I know I am totally new to this whole gig...but I am confused. I posted that I am interesting in friendship. Not intimate encounters... and in the last 48 hours, I have been lead on a merry chase!! I want to say hey to everyone that asks to start a conversation, and most of those conversations have been insanely intimate!! Like I might need counselling!! LOL!! I need some suggestions on modifying my profile so that I can feel a bit better about meeting people here. Or is it the wrong place for me to be looking to meet the people I am looking for? Is this the culture of such sites?

Maybe it is because you are sideways.......

Its ALL in your eyes,,,,,,they see them,,,and the way your holding and stringing that guitar on,,thats what really gets them thinking..


Nude shots will only give them heart attacks so I would hide and not answer ANY emails for a week and see if they have all left by then???

OH,,and WELCOME to where you only THINK your at,,,,,

Welcome to the site. I don't seem to have the problem you have.

I see your guitar. I write song lyrics but I'm sure you write your own.

Thanks New

I thought I was sideways!

Well maybe we are a good match because i said i was interested in intimate encounters and not had a single reply!! How do you spell Eileen?

Perhaps, if they are bothering you, turn off instant message for a time. That will require that someone actually try to interact and not try to go straight for the SEX part. Problem is, they are blinded by your pictures and probably didn't read your text. You know how visual people can be. Best of luck and welcome.

Welcome...(The greatest people are on this site; enjoy)

hello and welcome

Join in on the forums. It is a much better way to meet people. It is fun, safe, and addicting.

Sorry you're having such a hard time, but with your alluring good looks I can imagine guys are just being honest - not that it makes the contact any less annoying.

I agree that writing in the forums is a good way to have people discover who you really are. On the other hand, your scenario seems to be somewhat the norm for attractive ladies on the web these days. It's a jungle out there sometimes...

All the best!


FantasyArtMan

Don't change a thing... don't expect them to either.
Hi and Welcome.

What did I miss?

Some car hit dog that went through that window and the glass went into that lady's drink which her son sipped at and started choking then choughed up a bit of lettuce from a salad that had foods bought in...
er, nevermind.
Nothing... you missed nothing.

Ahh... then I'm up to date on things. Nothing happened.

Relatively thinking, yeah... that's (humbley) my perspective on it, but perhaps I'm over-looking something.

it's just the vampires in here that do that...

Now, now... don't hate on the vampires. I've been loved... haha.

The best way to get friends and avoid all the flirts, is to go into the forums and just picking topics you want to talk about or create your own....that is what i do...