Topic: What gets you?
rlynne's photo
Mon 04/25/11 07:36 PM
It never fails....he is italian and from NewYork...somehow i fall just for that...lol and its been that way since I met my first one when i was 12 lol....


what makes you fall every time? Have you learned to catch yourself?

Jess642's photo
Mon 04/25/11 07:42 PM
Humour is the intial hook....a man who is able to laugh at himself, and find the funny side of life will certainly turn my head!


Intelligence...he has to be self aware.

...and most important, he's got to have a bit of mongrel in him...a bit of the devil...and as cocksure and ballsy as they come!pitchfork

scttggry81's photo
Mon 04/25/11 07:44 PM
I like a girl with a set of hips on her, and I mean proportionate not she ate too many donuts. Also an elegent neck will always do it for me... I don't want to catch myself, lol

stefy's photo
Mon 04/25/11 07:47 PM
Humor and intelligence at first
if he is nerdy like me i am hooked
if he is blond than i am lost

rlynne's photo
Mon 04/25/11 07:48 PM

I like a girl with a set of hips on her, and I mean proportionate not she ate too many donuts. Also an elegent neck will always do it for me... I don't want to catch myself, lol


you mean you want definition between the hips and the waist....lol you won't have to catch yourself if you have that to hold onto....

scttggry81's photo
Mon 04/25/11 07:50 PM
amen...

rlynne's photo
Mon 04/25/11 07:50 PM

Humour is the intial hook....a man who is able to laugh at himself, and find the funny side of life will certainly turn my head!


Intelligence...he has to be self aware.

...and most important, he's got to have a bit of mongrel in him...a bit of the devil...and as cocksure and ballsy as they come!pitchfork


Thats just it though... i swear its genetic and social breeding something in the attitude the way they cary themselves...it has yet to fail...they all have the initial charm, wit and "cocksure" demeanor that catches my attention

rlynne's photo
Mon 04/25/11 07:51 PM

Humor and intelligence at first
if he is nerdy like me i am hooked
if he is blond than i am lost


i can't do blonde men..it just weirds me out...my whole family is blonde...unless they married in then they all seem to have dark brown hair..weird

Jess642's photo
Mon 04/25/11 08:06 PM


Humour is the intial hook....a man who is able to laugh at himself, and find the funny side of life will certainly turn my head!


Intelligence...he has to be self aware.

...and most important, he's got to have a bit of mongrel in him...a bit of the devil...and as cocksure and ballsy as they come!pitchfork


Thats just it though... i swear its genetic and social breeding something in the attitude the way they cary themselves...it has yet to fail...they all have the initial charm, wit and "cocksure" demeanor that catches my attention



I can't say for NY Italian descent guys...obviously...laugh ...there's a type of guy over here...he usually works outdoors, spends a lot of time away from other people...trucker, fencer, musterer, etc...


There is just something about them....it's like they have the horizon in their eyes... they know themselves, have plenty of time to think and are immovable in their self awareness...they're a physically hardened man...

I don't know how to describe it....but there's something there..that has me coming undone...



smokeybette's photo
Mon 04/25/11 08:07 PM
i fall for the right one, but she can't see
the forest for the tree s'

smokeybette's photo
Mon 04/25/11 08:14 PM
oops, try a sicilian, less drama, there is more sanity to my insanity as you would think. ask,,,never minddddd per gilda radner
God rest her soul.

no photo
Mon 04/25/11 08:26 PM
The gorilla suit gets me every time. laugh



msharmony's photo
Mon 04/25/11 11:08 PM
the old fashioned macho but chivalrous type,,,

and musicians,,,

ohiostate13's photo
Tue 04/26/11 03:08 PM
Based upon a physical traits aspect?

I'm a sucker for a woman that has sexy eyes. For example: Olivia Wilde from the TV show House, her eyes are just wow, lol

Hair is another, I like well kept longer hair. Not down to their butt or the floor, but a good length well taken care of


Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Tue 04/26/11 10:07 PM
Being a good listener, or sense of humor.

wux's photo
Wed 04/27/11 02:21 AM
I dunno... I think personality is overrated. Everyone's into love and not enough into playing Chinese checkers.

Blonde hair, a fair scent, and liking me is what gets me. Except for women over 43, who actually look better in dark hair. Don't ask me why.

Most important is my perception of her availability and attainability to me. I've been known to court the cleaning staff and the cafeteria servers in every one of my jobs from college on, to the day I got last fired. These women are irresistible, for the reason of my thinking I could get them. But I can't, never could, that's the funny thing. They are just as unattainable as Brigitte Bardot to me.