Hi there! The names Kyle and I just joined here yesterday, nice to meet you all! Anyways Id really like some advice.

Im a virgin at 21 and Im also gay. And the thing is I havent been with a guy sexually obviously or even kissed a guy before. Im new to the whole dating scene too and I was just wondering if guys usually get turned off by the fact you have no experience sexualy/relationship wise?

Im a friendly guy but quite nervous about sex to be honest. Even talking about it sometimes makes me turn red, hehe. Anyways some advice would be great! Thanks for listening, hi 5!

Please be careful.... Predators are everywhere.
I like that you are open & Honest, I dont know personally but I do think there are sites for Gay people as well, Have you checked them out??? You seem to be very Friendly, Welcome & Enjoy meeting people along your journey. Im still kinda new to the site but have already made a handful of friends, Jump in the threads.As you have done & Good luck finding joy & Happiness & maybe even love.

Hi Lynn! Thanks for the advice youv given as well as the warm welcome from my other thread, really appreciate it!
I will be careful on my quest to meet my Mr Right, dont worry buddy. I have heard about predators being around too, kind of scares me to be honest. I know Im being possibly too honest some of the time but thats just me, I like to believe that there are nice peeps out there.

Anyways as for my dilemma,I have made 2 other accounts on gay specific dating sites howeevr they arent really doing much. I prefer it here as there are forums and everyone Ive talked to has been really nice. Most of the guys Ive chatted to on previous sites have been super friendly but then when I mentioned that Id never had a boyfriend before they kind of cut off contact.
Guess Im a little too innocent for some guys, hehe! Anyways sorry about ranting on, Ill put your advice to good work! Would be great to meet a nice guy, maybe Ill even meet him here who knows!

Keep it in your pants. Kidding :) Well seeing as i once knew a gay guy, i know more of what you may be facing. Not sure gay bars are a good idea. As when me and this gay friend used to visit one, they were always either after sugerdaddies, or instant sex. Maybe that's what you're into. Not sure. I know a lot of gay men seem to want the first night sex though. Keep your wits about you, if you're not the type who is into instant sex. Good luck :). Use plenty of lube when it gets to THAT stage, btw.

21 year old gay virgin?


Seriously?

I don't know anyone who made it to 21 with thier virginity. If they did...they sure as hell weren't gay. The two that I can think of had Spina Bifida and cerebral palsy. (I made out with the one who had Spina Bifida)

If you are a horny 21 year old and you ain't getting laid by anyone you chose....I don't know what to tell you.

Sounds to me like you may not be gay....try actually getting laid before you make that choice.

I can only imagine that many gay men would like the fact that you are a virgin and given the chance would bend you over rip you apart in an instant.

If i was you, just don't bother mentioning your virginity to a potential partner. As what does it really matter who is and who isn't a virgin anyway? Your sexual status really shouldn't be of any concern to anyone. You get what i mean though, right? :)

Hi guys and thanks for taking time to write back to me! Really appreciate it! Gosh, it doesnt sound too good though does it? Even more nervous now because of what Dan mentioned....hope not too many guys are going to be thinking like that.
And shy emo chick, your right. My sexual status shouldnt be anyones concern but me, tbh I dont even mind being a virgin. I quite like it! Hehe in fact Im feeling a bit embarrased that I even wrote this thread now (dont usually talk about this kind of thing much tbh, think its just been on my mind lately is all).

Anyways thanks so much guys. Hpefully Ill meet a guy who will like me for me and not be too obsessed with having their way with me. Lol, fingers crossed.

It's fine. No need to get embarrassed about it. You're probably just curious as to what to expect. If you don't ask, then you don't find things out. Bye for now buddy :D

Don't listen to what i say mate, i don't know anything. I was only trying to be a pain in the arse. No pun intended.


Ok, maybe it was.

Aww please tell me the pun was in fact intended.