i am starting over and not sure were or how to begin

Me neither, but good luck!

welcome and good luck, 2009pony

sometimes its much better to start over and learn from the previous experience ;) we never know where is the happiness. Otherwise we wouldn't be here looking for it ;)

Begin with a smile! All the best! ^_^

you are here, so you already have, welcome!

Starting over for me has been at the friendship level. To each their own I guess. Lately, one of the nurses was trying to play match maker for me but that really isn't my cup of tea. By just just sticking to friends only with no strings I am learning how to be a better friend myself. It is so cool that I don't have to give up being myself for someone else. My boarder and me are trying to get along as just friends and it is getting better. I have found that she didn't like being controlled either. I don't know if I will ever have a normal relationship, again. Not that any of my friendships were all that normal.

Don't think of it as starting over.
Your life is a continuum.
You veer left, right, stay on course,
take a detour, see and feel it all.

Whatever happens, you learn from it.
You absorb it.
You are..more, for having lived it.

A life with no downs to appreciate
the ups sounds most boring.

howdy & welcome

be sure to bring duct tape

double post - sorry

thought I had fixed this

Starting over can be hard, and fun.
Good luck in your new adventure.

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