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Topic: Good lies
humuh Joined Sat 04/02/11 Posts: 417	Thu 05/12/11 06:49 PM
Sometimes is it desirable to lie inorder to save a relationship? or is there anything as a good lie or bad lie????????

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 05/12/11 06:57 PM
if I ask u if I look fat in that dress? Whadya gonna say?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 05/12/11 06:58 PM
Sometimes is it desirable to lie inorder to save a relationship? or is there anything as a good lie or bad lie???????? Lies destroy relationships, they surely do not save them. Even white lies are cancerous to a relationship.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 05/12/11 07:03 PM
Sometimes is it desirable to lie inorder to save a relationship? or is there anything as a good lie or bad lie???????? Lies destroy relationships, they surely do not save them. Even white lies are cancerous to a relationship. I agree cuz if I DO look fat in that dress & u don't say so????? and then someone else tells me later????? not a good scenario

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Thu 05/12/11 07:07 PM
People keep telling me lies are necessary but I don't see a reason for them. It makes a person a liar and as long as they don't get caught at it no one but themselves will know but once they get caught they will always be a liar.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 05/12/11 07:07 PM
Well, the pic of you in the dress is blurry.

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Thu 05/12/11 07:09 PM
LOL I am sure all liars believe their lies are "good lies" anyway.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 05/12/11 07:13 PM
If you have to lie to keep a relationship going, something is wrong.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 05/12/11 08:23 PM
Look. Don't guys ALWAYS lie about their scholong size when they meet a chick? I mean...ladies....you know it aint 12 inches. You do the math. If he says 12, you know it's more like....2.6789 inches. But hey...he knows how to use it. Anyways...that is a good lie. It builds up the dude's confidence. Once he is naked and he proclaims, "Here comes Kong baby...", you'll just imagine that thing being HUGE. Conclusion....it's all good.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 05/12/11 08:25 PM
Look. Don't guys ALWAYS lie about their scholong size when they meet a chick? I mean...ladies....you know it aint 12 inches. You do the math. If he says 12, you know it's more like....2.6789 inches. But hey...he knows how to use it. Anyways...that is a good lie. It builds up the dude's confidence. Once he is naked and he proclaims, "Here comes Kong baby...", you'll just imagine that thing being HUGE. Conclusion....it's all good. no, they do not but it still feels good

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Thu 05/12/11 08:26 PM
if I ask u if I look fat in that dress? Whadya gonna say? the dress doesn't matter?

indianadave4 Joined Wed 02/09/11 Posts: 1308	Thu 05/12/11 08:27 PM Edited by indianadave4 on Thu 05/12/11 08:29 PM
if I ask u if I look fat in that dress? Whadya gonna say? Why ask a loaded question? You wouldn't ask if you didn't feel you looked fat. If he says no, you'll feel he's lying. If he says yes, he's dead meat. No winning answer. Usually a question used to create drama. OT: Lying is always wrong. Best to be up front.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 05/12/11 08:29 PM
if I ask u if I look fat in that dress? Whadya gonna say? the dress doesn't matter? good answer experience is the best teacher I predict that u have seen a bad dress before? (Oh, and "take it off then baby" also scores points)

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 05/12/11 08:42 PM
if I ask u if I look fat in that dress? Whadya gonna say? Why ask a loaded question? You wouldn't ask if you didn't feel you looked fat. If he says no, you'll feel he's lying. If he says yes, he's dead meat. No winning answer. Usually a question used to create drama. OT: Lying is always wrong. Best to be up front. Oh, there's a winning answer.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 05/12/11 08:42 PM
if I ask u if I look fat in that dress? Whadya gonna say? Why ask a loaded question? You wouldn't ask if you didn't feel you looked fat. If he says no, you'll feel he's lying. If he says yes, he's dead meat. No winning answer. Usually a question used to create drama. OT: Lying is always wrong. Best to be up front. Oh, there's a winning answer.

indianadave4 Joined Wed 02/09/11 Posts: 1308	Thu 05/12/11 08:44 PM
if I ask u if I look fat in that dress? Whadya gonna say? Why ask a loaded question? You wouldn't ask if you didn't feel you looked fat. If he says no, you'll feel he's lying. If he says yes, he's dead meat. No winning answer. Usually a question used to create drama. OT: Lying is always wrong. Best to be up front. Oh, there's a winning answer. Let us remember that the way this question is always ask a YES or NO answer is expected.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 05/12/11 08:47 PM
Rookie mistake.

indianadave4 Joined Wed 02/09/11 Posts: 1308	Thu 05/12/11 08:49 PM
Rookie mistake. No rookie at 60: being honest.

challengingmind Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 563	Thu 05/12/11 08:49 PM
Lmao at goofball See? That's why women have trouble parking cause you men keep telling us that 6 inches is this(holding hands 3 inches apart) big!!!

humuh Joined Sat 04/02/11 Posts: 417	Thu 05/12/11 10:19 PM
If you live by being honest all the time, the day you make a fatal mistake you get hanged.One or two lies in a lifetime are not bad, besides the most painful mistake is the one that comes from the most loyal and trusted.........used to think so