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Topic: Ego stroking
xoangelfacexo Joined Wed 04/20/11 Posts: 168	Fri 04/22/11 04:56 PM
Wondering why some men need such heavy petting...insight...anyone?

fireflysgirl Joined Mon 10/18/10 Posts: 2957	Fri 04/22/11 05:01 PM
Wondering why some men need such heavy petting...insight...anyone? good question, but I have no idea?

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Fri 04/22/11 05:04 PM
Cant say that i don't like a good scratch behind the ears...lol. Its because they don't have enough pride in themselves so they need someone else to give it to them. Some may say its a lack of testicular fortitude.

rlynne Joined Sun 11/23/08 Posts: 2458	Fri 04/22/11 05:10 PM
same reason some women need petting

xoangelfacexo Joined Wed 04/20/11 Posts: 168	Fri 04/22/11 05:12 PM
You're a good boy:) Now go lay down...No, I said ...get down, boy...oh..you wanna new bone?...oh you want me to throw it for you too? Oh, you want me to go get it for you because you're sitting there all cute wagging your little nub? Thats a good boy...You dont have to do anything but be cute and roll over:) LMAO!

xoangelfacexo Joined Wed 04/20/11 Posts: 168	Fri 04/22/11 05:12 PM
<--------That was for J

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Fri 04/22/11 05:13 PM
Bow wow wow yippie yo yippie yay!!! J-Dawg up in the muthaf*ckin hizouze!!!!

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 04/22/11 05:13 PM
Wondering why some men need such heavy petting...insight...anyone? It's not so much the petting part I enjoy, it's more the person doing the petting. BTW, what's petting have to do with my ego?

Scorpio_WJR Joined Mon 04/04/11 Posts: 235	Fri 04/22/11 05:13 PM
Dunno, maybe we are just conditioned to be that way. Men are expected to play a certain role in a relationship and we like to feel that we are doing a good job and look good in the eyes of our competitive peers. A majority of the women that I know are the opposite, don't seem to care about thier partner's opinion. But idk some need more than others I guess.

xoangelfacexo Joined Wed 04/20/11 Posts: 168	Fri 04/22/11 05:14 PM
Mingle needs a like button:)

xoangelfacexo Joined Wed 04/20/11 Posts: 168	Fri 04/22/11 05:16 PM
Stroking...petting...by definition are very much the same:) Unless...nah, won't go there...

fireflysgirl Joined Mon 10/18/10 Posts: 2957	Fri 04/22/11 05:16 PM
Wondering why some men need such heavy petting...insight...anyone? good question, but I have no idea? my ex was very insecure and his ego very easily hurt & lemme tell ya...when you have to do it then it is no longer fun A lot of men deserve it though and it's nice to see them strutting around all happy & full of themselves.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 04/22/11 05:17 PM
Well, we could but then they'd move the thread and give us a spanking, and not the good kind either.

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Fri 04/22/11 05:19 PM
I earn my compliments. LOL!!!

xoangelfacexo Joined Wed 04/20/11 Posts: 168	Fri 04/22/11 05:19 PM
Wondering why some men need such heavy petting...insight...anyone? good question, but I have no idea? my ex was very insecure and his ego very easily hurt & lemme tell ya...when you have to do it then it is no longer fun A lot of men deserve it though and it's nice to see them strutting around all happy & full of themselves. :) Not fun at all when you're being guilted into it...lol

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 04/22/11 05:20 PM
No, you earn the gold star stickers. Compliments are just given.

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Fri 04/22/11 05:21 PM
I guess its both sexes, Sometimes people are more insecure than others, I am probably one of them, but have a man who constantly reasures me, Hmmm not sure if thats a drain on him, but he just has done it all the time, So I always feel confident with him.

xoangelfacexo Joined Wed 04/20/11 Posts: 168	Fri 04/22/11 05:22 PM
Well, we could but then they'd move the thread and give us a spanking, and not the good kind either. Havent had a spanking on here for a looooong time....and it was for taking up for a guy from Punjab because a bunch of people were telling him to speak english and being a-holes.

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Fri 04/22/11 05:23 PM
To me..its like respect. You have to give it to get it. Its something you have to earn. It shouldnt be handed out for free.

xoangelfacexo Joined Wed 04/20/11 Posts: 168	Fri 04/22/11 05:25 PM
Totage do you still use that pic that had wings in it? It was like 3 or 4 years ago...and hello to JOSIE:)