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Topic: Odd feelings
singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 08/11/11 04:23 AM
Men can be friends with men. It's ok.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Thu 08/11/11 04:28 AM
Men can be friends with men. It's ok. I have several male friends. But I "knew" them first. Like I said, a shot out of the blue sets my alarms off that something ain't right. If he would've posted mail saying "I like your comments" then I could feel differently, male or female.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 08/11/11 04:32 AM
So get to know people before accepting the friend request. Or reject the friend request. Whatever works for you. It's not a big deal, though.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Thu 08/11/11 04:40 AM
So get to know people before accepting the friend request. Or reject the friend request. Whatever works for you. It's not a big deal, though. I was just wondering if scammers were prevalent on this site as well as others.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 08/11/11 04:42 AM
I am sure they are prevalent all over the place, not just this site.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Thu 08/11/11 04:43 AM
I am sure they are prevalent all over the place, not just this site. kewl

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Thu 08/11/11 07:01 AM
I never get hit on by scammers on this site.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Thu 08/11/11 08:54 AM
some men..I dont want in the Friend Zone

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Thu 08/11/11 09:00 AM
some men..I dont want in the Friend Zone There is just the 3 categories.. 'Friend Zone'=friends. 'End Zone'=lovers 'Twilight Zone'=all the rest of the weirdos.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Thu 08/11/11 09:02 AM
some men..I dont want in the Friend Zone There is just the 3 categories.. 'Friend Zone'=friends. 'End Zone'=lovers 'Twilight Zone'=all the rest of the weirdos. ok...sounds good...some I would want in the End Zone.. But most I leave in the Twilight Zone..lol

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Thu 08/11/11 09:17 AM
some men..I dont want in the Friend Zone There is just the 3 categories.. 'Friend Zone'=friends. 'End Zone'=lovers 'Twilight Zone'=all the rest of the weirdos. But most I leave in the Twilight Zone..lol

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Thu 08/11/11 09:25 AM
you are not a weirdo manO

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Thu 08/11/11 09:28 AM
you are not a weirdo manO whew..close one

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Thu 08/11/11 10:41 AM
ok...sounds good...some I would want in the End Zone.. But most I leave in the Twilight Zone..lol There is much 'End Zone' material on Mingle :-)

laylanie74 Joined Sat 08/06/11 Posts: 67	Thu 08/11/11 10:44 AM
hes trying to steal ur pick up lines run hide quick :)

Troublebug Joined Sat 09/11/10 Posts: 10912	Thu 08/11/11 11:59 AM
Maybe he has bad eyesight and thinks your a really butch woman. Kidding Who knows what they are thinking. I think its funny they look at your profile, and send you a friend request. Like your just gonna jump right on it. I mean at least they could say Hi how ya doing, or something. Must be in the air this week, I've had three Nigeria, or African men send me friend requests with nothing written.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 08/12/11 02:33 AM
Maybe he has bad eyesight and thinks your a really butch woman. Kidding Who knows what they are thinking. I think its funny they look at your profile, and send you a friend request. Like your just gonna jump right on it. I mean at least they could say Hi how ya doing, or something. Must be in the air this week, I've had three Nigeria, or African men send me friend requests with nothing written. Yes that was my problem, a friend request out of the blue.