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My comments were genuine. "Gone With The Wind", Rhett Butler. I love it. I really love your analogy, in regards, to the topic. Great bridging. When you think about it "Bastardization" of the English language is quite common where I live. I would even say that we murder it here. If I may use your 'a' 'b' and 'c' on the date I found compatibility. She had a strong male side and a weak female side whereas I have a strong female side and a weak male side. She was very talkative which was cool for me as I am introverted. To further elaborate on 'a' she was serious about her need to retain her sobriety as she could possibly lose her children because of her drinking. Not only her children but her license as a nurse. She let me know that she doesn't play well with other females. I really admired that she was trashy. By that I thought her children that she was trying to be father and mother too were very important to her in her effort to support them by herself monetarily and that the strain of that was causing her to want to drink. She wanted to have a fun time with her children and you could tell that she needed that fun time herself. She really let her hair down with me which was different from the nurse/aide relationship where she is well guarded.

(b) Local. Damn, I already outlining. My English teacher would be so proud of me now. Local in the sense of being available without already being married or with a boyfriend. I really admire that in dating as I don't like being the 'third wheel' when it comes to a date. Not already attached is a big thing for me. I really do have trouble with competition and I must admit that must have something to do with my weak male side. But you have understand that I am the minority where I work since I am male. I have had to make some major adjustments to my attitude when it comes to women because the resident population is mostly women; The worker relationship is mostly women and when you take a look at the hierarchy when it comes to management that is mostly women, too. I am really at the bottom of the food chain. But that is not like I haven't been a bottom feeder before so to speak because I was union before I came to this one horse town.

(c) Attracted to. Yeah, that is definitely a biggie. I found that we had a lot in common and was surprised. I mean when 'they' do most of the talking 'you' really find out. There is really no guessing to it. I just really wonder if the 'date' was more of a smoke screen and if she really liked me. But I really think that she did because she opened up to me where she is usually guarded to me because of the supervisor/worker relationship. I would really like to be a fly on the wall when it comes to those nurses meetings. We have no aides meetings. Another thing she mentioned was that she needed a good baby sitter. I am wondering if she was grooming me for that. Which on another level must mean that she trusted me with her children. Evidently, she isn't your regular stay at home mom type of person. She is a hard worker and a hard partyer. She works hard and she plays hard. That must be hard on the children. I could tell that they loved having time with mother.

Yeah, give me a small subject topic and I could write an encyclopedia on it.



This is my first experience of participating on Forums and it didn’t even occur to me how my British colloquialisms would go down. You live, you learn...

Yeah, the “Gone with the Wind” quote is one of my favourites. Just watch out for the “if you build it he will come”. I try to work that into conversations as well – my humour works in mysterious ways .

Like this woman you mention, I have a strong masculine side and a weaker female side to my personality. As a result, I have tended to attract men with a stronger feminine and a weaker masculine side.

This type of male appeals to the masculine side of my personality and because he is quietly masculine, there isn’t the fight for ‘alpha male’ status. He stimulates me on an intellectual level and I can be vulnerable in front of him and not feel that my vulnerability is going to be used against me at a later date. He is very sensual by nature and intimate side of the relationship, very soon becomes addictive. He also doesn’t tell me that his hands were not made for manual labour.

Speaking from my own perspective, I believe this woman is genuinely attracted to you. She sees your inner strength and you will appeal to her on a fundamental level. It doesn’t mean that she wouldn’t take advantage and will unintentionally use you to restore balance to her life.

Is this random or something you've thought about?

I would have to say not having success in finding a long term partner about sums it up...

well i dated 13 girls and i wont give up

Oh, youth!!
Sweet little cubbie...you are only 18. You have a whole lifetime ahead.

I'm not giving up just yet. Have just been thinking about whether or not I should...at point.

Thanks for getting back to me Boon

in our collage there are lots of girl who likes me..also many many girls like me on Facebook

He is very sensual by nature and intimate side of the relationship, very soon becomes addictive. He also doesn’t tell me that his hands were not made for manual labour.

I had a friend who had tried to do the first part but had trouble with it where you say sensual by nature. It wasn't sensual by nature though. It was womanizer by nature. I am sure you would agree that there is a difference. There wasn't anything intimate about him and my male friends warned me to be careful of him because he had slept with all their wives. He amazed me that he could flirt with his date, the waitress and I didn't think he missed a woman any where in his view. He was so fake to me and I even talked to my wife at the time when he would woo her. He treated every woman like a queen and the ones he was with must have bought into it. He always had a new one every time I saw him so it wasn't an addiction to just one woman. His outlook on manual labor was different as he looked at every thing to do with labor was woman's work. I am not sure if he ever spent any money of his own on a woman that I know of but they sure treated him. I can remember when I worked with him that we would have to wake him up for his breaks or he would miss them. One of my friends even commented to me that we should not even bother to wake him as he was resting so comfortably.

In some civilisations, that would be called boasting Caesar

ahahahahahah lol

I’m not surprised that he needed his rest..that much womanising much take a lot out of a man. Personally, I think that people who ‘drift’ have so many issues that they change partners frequently so that none of them find out how messed up they are.

I do agree with you…serial shaggers (and I using that term to refer to both genders) are not sensual people and what they do isn't remotely intimate.

I've already given up on dating. If it happens it happens.

Just dont pull the tube out of your tank on accident....

If I'm living in Seniors Housing when I'm in my 80's or so, I may be dating a lot more than I am right now!! Bingo anyone,lol.

I love BINGO!!!!

Ha! I was saving the enjoyment of Bingo for later myself,...much ,much later. LOL ,I'm glad you like it though :)

Me too

I may play it while still in my P.J.S!