blah blah blah... sorry, i'm not attracted to scammers. age does make a difference if it's one of many red flags. that's just me.

I would just like to let everyone know that some strange things have been happening since this "28 year old professor" from the other dating site has contacted me. I have reason to believe that he is connected to this site. He knew some things I mentioned in the mingle forums.

Many people belong to several sites, so I would not be surprised if he was here and reading these forums.

IF you post on here,,its read by whoever wants to find this Site and read?
AND,,I don't know if you read my reply to you here? As you never commented,,but MANY DUDES AND CHICKS PLAY ON THESE SITES..
Beware the young hot looker,,,who says THEIR HOOKED ON YOU,,,,because many just SEE if they can turn your crank,,and then skip away laughing,,to never be seen again,,,well,,at least for a few months,,

Every person who IS or FEELS middle aged,,,and THEY get some youngin hot on their hills,,,They feel very flattered,,,and MANY want to believe they REALLY like them,,and 'sure' SOME are REAL,,,but MANY are full of BS..So take a nibble as such,,and a bite as that nibble,,,for we have ALL JUMPED before,,just to have it fade or never be,,Good luck with your youngin...

Singmesweet: Yep. I kept asking for a link that verified his identity. He gave me a bogus name and # that I never called obviously.
He said he is sorry that I don't use social networks besides this site, otherwise he would text me his picture. How would he know that I don’t use other social networks? I only mentioned that here.

Iam4U: I’m with you, and 100% on it, no worries. I did feel flattered but I was skeptical from the beginning. All of this happened over a couple of days and I responded with short notes asking to verify his identity persistently. So no, he was never my youngin. Just an experience that I shared.

Thanks for being there for me mingle people.

There are all kinds of weirdos out there. At least this guy showed the weirdness right away!

Exactly. And Iam4U is right also. Women of all ages often feel flattered and might ignore the flags for the sake of the rush.

I posted here before about this chance.

I am pretty sure he ain't a scammer.

Well, that's always a possibility.

Maybe there is a better word.

A lot of guys on here aren't going to be straight forward about who they are and what they want. It's usually fairly easy to pick out those guys quickly, like you did. If you felt there was something off about him, you're probably correct.

Like women are more honest....

(just snorted so hard, I accidentally sucked my lip into my left nostril.)

I never said dishonesty was gender specific. I'm sure there are women who are also not honest as well.

Elaborate please.

No, you're absolutely right. Honesty is not gender related. This is not a thread about bashing men or judging people. I see you guys as my cyber friends. This is a place I go to share my experiences and wish you could give me the benefit of the doubt.
Laughing about your nostril.

PS: My mom was 7 years younger than my dad. There is a story to this guy which I won't get into publicly for moral reasons.

Sandel gots morals?


I am sooooo screwed.

Elaborate on what? I was commenting on what you said and letting you know it wasn't just men I was talking about.

dude, when you're finished pms'ing maybe you can tell us what's bothering you. not sure what your problem is. you're extremely defensive and are rude to people who have been nice to you.

Ah, I wouldn't take him too seriously.

Krupa is very opinionated and seems to want people to agree with him. But, I don't think he's as rude or demanding or serious as he sounds at times.

I have the same issue. Some people take me very seriously and think that I'm being rude when I disagree with them, which is not the case.