LOL right on but trust me its a Life long "practice" because no one is perfect.

There's better things out there other than love.

IDK that either

it seems as I think over things that if it's meant to be in a romantic sense - things are more like discussions than arguments - not that u won't have those - but what I would do if there was too much arguing and things could not be resolved by talking them thru without arguing is I would change that relationship to a friend. people usually get romantically involved too quickly anyway - before there is enough trust to have a genuine friendship and I think that lack of a foundation makes it harder to move to a romantic friendship - because people get romantic before they really trust each other and that's just an accident waiting to happen in my opinion - and Ima not tellin' u what to do this is just what I have experienced & what I would try to do

What she said ^^^^ 100%

I'm confused by the many versions of the word "real" used on the internet. Does that mean a "real" living person? Someone who doesn't play games? Someone who is just themselves? Someone who is honest?

Being your "real" self can mean you like to lie and play games. Does that still make you "real"?
It is all so conflicting.

Can anyone clear this up for me?

hey u - u back here again? good seein ya

That is why they make Stun Guns. . . .

thanx ; ]

I got an image of a man runing around like a young boy with allot of crushes just zaping the hell out of em all

I like this too, I try not to go to bed angry either, But i also try and duke it out while it's in front of me...I hate being in a state of confusion....I would bicker and sort issues than to with hold things and become bitter and fake all the time. Im a little rough but I am really real!

ummmmm....hmmmm

simone up there w/ that gun is not a man

I agree - I think people have to have compatible or mutually acceptable "sorting styles" of communication though or it won't work as a couple or a romantic relationship IMO - because ya, gotta be able to settle stuff between ya & stuff does come up

I know Simone is a good looking women, but Tazz has the stun gun

I appriciate what u are saying and it makes alot of sense but her and I aren't dating at all, we never have and she says she never would date me. Kinda hurts but I wanna learn how 2 be a good friend and set the feelings I have aside so they dont get in the way! Sometimes thats hard 2 do bc when she's comes 2 me with guy probs its hard 4 me 2 help her with it bc of the feelings I have but she has always been there 4 me when I was having my own relationship issues plus I have hurt her through my own lies and behavior as well... So I honestly dont know y she even still has me around.. Guess that's what u can call a true friend! Just wish I could be a better 1 for her

Yup. I agree wholeheartedly. It is easier to be myself being single.

awwwwm thanks

Your very welcome

and being on the computer some people tends to be like a computer too nowadays(no feeling)...finding someone for real needs a lot of hardwork and time to do..and the more you look hard for it, the more you cannot find one.Just enjoy life, meet and mingle people...
wish you the best..(and hope you will be lucky as I am when I found my "real one " on here) Goodluck.

IDK this either! I think they want the fairytale to become RL, but don't realize how unREAListic that is