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Topic: Is it ok to flirt with others...
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Sun 05/08/11 09:48 PM
while dating someone?

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 05/08/11 09:52 PM
It depends IMO. If it is harmless, fun flirting and everyone is ok with it....then yes. Otherwise I would see it as disrespectful

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Sun 05/08/11 09:57 PM
Depends on how your partner feels about it. If you have to do it in secret, it's wrong. If it makes here feel bad, it's wrong. She has to come first.

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Sun 05/08/11 10:03 PM
It's natural to flirt isn't it? I got a gf and wouldn't do anything to hurt the girl, I respect her, I do got my limits.

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Sun 05/08/11 10:07 PM
You're asking the wrong people. Ask you partner. She will tell you the answer.

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Sun 05/08/11 10:10 PM
It really depends.

Your GF wants to know she is something special to you.

If she feels the flirting you have done with her is nothing important to you, she will be resentful that you do it with others as well...

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Sun 05/08/11 10:15 PM
I think you are asking for permission from a bunch of people you don't even know. We aren't in any position to give you that permission.

Tessa02's photo
Sun 05/08/11 10:28 PM

I think you are asking for permission from a bunch of people you don't even know. We aren't in any position to give you that permission.


I agree 100%. My BF is one of the biggest flirts I know. Nothing I could do to change him. Heck, sometimes I even get a kick out of it because they are so young most of them wouldn't even give him the time of day. I actually turned around & went back yesterday so he could get a look at a gal. Heck, it was all in fun & it's not like he jumped out of the car & nailed her in the parking lot. I think it depends on your partner & how secure they are in your relationship.

Queene123's photo
Sun 05/08/11 10:29 PM
Edited by Queene123 on Sun 05/08/11 10:32 PM

while dating someone?


now i can see if you were a young teen and doing this
but your in your 30s and you should act like adult and not a idiot
my ex hubby flirted alot but he also cheated
so if your gf cant see through that then she majorly blind

but then you also have to have trust if there isent then there is no point on having a relationship

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Sun 05/08/11 11:57 PM
there is a difference between being flirty vs. open and social. Being flirty with others on a date is a little tasteless to me. but that's just me!

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Mon 05/09/11 12:03 AM

there is a difference between being flirty vs. open and social. Being flirty with others on a date is a little tasteless to me. but that's just me!


^^This.

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Mon 05/09/11 01:42 AM
If you were dating me...no it is not ok...you better only have eyes for me..

Is that selfish? Maybe, but imo, if you can openly flirt with other women, you may have no problem cheating...this comes from major experience.

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Mon 05/09/11 02:50 AM
If it's just playful and nothing more, I don't see it being too bad. But flirting with intention to achieve something is wrong if you're seeing someone

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Mon 05/09/11 05:24 AM

It's natural to flirt isn't it? I got a gf and wouldn't do anything to hurt the girl, I respect her, I do got my limits.


This is something you should be discussing with your girlfriend. You're going to get a different response from everyone, but the one that actually matters will be from your girlfriend.

Peccy's photo
Mon 05/09/11 06:04 AM
Food for thought....How would you feel if your partner were flirting with someone else....honestly.

mightymoe's photo
Mon 05/09/11 06:06 AM
how would you feel if she flirted around you or behind your back?

mightymoe's photo
Mon 05/09/11 06:07 AM

Food for thought....How would you feel if your partner were flirting with someone else....honestly.

haha, you beat me to it...:angry: laugh laugh

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Mon 05/09/11 06:50 AM
To the OP: Ask your girlfriend.

But, this has made me think about my flirting habits. They have changed over the years I've been here. I guess because I am more familiar with the in's and out's of online dating and communication. When I flirt in the forums I am always joking around. I guess I just feel comfortable here and know the guys I am flirting with as friends. If I am actually interested in someone I generally email them. Then they ignore me and I move on. :tongue:

AndyBgood's photo
Mon 05/09/11 09:44 AM

Food for thought....How would you feel if your partner were flirting with someone else....honestly.


A whole host of things including the trust being eroded!

When trust is gone, all is lost!

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Mon 05/09/11 10:07 AM

If I am actually interested in someone I generally email them. Then they ignore me and I move on. :tongue:


rofl rofl rofl rofl

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