so i just went to my granny's funeral Saturday and caught my now ex boyfriend doing cocaine,yeah its been a hell of a week.

Well, unless Cocaine is your sister's name,
what's the big deal?

So he wouldn't share?

maybe that's why he's your ex. stingy.

thats really bad!!



cocaine is for grown ups who get fu**ed up, "responsibly"

sorry to hear that

definte justification to give him the boot

Well, they told me when you get sick and tired of being sick and tired then you will do something about it.

Com'n pepps the ex-bf was doing cocaine at her granny's funeral, the granny's funeral. Thats not the time and place to do something like that. Some where else but not there. Yes, no, maybe so?

wouldn't matter to me where he was doing it - just no

he's lucky it wasn't my granny's funeral - she'd had rose up and smacked him with her purse

hes wasnt doing it at the funeral he was doing it at a hotel room then he did some pills and couldnt even function

So he was your BF before the funeral but got too messed up at the funeral to function, so now he is your ex BF, but up to that point all his pill popping and coke snorting was okay with you?

well, it is most likely that she didn't know he was doing drugs at all. If that is the case, I would have given him the boot too. Not the cup of tea I'd like to be around.

However, if she did know he was using, it sounds like this is the first time she's seen him doing it around her. Was there an agreement to not do it around you?

I believe more details are needed. If the second scenario is true, I would have dropped him a long time ago.

I can see being pissed about hiding something from you if that is the case. If this was all known behavior it is what it is you cant really blame a snake for being a snake.

true...doesn't mean you have to keep putting up with it though! They always promise it'll never happen again, etc, etc....the only way you know for sure is to give them the boot ensuring they will never do it and disrespect you again!

Of course not I didn't say she had to. People break up for far less but putting the guy on blast for something she knew about would be a different story though.

maybe he was just sad and trying to cope, or showing blatant disregard and has an addiction problem in which case, leave him as soon as possible, and sounds like you already have...

I didn't take it that way lion! I just understand from experience. That is the main excuse I heard from both my exs when we split...you knew what I was...well okay maybe so, but I didn't realize how that was gonna make me feel & I don't wanna feel like that ever again. I didn't break up with my ex because he had a drug problem, it was because his problem was affecting my health, happiness, and ability to succeed in my profession.

That being said, I learned my lesson well & wouldn't date or enter a relationship with anyone with similar issues.

Drug users belong together, a sober person should not date a drug user, they not only use drugs, but they will use you for money, sleeping headquarters, and they will steal from you...you are nothing to them but an outlet to get ways to get drugs, enablers....

My sister is a crackhead....she could care less that we are sisters, if she wants to talk to me its about how much money i have and will i loan it to her...thats the extent of our relationship....period. My own flesh and blood.