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Topic: How do u start a relationship
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Wed 04/20/11 01:58 PM
Imagine urself 19 nd planning on dating nd starting a good relationship

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Wed 04/20/11 02:02 PM
Goodluck.I have no advice.
I imagine myself 42 dating and starting a good relationship.surprised


I'm all ears...flowerforyou

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Wed 04/20/11 02:04 PM
Step one: Find a date.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 04/20/11 02:04 PM

Imagine urself 19 nd planning on dating nd starting a good relationship

Communication is everything, so using
complete words should really help.

Good luck..look them in the eye :-)

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Wed 04/20/11 02:55 PM
19 was not a good year for me. Can I pick another age?

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Wed 04/20/11 03:07 PM
Well first of all, honesty. Without that there can be no such thing as a good relationship

Being faithful to the one whom you are in the relationship with. I don't know about you, but I cannot stand a cheater

Flexibility. And no, I'm not talking about how far you can bend. What I mean is being able to be flexible with the others schedule, or should I say wanting to be flexible. Not everyone's schedules are the same, so flexibility is a key.

Understanding. Not everyone likes the same things as you do. Try doing something the other likes you're not crazy about, and vice versa. Of course do things that both like, but going the extra mile to do something your other likes you don't does mean alot to the other.

Support, and no not finacial. Be there for the other. Be there to comfort the other when something gets them down. Support their goal and dreams.

Give and take. If you live a bit apart, share the driving. Go to them, and they to you. Realize you are equals in the relationship, not one over the other.

Do things you want to, not because you expect something in return. Alterior motives are not attractive.

His and her time. Everyone has to have their away time, things grow old if you're up each other's butts all the time. Do not become jealous or angry that the other need's a day or a night out with friends.

Trust. this is definitely a key to a good relationship. If you do not trust the other, or cannot trust the other, then it's a recipe for disaster and maybe you should not be in a relationship with them.

The key to a good relationship should have all of these qualities, not one of them or some of them. I may be missing one or so because of drawing a blank, but the one's I've listed I think are basis for a good and solid relationship

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Wed 04/20/11 04:15 PM
Show off. :tongue: :wink:

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Wed 04/20/11 05:35 PM
Just be yourself and find someone who makes you laugh.

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Wed 04/20/11 05:39 PM
I'd focus on making an evacuation plan for the inevitable disaster than ensues when you start a relationship...they are much easier to get into than out of!!!

good luck, be yourself and likely it will just happen when you least expect it!

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Wed 04/20/11 06:10 PM
I imagine myself in a room with three hot blondes, a brunette, and spatula's. Oh wait. Ooopppsss! Wrong thread.

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Wed 04/20/11 06:28 PM


I imagine myself in a room with three
hot blondes, a brunette, and spatula's.
Oh wait. Ooopppsss! Wrong thread.


What's the brunette for?

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Wed 04/20/11 06:39 PM



I imagine myself in a room with three
hot blondes, a brunette, and spatula's.
Oh wait. Ooopppsss! Wrong thread.


What's the brunette for?


Yeh I am wondering what the brunette is for as well, maybe to hold the spatula.tongue2

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Wed 04/20/11 06:41 PM




I imagine myself in a room with three
hot blondes, a brunette, and spatula's.
Oh wait. Ooopppsss! Wrong thread.


What's the brunette for?


Yeh I am wondering what the brunette is for as well, maybe to hold the spatula.tongue2


naw she's equipped with a frying pan laugh

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Wed 04/20/11 08:10 PM

Imagine urself 19 nd planning on dating nd starting a good relationship

OK seriously

kindergarten rules

no hitting
if someone asks u something nicely, answer nicely
say please & thank you
ask before playin with someone else's toys
clean up after your self
tell the truth
share your ice cream and crayons at the art table
take turns
dont let ur panties show on the play gym

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Wed 04/20/11 08:12 PM





I imagine myself in a room with three
hot blondes, a brunette, and spatula's.
Oh wait. Ooopppsss! Wrong thread.


What's the brunette for?


Yeh I am wondering what the brunette is for as well, maybe to hold the spatula.tongue2


naw she's equipped with a frying pan laugh


sounds like the breakfast club

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Thu 04/21/11 02:48 AM

Show off. :tongue: :wink:


Who me? LOL

Nah, just giving my honest opinion is all

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Thu 04/21/11 06:22 AM

I imagine myself in a room with three hot blondes, a brunette, and spatula's. Oh wait. Ooopppsss! Wrong thread.


Spatula....giving her the ol Aunt Jemima Treatment-

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-hOhhgrM3bs

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 04/21/11 06:28 AM


Show off. :tongue: :wink:


Who me? LOL

Nah, just giving my honest opinion is all

:wink: laugh flowerforyou

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Thu 04/21/11 06:31 AM

Imagine urself 19 nd planning on dating nd starting a good relationship


When I was 19, I was in a band and there was never a problem finding someone to date.

It was much simpler then.


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Thu 04/21/11 09:00 AM

Imagine urself 19 nd planning on dating nd starting a good relationship



It's called trial and learn for me. No one can actually tell you how to start a relationship. It's something we learn as we grow up. Although starting a friendship is a good place to start.

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