On this page there are thousands of members, and probably 95% of them are boys, and 5% are girls.
BAD odds for me....

The page is probably the most interessting page on the web, as it seems to be more or less totally free! Perfect MINGLE...

However, we are drowning in male homo sapiens - and for me beeing a 100% serious fellow with what i am searching it is not to easy to get along.

So anyone who feel the same?
And - girls - why do they allways gets attracted to bad boys??

<<-----------------Got a great MAN on this site. ..didn't look for the bad BOY.

Good luck in your search.

Of course there are those few who are for real.. but it is not to many of them... that goes for both girls and boys...

1. There are no indications to support there are 5% women and 95% men who populate this site. This is an entirely arbitrary estimation you made, with nothing to back it up with. I don't believe the 95-5 ratio you state is right or correct at all whatsoever. In fact, 50-50 is very likely, but then again, I have no tools to prove that either.

2. To say that 90% of the female (girls'' women's; ladies';) profiles are fake, which would be necessarily true if we were to accept your statement as true, is ridiculous. It would not be cost-effective to hire tens of thousands of women to have their photos taken, and to hire another person to write their profiles. The money spent on that would never be recaptured by the revenue. Remember, the site is free. It generates very little income. The operator or the owner could not possibly afford to go out, hunt down, and photographs thousands of people willing to be acting as fake members. Does not happen.

3. Bad boy -- nice guy. This syndrome has been discussed to death on ALL free and paid websites for singles where there are forums. This is another syndrome which is hard or impossible to prove that it's true. The topic of "nice guys" and "bad boys" are usually not at all popular topics on Internet forums, but only because everyone is tired of them, and whoever introduces the same topic is unaware that it has been discussed with the posters' match in freshness of discovery 1,332,675 times. It gets tiring. There is nothing wrong with the wanting to discuss the bad boy - nice guy syndrome, other than its futility of discussional purpose, its basically falsely dreamt up premiss, and its whiny nature, and its overly frequent appearance as a topic. All topics are regurgitated, and perhaps this is an unfair bias against this topic by the populace, but then again, there you have it.

The general consensus is that men who whine about bad boys getting girls are bad boys themselves, only whiny ones, which does not stop them from not being providers, able to sacrifice, and able to stand up for their loved one's and families' rights. Whiny guys call themselves "nice guys" which they are not, only appear to be so to only their own selves. This is the general consensus.

I am not trying to put you down, but I am one of those men who see the post you made here as a complaint-post, with premisses to complain about that are not very likely true on this site or on any other, and with the nice guy whiney thread, which is not a personality defect in and by itself, but people are nevertheless completely sick of hearing it, and please forgive me, but so am I.

The biggest thing about the "nice guy" threads that makes them repulsive to the reader is the inherent hypocricy in them. Only the poster himself is blind to the fact that what's "nice" or "bad" to them may have the reverse valuative characteristic to others. What's "nice" to the nice guy, is not nice to others, and the "bad" in bad boys is not bad to others at all. This general lack of insight is the real culprit as the irritating factor in the "nice guys -- bad boys" threads.

Dont know about the 95 to 5 ratio, but there are some great people on here so just hang in there. and not all the girls look for the bad boys.

Hmmm....there are countless women on this site....perhaps not within your comfort zone circumference...which surely does limit you.

Bad boys? Pfffftttttttt! Ridiculous...again your own comfort zone parameters...created by you, for you, with which to view your world.

I am certainly not attracted to bad boys....nor even bad men.

This site for me, as the lone aussie for years, (Back in the days when it was North Americans only, I needed three references, a passport and a restricted visa to join this site!)... has always been a platform, with which to learn of others...from various cultures...romances?

Hmmm...nope, not from this site...an almost one...however, you really do need to be EXACTLY who you say you are, with me...and unfortunately for him, he was not...


I have however, been blessed to learn, grow, develop deep life lasting, and I suspect beyond, friendships with incredible people here...and have been also incredibly blessed to have met a life partner right here in the middle of nowhere rural Australia...and he doesn't have an unkind thought or interest in being 'bad'...compassionate, kind, caring, supportive, generous of spirit and love is perhaps what you may call 'good'...I call it real...and he's a real man.

Perarme, the pic accompanying Anacondaarm's profile and post is not a copy of a hallmark card. It is actually him, with an actual girl he found here, on this very site, and their love is no bull. If you apply yourself, Perarme, and brush you teeth every day and obey thyne parents, then you will be rewarded by true love, just like Ana and Eileena and Jesse. These things happen.

Yep yep Yep, wux is right..

We dont all want the bad boys, mainly we want someone who we can trust and believe in, I think most of us are here because we are tired of the rubbish.

And there are so many great people to meet, friends and who knows what else.

Josie....what are the odds in this giant country of a Territorian walking through my front door...a teacher from Nhulunbuy and also Darwin!....and being EXACTLY the other Whole of me?


I thought of you when I met him...Stephen has only great things to say about Darwin, and is itching to take us on a roadtrip in his bus up there...

Humm so your saying there are only boys and girls on this site? Shshshs have I been on the wrong site all this time for I was looking for a man seems there are none around.....

And here I have been told all my life that girls out number the boys.... I must have landed on the wrong planet....


I'm not looking for a boy, not looking for a whimp, not looking for a whinner , not looking for a jerk................I'm looking for a man that don't mind showing they have a soft side but is man enough to be a man..............

You tell 'm Kristi! What is the sex ratio at Mingle?

Hummm I really don't know but I do know we have men and women here nooooooooooo boys and girls.....and plenty of both

But regardless even if you put the same amount of men/women in the same place there is still a chance you may not find someone you're compatible with.

And I think this site has a wide range of those that are for real. They may not be the real some of us are looking for but they are for real...

You've only been here for a short time and have already determined most people here aren't real?

http://www.giveyourhandabreak.com/sites/mingle2/


According to this site, Mingle2 is 53% male. I can't swear to their accuracy but it doesn't seem at all out of line with my perceptions.

Mistake topic... See below...

Define what that is for real...

Meaning, we all that are in here (at least most of us) do search for happines. Not to many that wanna admit it, but we do search for something better - something that will satisfy us somehow...

Somebody (mostly men) are searching for sex (yes, many also for love and not just sex - but compared to womens you will find more men that are just searching for sex....)
Somebody search for happines due to their financial situation - meaning, somebody that can take care of them somehow.
Somebody says they are single - they are not, they have a secret life in here, with a family at home..
Somebody says... etc etc.......

I somehow miss the mass load of people that are for real.. To be honest - probably most of you that use the community are for real. But look at the numbers of people that discuss in here, and combine it with the numbers of active people...


Nja... Hmmm....

I have no idea who that calculated that.. but i doubt those figures are correct..
Push the see who is online button...

Not everyone is going to show as being online, as there is stealth mode.

You seem to just be making assumptions. If you want to see who is real, continue posting in the forums and I'm sure you'll find some who are real.