Why is it, the ones you like the most dont seem to care, and the ones you dont care for are the only ones who try and stay in contact...

I fricken HATE that----

Like you have all these people trying to get at you but the ones you are interested in dont seem to really care or put forth an effort. It's embarrassing. You dont want to feel like the one on that other end who just bugs you...

this is life, unfortunately! I hate it too, but makes it more special when you find the mutual liking...that just seems to take forever...ugh!

you're rockin that gun again simone!! holding them at gun point, highly over rated. but, i know what you mean, and you wonder if maybe, just maybe, they are in the same place but don't want to appear...the pest. it seems such a waste of time when really why can't we just say 'i like you, do you like me, the same?' grrrrrrrrrrrrr

They all come around..eventually.
You must personalize the bait :-)

I said that, haha, and it seems so elementary to have to.....which is why it can be so embarrassing, but if a person say they like you too...but does not act like it... except if you make it an issue...in which case then you just feel like a naggy biznatch....should you just let that person go or wait it out. Sometimes i feel like people throw just enough at you to drag you along and perhaps they dont really like you, but just to keep you in their back pocket for a rainy day....they tell you what you want to hear. But then ignore you the rest of the time. Go Figure. But then I have met some people who have a hard time relaying real communication, and some of them have really become my closest of boyfriends in the past and I wonder if its a personality type and I should just hang in there and hope one day things can be real. . .. . or not, I dont know.

I have a similar problem on dating sites. I do get a decent amount of e-mail. But the ones who express interest in me are either scammers or they came over on the boat with my great-grandmother. I guess once you hit 80, you no longer find me intimidating and complicated.

The ones I could potentially be interested in -- well, they never contact me....

unless you like carrying umbrella's i'd say move on, at least from expecting more. nothing more demoralizing than just being someones rainy day. the like zone and hope will drive you crazy. when it's real, there's little room for wonder, other than in ahhhhmazement. never settle for less. and i am sure you know this already. consider that a reality hit on the head!

life is a bit nuts, and the internet,, well, it just makes us AVAILABLE to many more people

I Have been puzzled lately by the number of people who message me once, with something like a hi how are ya,,,and from that point on profess ever lasting love for me

checking on my daily, giving me advice, telling me they cant stop thinking about me


how do you leap to everlasting love from a simple 'hello, how are ya?'


on the one hand, flattering, ,, on the other hand,, an illogical red flag?

hmmmm

lol, the op suggested she gets plenty of attention from those she isnt interested in and barely any from those she is interested in


I was just 'relating' to her experience in that I get people supposedly really 'into' me who have taken absolutely no time to get to know me or seem to have no interest in me getting to know them

just in love with the idea of love I guess,,,,which kind of creeps me out a little,,,

Why be in a rush you realy cant force any one to fall in love with you unless your a witch do witch craft lol.

Question,
Why is it, the ones you like the most dont seem to care, do u mean men, family, friends?

the ones you dont care for are the only ones who try and stay in contact, Here's a answere the ones you cant stand or dont care about it's very easy delete them block them do what ever it takes to make you happy.

I have to say i gave up long ago most people are very gready,selfish,only cares about money, material stuff .dont have a brain to learn love to feel love all they have on there tiny brain is sex,money,cars etc.Is dating sites worth it i been on plenty of fish and a few others and all i seen is head games lies and cheaters and scammers or people who aint honest.

Off course there others who judge you.Listen to you heart free you mind your azz will follow let it happen the way it suppose to lol. they should call me dr mike insted of dr phill

i think it started when someone taught one of the genders to play hard to get. somewhere down the road the other gender caught on and decided to play the same game.

now there's an abundance of members from both genders playing games. and also a large number of members from both genders being played.



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check "yes" or "no"



IDK - I don't worry about it - I just answer my messages and I like pretty much everybody (well except the email I got from the guy who has a "thing" for vacuum cleaners)

I figure if Ima pest so be it

The guys that you want to email you....well...they probably figure (most of them anyway) that you would reject them. May sound lame, but that is truth. And the ones you don't really want? Well, they will email 1500 chicks just to get one interested into them. They have no shame. All they want is some nookie. Or, if you have awesome cooking skills, they will want that too. Haha!

well u need to do ur manfriend duty and get the good ones to email us

FRICKEN STORY OF MY LIFE SIMONE!!!

maybe they're psychic

who do i have to kill to get one woman i'm attracted to to act this way toward me? even just for a little while.


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well, maybe its time i just move on, NEXT! Im only interested in pursuing guys I want to pursue, it has nothing to do with the ones pursuing me...of course if they are a good match, i will gladly accept their pursuance. LOL.

Took your advice.

Now I call my squiggly little worm
"Baron von Muchhausen."

But still, those suckers are not biting.
(Thank goodness.)