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Everyone has heard that you have to love yourself before someone else can love you. The reason for this is simple - our ideal partner is a reflection of us. We attract people that are like us. Not just in terms of romantic, sexual/physical attraction. We attract them metaphysically - these people tend to turn up in our lives. Each of us has a unique belief system, a way of seeing the world that is slightly different to everyone else's. It's almost like our ego has a fingerprint. What turns us on, what turns us off. What we feel is important. did that make sense ? That was incrediby insightful. I am seriously impressed with your intellect Kiss.....You are no joke! |
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Everyone has heard that you have to love yourself before someone else can love you. The reason for this is simple - our ideal partner is a reflection of us. We attract people that are like us. Not just in terms of romantic, sexual/physical attraction. We attract them metaphysically - these people tend to turn up in our lives. Each of us has a unique belief system, a way of seeing the world that is slightly different to everyone else's. It's almost like our ego has a fingerprint. What turns us on, what turns us off. What we feel is important. did that make sense ? That was incrediby insightful. I am seriously impressed with your intellect Kiss.....You are no joke! J/k... |
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Everyone has heard that you have to love yourself before someone else can love you. The reason for this is simple - our ideal partner is a reflection of us. We attract people that are like us. Not just in terms of romantic, sexual/physical attraction. We attract them metaphysically - these people tend to turn up in our lives. Each of us has a unique belief system, a way of seeing the world that is slightly different to everyone else's. It's almost like our ego has a fingerprint. What turns us on, what turns us off. What we feel is important. did that make sense ? That was incrediby insightful. I am seriously impressed with your intellect Kiss.....You are no joke! J/k... I wanna spliff of your meds! :) |
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..let's just say i don't necessarily follow the consensus here,altho to some extent i will say that our loves are an extension of ourselves,we don't necessarily have to love ourselves in order to love someone else..in some ways i have to say i try to make up to my son that which i have lacked all my life ..and that is my parents love,coming from an abusive dysfunctional home and being told you are worthless and nothing sometimes one has a tendency to start believing that which is not true,yet i know i would never want my son to feel the hurt i carry inside from this i tend to over compensate for what i have never had and find most of the times i feel i can't do enough..even tho in his mind it may be ..for me it never is so i find fault within and i am never happy with myself nor do i love myself..because i can never do enough to make the pain inside subside...  jmo
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