Topic: need mens advice
Terry59's photo
Mon 07/09/07 09:02 PM
angel Men will never understand Woman . Woman will never understand guys. That is why If both don't have no INTERESTS ,CHEMISTRY , then guy and girl will never know about each other . It takes time to know each other, it takes at least a month together .

daniel48706's photo
Mon 07/09/07 09:07 PM
Thats true Terry, very true. however, I like to think that I continue learning about a person, wether we are intimate or just friends, every day I know them, not just for so long and then theres nothing more to learn.
For example, an ex-girlfriend that I lived with for two years. I was helping her raise her son, and we shared all household duties. I cooked every other night and it took me most of those two years to fins out that she did not like fennel ( a common italian seasoning ). She always ate whatever I made, without complaining or stating that she didnt like something, so I did not learn it immediately.

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Mon 07/09/07 09:10 PM
i call within 12 hours to be polite and to set up our next date

Terry59's photo
Mon 07/09/07 09:12 PM
daniel that is what I meant. During the month see how much more know about each other then when they first met . To many people look mainly for only SEX instead of knowing the person.

daniel48706's photo
Mon 07/09/07 09:13 PM
So true terry, so true.

daniel48706's photo
Mon 07/09/07 09:13 PM
So true terry, so true.

daniel48706's photo
Mon 07/09/07 09:16 PM
sorry, cat stepped on keyboard before I was finished, lol....

As I weas saying, terry you are so true in saying too many people are looking more for sex than in getting to know a person.
Now, me personally, I can not even conceive of sleeping with someone I did not know very well, and be able to trust deeply first. Just not possible for me.

But, that just goes to show you I seem to be the odd man out in these circumstances, eh? lol

YeaBigsexy's photo
Mon 07/09/07 09:38 PM
Well its all depends!:tongue: if the date went exceptionally well,then i usually we end up on the phone all night afet the date,if it went good then the next day,and i if it went uummm lets say awkward then never!grumble

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Mon 07/09/07 09:43 PM
NEXT!!!!!!:wink:

HangedMan's photo
Mon 07/09/07 09:43 PM
Gypsy!!! where ya been gal? in hiding?

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Mon 07/09/07 09:45 PM
iVE been held hostage by my son!!!!:wink: laugh laugh He is here ........playing pS2 behind me.

HangedMan's photo
Mon 07/09/07 10:17 PM
Sounds like my son laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 07/09/07 11:12 PM
Now he wants me to go to bed!!!! grumble grumble grumble grumble Who the hell is the parent here?????

btw he is staying at my house on the hide a bed behind me.....I can type quiet...laugh laugh laugh

TJ_777's photo
Tue 07/10/07 06:38 AM
<---- is to OLD for the 72 hour rule.....I'd call on my way home!

thedrunkrobert's photo
Tue 07/10/07 04:29 PM
I've heard of the don't call before 24 hours, but I think that is ridiculous.

I call regardless if there was a connection or not. It's polite, and I believe it's what you need to do. No reason NOT calling.

angelslove1977's photo
Tue 07/10/07 09:15 PM
well he finally talkes online....picked up like he hadnt missed a beat lol i will never understand men!!

sorrowedheart's photo
Tue 07/10/07 09:19 PM
Any real genuine guy would call the next day and make plans for another date but most guys like today figure if there was no first date sex then whats the bother. Its so sad but so true.

angelslove1977's photo
Tue 07/10/07 09:21 PM
well they can just not call then cause that aint happenin on the first date!!! lol

TheShadow's photo
Tue 07/10/07 09:24 PM
Well angelslove1977 has he called yet?

sorrowedheart's photo
Tue 07/10/07 09:26 PM
yes some guys are so forward and think they are so perfect that their date should put out and i laugh at them...........cant you picture how most first date sex turns out to be one night stands. Ive met a few women the same way. Some people want a hook up and through all the hassle its hard to find those who doesnt. you just have to pick the thorns from the roses and those who doesnt call back just makes it easier for you to move on to those who will call back.