I have a hard time attracting "decent" men. Is there something I'm putting out there I am not aware of?

Mmmm, you come off rather negative.
Combative, even.
Right off the bat, you have 'dismissed'
them by saying you don't really like
most of the opposite sex.

I might 'cheer it up' a little.
Unless that is wholly you, in which
case I wouldn't change a thing :-)

Thank you,

I am not combative, LOL I am just blunt but I can see what you mean. In truth I do dismiss many because I know what I want and don't want. I am grown and have played the game. Not really into men who still are in that stage. But I do appreciate it, and made it a little friendlier. I was told by one man he was scared to write me and wouldn't have the balls if I didn't write him first. I am trying to scare the tools though, you know with their sexual opening lines. That's what I mean by decent, everyone seems out for a booty call.

I think Mingle is a little different in that
the forums open up communication, sometimes
on a fairly deep level.
You can get to know people better,
before you leap.

A lot of the gals won't even reply to email
that does not come from a forum poster.

So, that extra mail you get that you don't
really want, is mainly fodder for
the circus here :-)

We have all had it, get it and relate
the funny ones.

You can easily refine your
parameters and use the BLOCK
option for anyone you don't
want to see twice.

i get a lot of mixed signals looking at your picture. do you want to do it or what. maybe i should have read your profile

hahahahahaha

Sounds great to me. You show that your articulate, funny, and real.
I LOVE this:
Some women may feel less than, but truth be told I kept a gay man straight for 10 years so I am obviously every bit of a woman and more! I just am not man enough ;)

Great sense of humor.

Welcome to mingle!! Good Luck friend!