impressed that he waited, a while, to have sex with you even took you to the doctor's office for "moral"(roflmbo) support makes them marriage material. Sounds like that was a long courtship.

Sure shows the minds ability to make itself believe what it wants to hear when hormones are involved.


That's awfully judgmental. Now, if seeing the results of a clean STD test are not good enough for you to have sex with someone that you're interested in, that's up to you. But that doesn't make it a bad thing that someone else was fine with that.

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Tue 10/18/11 12:47 PM

Just my opinion.

I've never understood how a couple can know each other that well after one date to have sex. It would have to be hormone and not love driven. Love takes time to develop but raw sex can get old and it's usually the woman who is hurt emotionally when it falls apart.


I don't see anyone saying sex on the first date involves love. One does not have to be in love to have good sex. Or even great sex.

galaxy418's photo
Tue 10/18/11 01:22 PM
I, personally, get attached when sex comes into it. I also think there should be some feelings involved, which may not be present in the beginning. Lastly, I want to make sure it is him and not my hormones doing the attracting. To each his own though, just be safe and do what you feel is right for you..

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Tue 10/18/11 01:25 PM
Edited by 42BlackBBW on Tue 10/18/11 01:29 PM

the sexiest guy I ever dated, and who still hardly ever leaves my thoughts,, WAITED

in fact, was a nurse and was concerned enough about me to be honest in stating his irresponsible behavior with someone he didnt know prior to meeting me

he had had an STD test done(he was a male nurse) immediately after that event and actually took me with him when he got his results

now THATS marriage material , for sure,,,not to mention the man knew the female body,,,,


This sounds crazy to me.

Some hot tootise admidts to being a dumbass having unprotected sex and contracting an STD and your impressed that he waited, a while, to have sex with you even took you to the doctor's office for "moral"(roflmbo) support makes them marriage material. Sounds like that was a long courtship.

Sure shows the minds ability to make itself believe what it wants to hear when hormones are involved.


I may be crazy (this is something of much debate in my family LOL) but I think that one of the most romantic things I ever did with a partner was to get tested together. Some may see it as a trust issue. I saw it as a genuine commitment that we were (both) making for our future and to the child we (many years later), brought into the world.