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I guess my problem is that just having sex and making love are two different things.
I could not give two hoots about just having sex....but making love with a man I was really in love eith ...WOW~ I guess maybe thats why I don't get the whole Hooker thing. |
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I guess my problem is that just having sex and making love are two different things. I could not give two hoots about just having sex....but making love with a man I was really in love eith ...WOW~ I guess maybe thats why I don't get the whole Hooker thing. yes you said that perfectly I don;t give a rats *** about sex for the sake of it either...when I meet a man who really floats my boat - it's all of him that is attractive not just willie and sidemen 
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:laug
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Willie and sideman? OmG I almost peed my pants on that one
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Do you all question a guy about his past relationships? Who he's had sex with? If those past sex partners had STDs? Or anything along that line of questioning? I wish things would get to that point 
I am not sure how I would handle that, actually The reason I asked is because I was wondering how you'd find out he had a prostitute in the past. Would you ask about it? I'm guessing guys wouldn't offer up the info voluntarily, but maybe I'm wrong about that. |
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Emily I am guessing it like any question you ask a man.Some are open and up front and feel you have the right to ask questions same as they do.
others are evasive and tight lipped about everything and won't answer dick all. Those are the ones to beware of I think. |
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Right, that's why I'm asking if you guys ask men you're dating these kinds of questions to find out stuff like what's mentioned in the op.
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Right, that's why I'm asking if you guys ask men you're dating these kinds of questions to find out stuff like what's mentioned in the op. If our relationship was becoming intimate you are darn tooting I would. Also no party hat ...no party...know what I'm saying?lol you really need to be safe. |
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Edited by
rara777
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Sun 08/14/11 07:17 PM
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:laug hing:
Willie and sideman? OmG I almost peed my pants on that one
Willie and The Sideman with Party Hats....Sounds like a band to me. 
Betty I get the biggest kick out of you. I am an open book. When I`m in a relationship, I`m honest with the woman. The 2 relationships that I have had since my wife passed away almost 5 years ago. I think I had a please use me sign tattooed on my forehead. I woke up pretty quick though.I was being used as a taxi service for both of them. I have not been in a relationship for 2 years now. Thankfully I know that all women aren`t like these 2 were. |
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:laug hing:
Willie and sideman? OmG I almost peed my pants on that one
Willie and The Sideman with Party Hats....Sounds like a band to me.
Betty I get the biggest kick out of you. I am an open book. When I`m in a relationship, I`m honest with the woman. The 2 relationships that I have had since my wife passed away almost 5 years ago. I think I had a please use me sign tattooed on my forehead. I woke up pretty quick though.I was being used as a taxi service for both of them. I have not been in a relationship for 2 years now. Thankfully I know that all women aren`t like these 2 were. it's Willie and the Sidemen rara and those are my boys 
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:laug hing:
Willie and sideman? OmG I almost peed my pants on that one
Willie and The Sideman with Party Hats....Sounds like a band to me.
Betty I get the biggest kick out of you. I am an open book. When I`m in a relationship, I`m honest with the woman. The 2 relationships that I have had since my wife passed away almost 5 years ago. I think I had a please use me sign tattooed on my forehead. I woke up pretty quick though.I was being used as a taxi service for both of them. I have not been in a relationship for 2 years now. Thankfully I know that all women aren`t like these 2 were. Cab..please Willie and sideman need a ride
Just kidding Ed..I figured you for an honest man. If more men and women were like that relationships wouldn't be so darn hard, and hookers would be out of business 
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:laug hing:
Willie and sideman? OmG I almost peed my pants on that one
Willie and The Sideman with Party Hats....Sounds like a band to me.
Betty I get the biggest kick out of you. I am an open book. When I`m in a relationship, I`m honest with the woman. The 2 relationships that I have had since my wife passed away almost 5 years ago. I think I had a please use me sign tattooed on my forehead. I woke up pretty quick though.I was being used as a taxi service for both of them. I have not been in a relationship for 2 years now. Thankfully I know that all women aren`t like these 2 were. Cab..please Willie and sideman need a ride
Just kidding Ed..I figured you for an honest man. If more men and women were like that relationships wouldn't be so darn hard, and hookers would be out of business
ummm, Betty I don;t think a cab is the kind of "ride" Willie and the SidemEn are lookin' for 
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oh..yeah
Well blame Rara he was the one saying he was used for a Taxi:and thinks Willie and sidemen are in a band with their party hats on
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I think a mans 'preferences' says alot to me about how compatible we would be based upon my own 'preferences'. its as simple as that really because I take 'sex' as something intimate and serious, I would steer clear of the type of man for whom sex is 'just' an activity(which the use of prostitution would indicate to me) IF I was into casual sex, the only objection I would have to the prostitution is the idea of picking up COMPLETELY random women who have probably(by definition of their means of income) had sex with any number of other random people in the same night even when you give blood, thats on the list of high risk behavior, and I wouldnt want to engage in activities with those engaged in high risk sexual behaviors on the other hand, escort services or brothels which have some type of decorum and health screening mandates, would be no different a choice than picking up someone in a bar(its possibly a better choice in my opinion) for sex and if casual sex were my thing, I wouldnt have an issue with men who used such services so then a man in a relationship presumably is or was serious, yes? I am not sure if I could even accept it from a man I was currently dating....I am just not good at sharing - if he's with me -even if we;re just at the talking stage - the MO with the HO has to GO I need that respect
a man in a relationship is hopefully with a woman who wants a relationship, making neither of them the 'casual sex' type,,, its a matter of common wants and needs, two people into the casual sex probably wouldnt care who else their partner was with as long as the sex was 'responsible',,,, |
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oh..yeah
Well blame Rara he was the one saying he was used for a Taxi:and thinks Willie and sidemen are in a band with their party hats on
I know
I guess I didn't realize anyone would think it was that funny 
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I think a mans 'preferences' says alot to me about how compatible we would be based upon my own 'preferences'. its as simple as that really because I take 'sex' as something intimate and serious, I would steer clear of the type of man for whom sex is 'just' an activity(which the use of prostitution would indicate to me) IF I was into casual sex, the only objection I would have to the prostitution is the idea of picking up COMPLETELY random women who have probably(by definition of their means of income) had sex with any number of other random people in the same night even when you give blood, thats on the list of high risk behavior, and I wouldnt want to engage in activities with those engaged in high risk sexual behaviors on the other hand, escort services or brothels which have some type of decorum and health screening mandates, would be no different a choice than picking up someone in a bar(its possibly a better choice in my opinion) for sex and if casual sex were my thing, I wouldnt have an issue with men who used such services so then a man in a relationship presumably is or was serious, yes? I am not sure if I could even accept it from a man I was currently dating....I am just not good at sharing - if he's with me -even if we;re just at the talking stage - the MO with the HO has to GO I need that respect
a man in a relationship is hopefully with a woman who wants a relationship, making neither of them the 'casual sex' type,,, its a matter of common wants and needs, two people into the casual sex probably wouldnt care who else their partner was with as long as the sex was 'responsible',,,, ya I know I 've met guys like that but I can;t deal with my psrtner - ummmm - "partnering" elsewhere "I'm funny that way Hoss" 
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I completely agree
IM a one man type too who doesnt share because sex is not something that is just 'casual' to me. But, If I were to be the casual sex type, I wouldnt see the difference between sleeping with random people for the pleasure of it or sleeping with random people for money. |
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I completely agree IM a one man type too who doesnt share because sex is not something that is just 'casual' to me. But, If I were to be the casual sex type, I wouldnt see the difference between sleeping with random people for the pleasure of it or sleeping with random people for money. I think the difference lies in the sheer numbers.A random person probably doesn't sleep with nearly the same amount of men that a Hooker does. Therefore increasing the danger of sexually transmitted diseases ten fold. But Morally speaking, I guess its the same except for that fact that with a random person your partner may not have had that intention at the time ,but with a Hooker they definitely sought her out with the sole purpose of having sex with her. |
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I completely agree IM a one man type too who doesnt share because sex is not something that is just 'casual' to me. But, If I were to be the casual sex type, I wouldnt see the difference between sleeping with random people for the pleasure of it or sleeping with random people for money. I think the difference lies in the sheer numbers.A random person probably doesn't sleep with nearly the same amount of men that a Hooker does. Therefore increasing the danger of sexually transmitted diseases ten fold. But Morally speaking, I guess its the same except for that fact that with a random person your partner may not have had that intention at the time ,but with a Hooker they definitely sought her out with the sole purpose of having sex with her. where there is effort, there is intention.. I agree about the numbers though, but I doubt most people into 'casual' sex really care about the numbers, it would be hard to pinpoint a boundary if they did (three partners a week, three partners a night,, how many would be too many for them to consider sex with that person?), and it would require asking the types of questions that ruined that instant 'mood' where sex somehow just 'happens' |
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I guess the part I am not understanding is what is "casual" Sex?
I can see that some people have sex with a person they have no emotional attachment to at all. But the actual sex act is the same whether you are in love with the person or not. To me that's where the danger comes in.Random sex partners are dangerous, but I feel that Hookers are even more so. |
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