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| Topic: Why is it so hard to find a good Christian Lady? | |
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Well? Where are they? It seems like they all just want someone to take care of them, and to be treated like spoiled children.
Where are the... like.... not spoiled ones? the ones that just want a friend and lover to go through life with? Why is it always about "getting stuff" and being "treated like a princess"? Too many demands these days. What happened to simple relationships? Those seemed to be the ones that lasted, and were the most intimate and beautiful. Hmm..... am I missing something? |
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Edited by
CeriseRose
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Sun 06/26/11 10:02 PM
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Well? Where are they? It seems like they all just want someone to take care of them, and to be treated like spoiled children. Where are the... like.... not spoiled ones? the ones that just want a friend and lover to go through life with? Why is it always about "getting stuff" and being "treated like a princess"? Too many demands these days. What happened to simple relationships? Those seemed to be the ones that lasted, and were the most intimate and beautiful. Hmm..... am I missing something? Hi JoelLindow My advice to you is...take your time...observe, listen, and chat. It's your game. The ball is in your court. Play to win. You are asking for a Christian Lady. Are you a Christian man? Realize a good Christian woman is priceless. Will you treat her as such? Show her what you have to bring to the table. Not material things in particular. Do you have any of these virtues?...kindness, gentleness, faithfulness, self-control...etc.? Are you practicing abstenance until you find that lady? You aren't obligated to answer those Q's but just some things to consider... Be Blessed, CeriseRose 
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Um, be a REAL good Christian male and maybe, JUST MAYBE, you might deserve a real Christian LADY. In the meantime...look in your own mirror.
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Well? Where are they? It seems like they all just want someone to take care of them, and to be treated like spoiled children. Where are the... like.... not spoiled ones? the ones that just want a friend and lover to go through life with? Why is it always about "getting stuff" and being "treated like a princess"? Too many demands these days. What happened to simple relationships? Those seemed to be the ones that lasted, and were the most intimate and beautiful. Hmm..... am I missing something? 
Well, not all Christian singles are spoiled and demanding.. but every women wanted someone to take care of them. Everyone has their own idea of who a good woman should be--some more flattering than others--but the qualities of a good woman go further than mere looks or shallow immediacy. Kindness leads to trust and affection. Look for a woman who thinks of others as much as herself and treats others the way she would like to be treated. Remember what Proverbs 14:1 says: The truly wise woman has built up her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands... 
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Edited by
SKPCG
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Sun 06/26/11 11:01 PM
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Well? Where are they? It seems like they all just want someone to take care of them, and to be treated like spoiled children. Where are the... like.... not spoiled ones? the ones that just want a friend and lover to go through life with? Why is it always about "getting stuff" and being "treated like a princess"? Too many demands these days. What happened to simple relationships? Those seemed to be the ones that lasted, and were the most intimate and beautiful. Hmm..... am I missing something?
Well, not all Christian singles are spoiled and demanding.. but every women wanted someone to take care of them. Everyone has their own idea of who a good woman should be--some more flattering than others--but the qualities of a good woman go further than mere looks or shallow immediacy. Kindness leads to trust and affection. Look for a woman who thinks of others as much as herself and treats others the way she would like to be treated. Remember what Proverbs 14:1 says: The truly wise woman has built up her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands...
I never WANTED a man to take care of me. I just wanted a man who was stupid enough to want to take care of me. I have been doing the taking care of me going on fifty years. It's not delivery but the desire, the intent. I can take care of myself, THANK THE LORD!!! |
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I have found some good simple friendships with ladies.
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God has made man to be above a women, men should be able to take care of their women, help them with their need, love them nd in return they (women) are to love them nd be submisive.
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Now, I don't really agree with this... I am a christian woman, but the thought of being spoiled is slightly repulsive to me. However, I find it difficult to be on the same level of my faithfulness as other, more devout members of Christianity.
Just wait, if there's one thing God wants us to do, it's learn to wait until the right woman, or solution for a problem comes along. I wish you all the luck, however. |
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Edited by
CeriseRose
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Thu 06/30/11 09:28 AM
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Well? Where are they? It seems like they all just want someone to take care of them, and to be treated like spoiled children. Where are the... like.... not spoiled ones? the ones that just want a friend and lover to go through life with? Why is it always about "getting stuff" and being "treated like a princess"? Too many demands these days. What happened to simple relationships? Those seemed to be the ones that lasted, and were the most intimate and beautiful. Hmm..... am I missing something? Check out this audio on "A Young Man's Attitude Towards Women"! by Paul Washer  
http://playmp3.sa-media.com/media/623111421200/623111421200.mp3 Christian Teaching on how to look for a mate www.heartcrymissionary.com |
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Well? Where are they? It seems like they all just want someone to take care of them, and to be treated like spoiled children. Where are the... like.... not spoiled ones? the ones that just want a friend and lover to go through life with? Why is it always about "getting stuff" and being "treated like a princess"? Too many demands these days. What happened to simple relationships? Those seemed to be the ones that lasted, and were the most intimate and beautiful. Hmm..... am I missing something? define what you think a 'christian' woman is,, and then decide what you think being a 'christian' man is and how they both should relate to a commitment start being that type of 'christian' man that the type of 'christian' woman might want problem solved,,, |
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Edited by
CeriseRose
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Thu 06/30/11 12:30 PM
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Well? Where are they? It seems like they all just want someone to take care of them, and to be treated like spoiled children. Where are the... like.... not spoiled ones? the ones that just want a friend and lover to go through life with? Why is it always about "getting stuff" and being "treated like a princess"? Too many demands these days. What happened to simple relationships? Those seemed to be the ones that lasted, and were the most intimate and beautiful. Hmm..... am I missing something? 
Check out this audio on "A Young Man's Attitude Towards Women"! by Paul Washer
http://playmp3.sa-media.com/media/623111421200/623111421200.mp3 (((+ + + Christian Teaching + + + on how to look for a mate))) www.heartcrymissionary.com
Listen to the audio everyone, please. |
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hi joel,
I am Rob from Hawaii, I too search for young girls for friendship and relationship. Is there any christian girl to make friendship with me? Anyone interested? Please leave me a message. I search a lots of dating sites to get a good partner, I hope I will get my type from here. Regards, Rob. |
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Ok, Joel
I know how you feel. You describing a typical Christian American women. In other countries, they have a different point of view. I know I am burning myself on this and asking for many females enemies. But have to speak up. Is not their fauld, is the environment in which we live today. All about material. All about security. Now days is all about interest and not love. Now days we can't survive with one salary alone, economic has change everything. Both are basically obligated to work. That bringing material stuff, competition, envy and so on. If there are children involved things are not going to get any better. Sorry, I haven't giving you a sweet answer. I guess because there is not. Keep looking and when dating, check immediatelly their motives, feelings. look for somebody with a lot of money, that way you don't have to worry about their wants. Just get ready for the Pre-nup papers. LOL Keep in mind, the same goes for many mens too when it comes to beauty. That mean is a give and take. Find the definition of "Love" when looking for a christian lady. Then apply it to youself. Guess, what will happen? Hang in there. God Bless |
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Well? Where are they? It seems like they all just want someone to take care of them, and to be treated like spoiled children. Where are the... like.... not spoiled ones? the ones that just want a friend and lover to go through life with? Why is it always about "getting stuff" and being "treated like a princess"? Too many demands these days. What happened to simple relationships? Those seemed to be the ones that lasted, and were the most intimate and beautiful. Hmm..... am I missing something? ahh,, the 'christian' woman who just wants an fwb,,,,where has she gone...lol 
I remember the verse,, 'women, hang out with your husband and give him sex, 'men, hang out with your wife and give her sex......besides that you're on your own,,,,,
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Edited by
CeriseRose
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Tue 07/12/11 03:15 PM
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I never WANTED a man to take care of me. I just wanted a man who was stupid enough to want to take care of me. A man is not stupid for wanting to take care of a woman... especially, if he's not aware of her plans to misuse or mistreat him. |
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truly , love is about WANTING for someone else,, not for ourselves
we need to be a mirror of whatever it is we seek, or we have no right to complain about not finding it I dont think christians , generally, are instructed in the bible to just 'hang out and have sex',,,though, so perhaps getting rid of THAT criteria would be a great way to find such women interested in nothing but fun and sex with no real responsibility or efforts involved,,, |
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THEE ARE STILL SOME GOOD CHRISTIAN WOMEN OUT THERE YOU HAVE TO WEED THROUGH THE BAD ONES BUT REMEMBER BEAUTY IS ONLY SKIN DEEP ITS HARD TO FIND A SOUL MATE BUT THEY ARE OUT THERE BUT DECIDE WHAT KIND OF WOMAN YOU WANT AND IN GODS TIME YOU WILL FIND HER
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Hi. I'm new on here...wasn't sure I even wanted to be on an online dating site, but looking for people to talk to that can relate. As far as finding the one...I think when you love someone so much you want to do anything for them, and that is reciprocated, you won't run into the "spoiled" thing. To me, doing for others brings me joy. You just have to set boundaries so you are not taking advantage of. Wish you all the best.
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seriously,, all the well wishing is commendable but
a GOOD christian woman who just wants to get laid,,,, NOONE else sees the contradiction here,,,,lol
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Hi. I'm new on here...wasn't sure I even wanted to be on an online dating site, but looking for people to talk to that can relate. As far as finding the one...I think when you love someone so much you want to do anything for them, and that is reciprocated, you won't run into the "spoiled" thing. To me, doing for others brings me joy. You just have to set boundaries so you are not taking advantage of. Wish you all the best. Hi beautifulharmony23! 
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