I'm not a cougar, even thought my daughter calls me one. Please tell me why do young men who are 20 years my junior ims me? Do they think I'll get freaky with them online? Do they look at me and say, hey here looks like a desperate old hag, . I always attract men younger than me. I guess it's working for Demi Moore, but what's going on inside a young man's mind to reach out to a woman so much older than he is? I like men about 5 years younger. . Feedback please.

1. There is an old country song "Older women are Beautiful Lovers."

2. You are a hot mamma with some nice curves. Older or not, those boys aren't blind.

3. Men your age are bossy and don't take direction well.

As my Mamma was apt to say, "If you can't find one, Train one."

the older the moon the brighter it shines and that's the truth

Pros:

1. Younger men are more ... vigorous. Usually. And a young man in his prime can usually keep up sexually with an older woman who is in her prime.

2. Younger men have grown up with working mothers and are willing to do more things to take care of themselves than older men, who expect to be served. I'm speaking in general, of course.

3. Younger men appeal to women who are young at heart. Because there's nothing worse than being 50 and feeling 30 inside that being with someone else who's 50 and acts like he's 70. Younger men haven't forgotten how to have fun.

4. Younger men don't seem to mind their women being independent.

Cons:

1. Younger men seem to be more flighty.
2. Some young men just want a "mommy".

At our age, I don't see a problem with dating men who are younger. Personally, I draw the line at 40 because I really don't like the idea of dating someone the same age as my own kids.

I just looked at your profile and I can see why: Hon, you're beautiful! You have a lovely face, smooth skin and you're curvy. It's little wonder why younger guys are contacting you.

define FREAKY...hottie

I am attracted to older women and I can back up alterette's post. Guys in my age group are still a little homesick and miss having a loving mommy to take care of them, give them guidance, and a large bosom to cling to when we're feeling insecure lol. We are also searching for a woman who can keep up with us sexually. Younger girls are more clumsy in bed and seem to be more interested in going out to party than staying home for sex. So an older woman offers both the appeal of a soft warm security blanket and the appeal of someone who knows what they are doing in bed. Personally 20 years is to older for me though, that would be creepy!!

well, i go to bars and look for cougars because they're so much easier to go after than girls half the age. Let's face it, most younger women NEVFER take the first chance, NEVER start ANY sort of interaction, and NEVER EVER interacts positively with ANYTHING that has a penis. They just sit there like stuffed animals, waiting for someone to come and sweep them away.
Older women alreadly lived life, they know what they want and don't like to waste time beating around the bush. and that what us young men want. If it was'ent for cougars, i'd be a hardcore gay by now.

I love older women and i'm proud of it.

Don't really know what to say.

All the young Ladies, I have come across. They throw themselfs on me. I am only one Biscuit!

Now, the more mature Lady, is much better. Better conversation skills. Can share a nice drink, without all the extremely, immature, idiocy. Accepts me as a person, not just "a boy friend/man friend, whatever".

But having said all that. I would rather keep. to my own age group.

Why? because we would have grown up in the same time period. And we would get along much better.

It's all about finding someone on your own maturity level, and then working from there! ^_^