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I wish there was something I could do or say that would help you.
I can't even begin to imagine the pain you and your son are going through. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. 
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Keep the faith girlie raised a girl here and know what your going through. She is now married and one more year for her BS. Any time you need to talk I'm here. Sounds like your doing all you can do. Don't let your EX take the younger one. That would cause you more worry and he needs his mom. Plus all go through problems can't shelter them from the world your showing him what it takes to keep it together.
your a great Mom 
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Thoughts and prayers will remain with your family! I know things are rough. We went thru a very similar situation with my sister... i know you're strong, and everything will work out in the end if your family has even half your strength.
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Still in my prayers and still here if ya need to talk.
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Love and light Sherrie
I'm so sorry you are going through this. 
Hugs hugs hugs
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Well how can i say this I feel like blowing my ****ing brains out.
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Anytime u wanna talk....just let me know. Really about anything.
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Well how can i say this I feel like blowing my ****ing brains out. Honey you got my cell phone. Unless I'm at work (not allowed to bring it in) I'm here for you. Lvoe and strength Hun |
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Well how can i say this I feel like blowing my ****ing brains out. Don't go gettin all Kurt Cobain on us, there's plenty of people here to talk this through. |
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i sit here like a dumbass..reaching out in some form to my family.my family lives in this foking box puter..wtf..im so foking sad he relapsed..im been nothing but running my *** off im so tired.foking stressed.feel like a damn failure.what the hell im a dumb ***** i thought things was getting better.aall.....joined a teen rehab. every meeting in bum fok land..ive tried everything.going to these things everynight.dnt get home till late.i dont feel i have any hopem anymore.
gawd..somebody get some foking cheese to go with my whine. i have never thought of killing myself before till tonight..i used to think people that did that were dumbasses..guess u never know till u been in those shoes. i cant take anymore.this **** is so hard alone.im tired of that too.. thanks for letting me vent. i love
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How old is he? |
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How old is he? i put him in a detox place on sept 13th he broke out on the 17th..He turned 15 that day. |
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uh...
i don't really know you since we've never really talked, but i'm still human and have empathy. i'm twenty and know nothing, but if he's into art i'm pretty sure high school's a waste. [place cringe from parents here.] i don't know how to put it without it coming off as if i know what's best for your son, but if for whatever random reason you'd like to hear the opinion of a twenty year old, i'm your man. :D cheer up, buttercup. after the storm, the sun always shines. (: |
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How old is he? i put him in a detox place on sept 13th he broke out on the 17th..He turned 15 that day. Doesn't Texas have some pretty hard core laws that put kids in shock incarceration? |
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idk..idk anything anymore.
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idk..idk anything anymore. ONE------DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF----- Teens will do what they want. TWO------My sister is a crackhead----- I can not help her, NO MATTER how HARD I TRY THREE------LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH TO cure an ADDICT FOUR-----YOU ARE A GREAT MOTHER teens get confused sometimes no matter how much you love them FIVE----YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE----- DO NOT give up hope. He will get help when he is ready. Sometimes they never do. You can not change that, he is sick and has to find his way out. You have tried to help him but you can not force him to change his ways. It does not make you a failure, and you will NEVER stop loving or caring for him. BUT whatever you do---- DO NOT ABANDON HIM and by disrespecting yourself---you give up and you MUST NOT leave this world having GIVEN UP. He is still alive, and so should you BE! YOU are SOOOOOO LOVED by YOUR MINGLE FAMILY. FOR REAL> I am a single mother of three. You are not alone. PLEASE EMAIL me if you want to, LUVZ, Simone....
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Edited by
lionsbrew
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Tue 09/27/11 09:24 PM
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Just keep doing what you feel is right.Thats all any of us can do. I have a littlebro whos an addict and really the only thing you can do for those whom suffer addiction is give them your love & emotional support. We all know from reading this your doing everything you can for him. Take care and keep your head up.
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I reached a point such as this with my son as well in his teen years...got to a point..I didn't even care about his schooling anymore...I just wanted to get him to adulthood without a toetag or a prison number...life pretty much sucked..and at times took everything I had to not run away...not sure really how i got thru it...it's a bit of a blur...anyway, please keep striving...it will work it's way out....be like Dory...just keep swimming.:-) If you have not, you should seek a counselor/help/support for yourself as well and for your son, is there a big brothers type organization around you? I may have underestimated the need for a positive male role model in my son's life. best wishes and much love.
btw, my son is a father now and doing okay...and is really beginning to understand why I was so crazy back then..as he stives to raise his boys on his own. |
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dailystrength---is a support group or all kinds of causes. its nice to talk to others in your situation who can give you advice and actually know the feelings you are having. Like Kelp just did. you should email her....GL Girlfriend
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