Topic: Men How do you know if a woman loves you?
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Fri 06/10/11 06:10 AM

Tattoos my name where the sun don't shine.

smitten


The cellar?

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Fri 06/10/11 08:22 AM
I really don't know. I don't really believe people that say that they love me. I know when they don't. I know when they say it, just to make me feel better.

As for the question laugh

Errr, Hmmm... I have never been loved for who I am. So I really don't know. Maybe if my Birthday was remember'd, who knows laugh

I like what others have wrote in this thread, very nice! ^_^

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Fri 06/10/11 08:44 AM

OK,,how do I know if she loves me?

I am sharing with you here my truth of love and me,,and the "her",,

I've never really felt a REAL love from a woman,,as everyone of them was more acted than real,,with what they showed me..
SO,,with all that,,
I would say this,,when her touches of slight,,never leave..
(to my cheek,her hand, over mine, her gentle holding release in our goodbye kiss.)
When she never wants to say goodnight on the phone tome..
That first embrace when you see each other,,that clinging , holding that extra minute ,,just to let you know she DID miss you.
Her sweet desire to want to do,,,ANYTHING nice,,(like a cup of coffee,,or run a bath,,any act on her own to be giving,,and to know,,THATS just her way..
A reminder by her at ANY later date that she was sorry for being so running or hurried or short or any apology where one didn't have to be said,,
Her eyes NEVER losing that desire to look deep into mine,,
Her glance from acrossed a crowded room,,that show delight in just noticing what I had just said or laughed about to someone else..
Her desire to always want me close to her at nite or mornings light
THESE,,soft and gentleexpressions show my heart,,I am loved by her's....its the NEVER leaving tones of this ,,thats hard to keep,,,,,:wink: :heart:
damn Terry....I want that :cry:

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Fri 06/10/11 11:18 AM

Ok I wish I had some spoiler tags or something for this but I'm about to start a long winded rant in the form of a wall of text. So for those who don't feel like having tunnel vision kick in or serious cases of face palm please ignore me and go onto the next post.

How do I know when a woman loves me? Well I thought I knew and I don't think I was wrong either. The women I have had serious relationships with probably did love me at the time. Even though I'm single it doesn't mean they didn't love me just didn't work out. But now its time to get down to the business of actually answering the question.

To me I know a woman loves me when she sees me for not who I am but who I want to be and encourages and supports me while working towards that goal. When shes always honest with me. Sometimes the truth hurts thats for sure but if she loves me she isn't going to sugar coat things. To love me you have to know and that means being honest. Shes willing to stick it out through thick and thin. Working together to make our dreams possible. Selfish enough to know her happiness is one of the things that make me happy. Shes not afraid to talk to me about anything weather its childhood dreams or a difference of opinion. A relationship isn't all lovey dovey ******** its a lot of hard work. She looks at me with those eyes that let me know I'm the only one in her world right now.


Some people do love, but they just stop showing it in an intimate way and things start to fade out, but it's not as though it never existed...

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Fri 06/10/11 12:42 PM



Some people do love, but they just stop showing it in an intimate way and things start to fade out, but it's not as though it never existed...
it's not what I did, it's what I DIDN"T do.......sums up a lot of relationships...IMHO

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Fri 06/10/11 05:50 PM


OK,,how do I know if she loves me?

I am sharing with you here my truth of love and me,,and the "her",,

I've never really felt a REAL love from a woman,,as everyone of them was more acted than real,,with what they showed me..
SO,,with all that,,
I would say this,,when her touches of slight,,never leave..
(to my cheek,her hand, over mine, her gentle holding release in our goodbye kiss.)
When she never wants to say goodnight on the phone tome..
That first embrace when you see each other,,that clinging , holding that extra minute ,,just to let you know she DID miss you.
Her sweet desire to want to do,,,ANYTHING nice,,(like a cup of coffee,,or run a bath,,any act on her own to be giving,,and to know,,THATS just her way..
A reminder by her at ANY later date that she was sorry for being so running or hurried or short or any apology where one didn't have to be said,,
Her eyes NEVER losing that desire to look deep into mine,,
Her glance from acrossed a crowded room,,that show delight in just noticing what I had just said or laughed about to someone else..
Her desire to always want me close to her at nite or mornings light
THESE,,soft and gentleexpressions show my heart,,I am loved by her's....its the NEVER leaving tones of this ,,thats hard to keep,,,,,:wink: :heart:
damn Terry....I want that :cry:

And JERRY,,,DAMN IT I WOULDN'T MIND HAVING ALL THIS AS WELL,,LOL THIS SOUNDS like its been my life from ONE LADY,,,NO,,THIS IS MY THOUGHTS from every lady I have had this,,,OR ONE OF THESE shown to me through them,,,,so as yet no ONE lady in my life has been ALL OF THIS ABOVE HERE,,,,
BUT,,through EACH expression,,from EACH lady,,,THIS was me summarizing ALL that I have felt from a teen to now,,and ,,,to me,,THIS would be LOVE....:heart: drinker

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Fri 06/10/11 07:13 PM



OK,,how do I know if she loves me?

I am sharing with you here my truth of love and me,,and the "her",,

I've never really felt a REAL love from a woman,,as everyone of them was more acted than real,,with what they showed me..
SO,,with all that,,
I would say this,,when her touches of slight,,never leave..
(to my cheek,her hand, over mine, her gentle holding release in our goodbye kiss.)
When she never wants to say goodnight on the phone tome..
That first embrace when you see each other,,that clinging , holding that extra minute ,,just to let you know she DID miss you.
Her sweet desire to want to do,,,ANYTHING nice,,(like a cup of coffee,,or run a bath,,any act on her own to be giving,,and to know,,THATS just her way..
A reminder by her at ANY later date that she was sorry for being so running or hurried or short or any apology where one didn't have to be said,,
Her eyes NEVER losing that desire to look deep into mine,,
Her glance from acrossed a crowded room,,that show delight in just noticing what I had just said or laughed about to someone else..
Her desire to always want me close to her at nite or mornings light
THESE,,soft and gentleexpressions show my heart,,I am loved by her's....its the NEVER leaving tones of this ,,thats hard to keep,,,,,:wink: :heart:
damn Terry....I want that :cry:

And JERRY,,,DAMN IT I WOULDN'T MIND HAVING ALL THIS AS WELL,,LOL THIS SOUNDS like its been my life from ONE LADY,,,NO,,THIS IS MY THOUGHTS from every lady I have had this,,,OR ONE OF THESE shown to me through them,,,,so as yet no ONE lady in my life has been ALL OF THIS ABOVE HERE,,,,
BUT,,through EACH expression,,from EACH lady,,,THIS was me summarizing ALL that I have felt from a teen to now,,and ,,,to me,,THIS would be LOVE....:heart: drinker
I guess all those rolled up into one would make the perfect woman...

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Mon 06/13/11 09:46 PM
i dont know how to do sex. bcz i have never done that thing. can anyone tell me about sex.

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Mon 06/13/11 09:49 PM

When she sets me free yet keeps me captive.


describes it perfectly

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Mon 06/13/11 10:00 PM
when she lets me order pizza twice in one week.

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Tue 06/14/11 12:43 AM
she could start by saying it.
and make it believable.


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Tue 06/14/11 05:53 AM
when you catch her smiling sweetly at you- with her whole face

not just her mouth-but also with her eyes. That is usually a good indication....smitten

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Tue 06/14/11 02:33 PM
Edited by indianadave4 on Tue 06/14/11 02:34 PM
1. Takes interest in your activities.

2. She often brags about you to her family and friends

3. If a girl tries to get closer to you by touching your hands, shoulders or cheeks.

4. If she keeps staring at you during the conversation .

5. If she wants to spend some time with you.

6. If she blushes when you are around and her cheeks turn pink.

7. The passion with which she looks at you gazing straight into your eyes.

8. If she plays with her hair, while looking at you.

9.If the girl in question keeps touching your hands, shoulder etc, that means the girl wants to come closer to you.

10. The way she looks at you with those dreamy eyes.

11. Women's emotions are clearly reflected on their faces.

12. Her friends tell you so.

13. She tries to look good for you. She's so in love with you that she wants you to have eyes only for her.

Like all of our attractive cougars! love flowerforyou :heart:

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Wed 06/15/11 01:59 PM
Lets look at the word LOVE how can you love some one if u dont know them or have not took the time to look in to there hearts?Money,Sex material things seem to be importain and let's not forget a lot of people judge u if u r disabled,over weight. Love is a word people take for granted . If u want to know if a woman realy loves you not many women can admit this is put aside money,material things,weight,look's,etc and for once look in to the mans heart and say i do love you with out asking for anything.

Also this works bouth ways men and women alike love is a bond,trust,companionship,friendship in 1 big package take it or leave it i say.
Love is when you would give your life to save your partners or family etc.True love has no greed,etc.

Now if any woman like to disagree with me thats there issue

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Wed 06/15/11 02:03 PM
drinker

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Thu 06/16/11 05:19 AM

What are the tell tale signs to you men out there that a woman really loves you?


I know my woman loves me when she consistently puts my desires before her own.

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Thu 06/16/11 05:34 AM

1. Takes interest in your activities.

2. She often brags about you to her family and friends

3. If a girl tries to get closer to you by touching your hands, shoulders or cheeks.

4. If she keeps staring at you during the conversation .

5. If she wants to spend some time with you.

6. If she blushes when you are around and her cheeks turn pink.

7. The passion with which she looks at you gazing straight into your eyes.

8. If she plays with her hair, while looking at you.

9.If the girl in question keeps touching your hands, shoulder etc, that means the girl wants to come closer to you.

10. The way she looks at you with those dreamy eyes.

11. Women's emotions are clearly reflected on their faces.

12. Her friends tell you so.

13. She tries to look good for you. She's so in love with you that she wants you to have eyes only for her.

Like all of our attractive cougars! love flowerforyou :heart:


:heart: :) English has never been spoken, so clearly! I hope to meet a girl like this one day! happy

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Thu 06/16/11 05:34 AM


What are the tell tale signs to you men out there that a woman really loves you?


I know my woman loves me when she consistently puts my desires before her own.


Do you show her you love her by doing the same?

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Thu 06/16/11 06:39 AM
You mingle men sure know how to make a girl miss having a man to love sad brokenheart

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Thu 06/16/11 08:01 AM
When you show the worst side of yourself, and she sticks around.