Never let a new man pay for the mistake of the one who came before. :-)

Point to this story is dont blame every man or woman for 1 mistake and dont forget half of the people who on the web aint looking for a relationship infact most do it for attention or to get a high such as mind games etc to many abuse the web also abuse peoples hearts.Brush it off say this DILLIGAF this mean do i look like i give a flip move on this was not ment to be.

one other thing web aint the only place to meet some one go out to a park or to a movie or to a store u never know who u rn in to

Point to this story is dont blame every man or woman for 1 mistake and dont forget half of the people who on the web aint looking for a relationship infact most do it for attention or to get a high such as mind games etc to many abuse the web also abuse peoples hearts.Brush it off say this DILLIGAF this mean do i look like i give a flip move on this was not ment to be.

This argument is as old as time. If someone could figure out what it was like in the head of the opposite sex, they'd make a trillion and two dollars and we could all stop ragging on the other sex for the bad apples in their gender.

Honestly, I am a woman, I have dated 3 guys in my life. One of which lasted three years... And in my opinion, 2 of them were not very good boyfriends, but it's not fair to say just because I got 2 outta 3 bad ones that ALL men stink or are bad. And I know I'm gonna catch hell for this, but any girl or guy who says that ALL of the opposite gender are bad from their ONE bad experience with them will find that I really don't have time for them.

We can all sit around and complain all day, or we can accept that there are people of each gender that just, in general, suck. And there will always be people of each gender that just suck. Nothing you or I or the man in the moon can do about it, so what's the point in letting everyone know that you aren't a big, mature enough person to let go of your 'man hating' or 'woman hating'. Honestly, it's just time to grow up.

My two cents. And, for the record, this was not aimed at any one person... Just food for thought.

well yea i know that (silly)

awww i'm sorry u had to experience that. but u know, that man is gonna reap some day! he gonna get his.

frankly, i think the man needs to be hung upside down by his toenails, out in the country somewhere and horse whipd with a leather belt. a really big one!!! that don't make any sense, some of these men get away with murder. oooooo that makes me mad!!!

actually they dont need to behung by the toenails
they need to be hung by there balls(if you know what i mean)

Sorry but that is the fact at times:

There's an old saying: Men are jerks and women are idiots.

Because if the guy's a jerk and you're still with him, then who's the idiot?

After reading your story there seems to be too many red flags that should have sent you running, so you can't blame the guy too much because you let stuff slide. If he doesn't want to add you as a friend on FB, then he's not into you or trying to hide something (like he's already married, etc).

Learn what you can from this and move on!

yea, i didn't think of that.....yep they can be hung by the balls with a spiked rope.......buahahaha and don't forget swung back and forth til the flesh rips off and all u see is the scrodum underneath. then maybe jam a knife down their pee hole and out thru the butt. UGHHH someone give me a gun....gotta hunt me a man....it's man huntn season. riffle anyone???

hmmm looks like he just called u an idiot!!!!!!!!! *loads shotgun* dude come here for a sec, let me holla atcha!!!!

jk jk i'm kiddn. just tryna get a rise out of a MAN...ughh lol

she's right... I STINK, especially after my morning workout LOL!

sorry this happened to you...



$.02

in my eyes im not with him
for i had broken up with him sometime back
for it was pointless on dealing with him
and no im not a idiot...(BUT THANK YOU ANY HOW)

he dont know me yet do he

Men stink . . . . women are perfumed by nature.

hey tazz so i guess your refering to yourself as well


yea i know not all men are not like that
and im not saying you are..

Why yes indeed dear lady.

I'd say that for every man who stinks, there are probably 3 or 4 who are really wonderful.

I think a big problem here is that men have the reputation for having a wondering eye, cheating, etc. Not all men do this, I have been told. I am hoping so, because I am looking for one of those men- the "enlightened male".

The thing is, when someone or a group of someones gains a reputation as being unfaithful or a real lady killer, etc. there is usually some reason for it, especially when considering it's the male population in general.

Do men cheat? Yes, a lot of them do. I've read polls of the average joe online that half of married/involved men cheat. That's a lot of men. Of the men who didn't, there was a large percentage that said they didn't cheat because they feared getting caught, but they would if they were sure they could get away with it. Now, I agree, marriages aren't always happy, and I will also say that the number of women who cheat on their spouses is right up there in the same percentile as men, but the greatest reasons for women who cheat it is because their own spouse is not giving them time, attention, love, etc. Granted, this can be a reason why men will cheat, too. I don't condone it either way (I was in a marriage where I was basically ignored, treated badly, and yes, I DID try to talk to him, repeatedly about things, but he chose to ignore it all- but still, I never cheated on him, never thought of it because I feel it is wrong), but a lot of the men who are asked why they cheat or why they WOULD cheat said things like, "for the thrill" or they would if they had the opportunity to. Maybe some of them were in bad marriages, I don't know, but the fact that there are men out there who would cheat for the sheer thrill of it can put a lot of women ill at ease and make them question all men, wondering if deep down, they are "one of those".

There is also the "roving eye" question, and of course, both men and women look at the opposite sex, but usually when I notice these things happening, the men are very blatant about it, often times with their wife or girlfriend standing right there beside them. It is one thing to look, it is another to ogle. And then there is the pornography issue. I know both genders have been known to watch it, but let's get serious, it is a genre that is mostly geared for men, and more men than women watch it. Some couples are okay with it. Some might not be. To me, personally, I consider it a form of cheating. This is another touchy topic and I do worry about this, because a lot of men don't think of it this way, and how does someone like me broach this subject? Wait till the second or third date and then ask what his feelings on porn are? If I have to, I will, but I know it will be extremely awkward. But like everyone, I have certain... "deal breakers" if you will, and this is one of my BIGGEST deal breakers. I want to find someone who is like minded with me on this, because it is so important.

Anyway, a lot women don't trust men because of the things men have been doing, or talk about doing for centuries. But if you're a sincere man and find a woman that you think is right for you and worth getting to know- and we are out there, some of them, like me, will be harder to get to know because we've been hurt more than others and have developed distrust towards men or sometimes just people in general- then you will surely win that woman's heart if you show her your true self and the good man you are inside. :)

WOW y'all are silly LOL.


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