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Topic: Odd feelings
oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/10/11 02:42 PM
Some people on here don't get the drift. Why would a man from nigeria looking for a woman want to friend me.

Too kinky for me, I'm a definite woman-lover.

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Wed 08/10/11 02:52 PM
hey...he may have money :tongue:

delilady's photo
Wed 08/10/11 02:57 PM

Some people on here don't get the drift. Why would a man from nigeria looking for a woman want to friend me.

Too kinky for me, I'm a definite woman-lover.
Maybe he thinks you could be his wingmanlaugh

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Wed 08/10/11 03:07 PM

Some people on here don't get the drift. Why would a man from nigeria looking for a woman want to friend me.

Too kinky for me, I'm a definite woman-lover.


laugh better you then me :P, Hope your day went well.

Isabel36's photo
Wed 08/10/11 03:41 PM
Maybe he wants to scam off you....
never know. flowerforyou
waving

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 08/10/11 04:07 PM
Maybe he's thinking of changing teams.

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/10/11 04:48 PM
Hey I'm not changing teams, no way. That is just not for me.


I figure he would have a sob story, asking for help to get here. You never can tell but I've seen plenty of scams over the last year.

MisterAnderson's photo
Wed 08/10/11 05:57 PM
Edited by MisterAnderson on Wed 08/10/11 05:59 PM
Maybe he just wants to be friends? Not sexual or intimate, no alterior motives. Just friends.


We can all speculate, but he's probably the only one who can answer. Did you ask him?

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/10/11 06:26 PM
Hell, you're not jumping into bed with him for **** sakes, friend the poor guy.smokin

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/10/11 06:51 PM
It takes more than a shot in the dark to get me to friend someone. Just because I will trust someone up front does not mean I will friend them. My friends are great friends both ways, because we all have something we can relate to each other. I guess I'm saying I am hard to be friends with initially.

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Wed 08/10/11 09:01 PM
Well apparently Robert Downey Jr. wants to date me. laugh laugh



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Wed 08/10/11 10:43 PM
Because he's probably new to the dating scene like you appear to be and he feels a comraderie and would like input about our culture and customs from someone he thought might be able to relate a little bit. Or maybe not, but you really shouldn't assume that everyone who sends you a friend invite on this site is interested sexually or romantically.

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Wed 08/10/11 11:21 PM

Well apparently Robert Downey Jr. wants to date me. laugh laugh





It's true Jean. He called me last week and told me you were hot. I think you should go with it. Seems like a nice enough guy. He does over do the party thing I heard but he is making an effort and you would be good for him.

I say give it a try.

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Thu 08/11/11 12:06 AM


Well apparently Robert Downey Jr. wants to date me. laugh laugh





It's true Jean. He called me last week and told me you were hot. I think you should go with it. Seems like a nice enough guy. He does over do the party thing I heard but he is making an effort and you would be good for him.

I say give it a try.


laugh laugh laugh If only that were true. laugh laugh

oldhippie1952's photo
Thu 08/11/11 02:08 AM

Because he's probably new to the dating scene like you appear to be and he feels a comraderie and would like input about our culture and customs from someone he thought might be able to relate a little bit. Or maybe not, but you really shouldn't assume that everyone who sends you a friend invite on this site is interested sexually or romantically.


So maybe I am too guarded. I've just seen so many scams on the internet I am extremely cautious of opening up. His bad luck he was from Nigeria, as well as Russian states, where a lot of them originate.

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Thu 08/11/11 03:10 AM


Because he's probably new to the dating scene like you appear to be and he feels a comraderie and would like input about our culture and customs from someone he thought might be able to relate a little bit. Or maybe not, but you really shouldn't assume that everyone who sends you a friend invite on this site is interested sexually or romantically.


So maybe I am too guarded. I've just seen so many scams on the internet I am extremely cautious of opening up. His bad luck he was from Nigeria, as well as Russian states, where a lot of them originate.

Who knows? If I was gonna scam a guy though, I'd pose as a woman. If you had no previous interactions though, you might report it. Newbies are often targeted.

josie68's photo
Thu 08/11/11 03:14 AM
I am friends with anyone who has taken the time to say a little more than hi, but everyone is different, I have male and female friends, and as long as they are happy to stay just friends, they stay on my friends list.:smile:

MisterAnderson's photo
Thu 08/11/11 03:42 AM
It's also easy enough to "unfriend" them if they turn out to be phony or someone you don't want as a friend after all.

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Thu 08/11/11 04:14 AM

Some people on here don't get the drift. Why would a man from nigeria looking for a woman want to friend me.

Too kinky for me, I'm a definite woman-lover.


Would you react the same way if it were an American man wanting to friend you?

oldhippie1952's photo
Thu 08/11/11 04:18 AM


Some people on here don't get the drift. Why would a man from nigeria looking for a woman want to friend me.

Too kinky for me, I'm a definite woman-lover.


Would you react the same way if it were an American man wanting to friend you?


Yes. If they would've sent an email explaining themselves I might feel differently. To be truthful, I am also leery of women out of the blue wanting to be friends.

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