I have received a large number of messages/and IM/Invitations from guys with cut-off heads, distorted faces/bodies/animated images...etc....while I am an open-minded sort...it mystifies as to why i can't see what the person looks like---in real time...

I get the PERSONAS, and the Idealistic Figures.....but after the 3rd email...show me what u really look like...i am not obsessed with :"LOOKS"...IN FACT....i can't really say what is good looking or not...I get into the person.....love the mind..intellect...that turns me on...

anyway.

Seems to me they have a low self esteem and do not like the way they look.

That or they are are not who they claim to be. Could be a married man or someone just looking to talk dirty...lol.

Just as I suspected! Married, living with someone, or juggling a super-low self esteem.....thank you so very much for validating what i thought was true....just wanted to give these guys the benefit of the doubt...but if a man really wants to meet his one and only....he wouldn't hide...

now...what about the women? esteem issues.....? or what???????????

Thanks, Mayhem! You're Right On Target!!!

Well with women....I have no idea. LOL!! Maybe the same low self esteem issues. But i doubt as many who are married looking for trouble. Men are a-holes like that. Some women are....but not nearly as much.

players/scammers most likely. Don't ask me how I know but those kinds of pics are in playa 101. Scammers exploit the trick as well.

Or, maybe they just don't know how to use a camera or computer.

I get it. Kinda slow on some things...rather intellectually above board on others....Thanks...I just can't believe how many guys are trying to play under the radar! Why can't they get the same thrill from the BROAD they live with, or call thier WOMAN? It gags me to no end! gross.......

Cornbread & Collard Greens!

They seem to be interested in QUICK INTERACTIONS....That's wh my Guard went Up. Scammers on the make without a clue....

The thrill of the chase? Lol...I dunno either.

Glad to see I'm not the only one up late tonight.

For some reason my insomnia is getting worse.

I just hope it I don't go crazy or anything. Now, if you'll excuse me I have to chase down that pink elephant that just flew by, he owes me some money.

heh heh...oh, my.....u didn't read my message....i'm not shallow....i don't care what a man looks like...i need to be intellectually stimulated.......but even that seems difficult! However....if u send me a distorted, weird, head cut off PHOTO---my antenna goes up....WHAT THE EXPLETIVE/DELETE DOES THIS GUY LOOK LIKE?

With all due respect.

Use the fly swatter.

Meet the . have wild passionate sex...You will sleep like a baby, I promise......

I tried that with my left hand...didn't work.


I'm right handed by the way..yeah, I consider myself adventurous.

Seriously, if you had the right woman...made love all night...honey, you'd sleep like a baby. Believe that....thanks for the pink elephant warnings...

But the net gun is much more fun.

Yummmo. Can't hurt after peeling apart cut-off heads, and distorted body parts for dinner.

IDK, but I'm willing to give it a try.

of course that won't work with the left hand! you gotta do it with the real deal, mcneal!

Cant say i didnt try.