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be honest without cliches!!!!! Youd sure like to freak'em again would you???
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i would never want that low down evil lying cheating demon ex of mine nowhere near me ever again!
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I will turn the condom inside-out!!!! Ribbed for MY PLEASURE!!!!
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 What do you do if your ex show up on your door step (they need a place to stay for a nite), and both of you are not angry at each other anymore, is there such a thing of "just having sex" with them and not falling all over again? or will you just up for another heart break???  
I've had 3 long term ex's and all of their names have been the same. I know, crazy. I am not angry at any of them. Let's call them Andy. 
Andy #1 is my ex husband who I have an open ended restraining order on (not due to physical abuse, just due to not being able to respect my decision). It would probably be to his best interest if he did not show up. Andy #2 is actually a friend of mine now and the father of my preschool student from 15 years ago. He's cool. Although it would never happen but if he shows up unexpected, he'll have a good reason and I can make an exception. He's too long for the couch, so he'll have to camp on the floor. 
Andy #3 charming music producer but an impressive con artist. I learned a lot from him but I have zero trust, so I would probably not even open the door. 
Gee, thanks a lot! Now I feel like a total dick and a looser too!
What next? Are you going to step on my foot and call mne bad names too?? 
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he could crash on the couch if i was his ABSOLUTE last resort (dont want to see anyone sleeping in their car)... sex wouldn't happen... he's done enough damage... on to bigger better things... 
Yep, you nailed it. I would do the same; make him sleep on the couch or my spare bedroom. 
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What do you do if your ex show up on your door step (they need a place to stay for a nite), and both of you are not angry at each other anymore, is there such a thing of "just having sex" with them and not falling all over again? or will you just up for another heart break???
Depends upon which ex. There are exes whom I trust enough to stay on the couch. There are none Im going to have sex with as I dont believe in casual sex. There is one who always tempts me and for that reason I could not allow to stay at my home. |
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I don't have & I wont have any ex
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Thanx 4 all d advices, sounds good 2 me..guess that's what I'll do then..will it help discourage the ex if I invite a friend 2 stay with me while the ex is there?
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he could crash on the couch if i was his ABSOLUTE last resort (dont want to see anyone sleeping in their car)... sex wouldn't happen... he's done enough damage... on to bigger better things...
 
were we marreid to the same guy??????? 
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What do you do if your ex show up on your door step (they need a place to stay for a nite),
THIS DEPENDS ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP ARE YOU FRIENDS NOW? AND CAN YOU TRUST HIM? and both of you are not angry at each other anymore, is there such a thing of "just having sex" with them and not falling all over again? THIS DEPENDS ON HOW LONG YOU'VE BEEN APART AND HOW YOU BOTH HAVE HANDLED THE BREAK UP AND HOW YOU HAVE HANDLED YOURSELF SINCE THE END OF THE RELATIONSHIP or will you just up for another heart break???
IF YOU STILL HAVE ANY FEELINGS OTHER THAN PURE FRIENDSHIP-- DO NOT LET HIM IN. In my situation-- my last ex (who is the father of my 6 yr old son) He and I could probably go to a FWB relationsip if we were both single. We actually did that a couple of times in the 14 months we were seperated (I know  what was I thinking?)But we actually started as friends, went to FWB then became serious. SO it actually was the same sort of progression.
It all depends on how your relaitonship is. IF there are ANY feelings on either side-- then don't let them stay. Old feelings are hard to fight, and comfortable and familiar can be hard to resist. Good Luck!! |
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IF there are ANY feelings on either side-- then don't let them stay. Old feelings are hard to fight, and comfortable and familiar can be hard to resist. Good Luck!! make sense...guess..I better prefer me a HOT looking gay guy then to distract him....or I'll just drink myself to sleep..hemmm...(I have no feeling 4 him anymore tho', don't know bout him..???) |
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Depends on the ex. Most could crash on the couch, or guest bed. Wouldn't hook up or whatever, but they're friends and could crash.
The one ex would be met with a shotgun and be going home dead. However, he knows he's never ever, ever, ever, his life depends upon it, allowed. |
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What do you do if your ex show up on your door step (they need a place to stay for a nite), and both of you are not angry at each other anymore, is there such a thing of "just having sex" with them and not falling all over again? or will you just up for another heart break???
If you still have feelings for him you're up for a heartache again I say. Don't open the door and tell him stay somewhere else. I know me and if it's been awhile and I haven't had any, and he's looking good and smelling good and,  ... well you know what I mean.  I say no, it's not a good idea.
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It wasnt really that my ex asked for a place to stay for the night it was more like randomly just came over to talk about how she was feeling and like a idiot i fell head over for her again and got back with her untill we had enough but to b honest with you i think if that situation was to ever pop up again i couldnt let her leave my side once more!
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ex as in marriage.. no!
ex as in before marriage (earlier girlfriends) maybe 1, the other would have a bullett going through her head before she even made to the porch! |
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I HAD DONE THE SEX WIT THE EX B4 AND PROBABLY WILL AGAIN BCUZ IT WAS THT DAMN GREAT OF AN EXPERIENCE.
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F**k NO!
Are you kidding? The ex who either dumped you or you dumped comes back for a favor? One of you wasn't good enough before...You think anything has changed? People are suckers. People get used...alot. This is a prime example. Let that b!tch/bastard sleep on the street. Do me wrong then need a place to stay? HA! Let them go stay with the person they left you for. (not an option cause otherwise they wouldn't have crawled back to you/ me) |
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The one ex would be met with a shotgun and be going home dead. However, he knows he's never ever, ever, ever, his life depends upon it, allowed. I love it....awesome idea    
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If you still have feelings for him you're up for a heartache again I say. Don't open the door and tell him stay somewhere else. I know me and if it's been awhile and I haven't had any, and he's looking good and smelling good and, ... well you know what I mean. I say no, it's not a good idea.
No ma'am...I'm already OVER him and I honestly have no love feeling toward him anymore (thanks to all of u guys who gave me advices in this site, honest  )..oh yeah..I prefer have feeling for my whisky now a day..uh huh...I'd rather drink till I pass out rather then loving the loser... 
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I HAD DONE THE SEX WIT THE EX B4 AND PROBABLY WILL AGAIN BCUZ IT WAS THT DAMN GREAT OF AN EXPERIENCE. hemm....ahhhhh...thanx for making up my mind, his sex was sux, short n no fun so ahhh..thanx again...I'd rather stay drunk and puke while he's there or maybe have sex with my jackrabbit..oh yeahhh, more satisfaction... 
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