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Topic: How to spot "crazy"
Cinderella75 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 10049	Wed 04/20/11 12:10 PM
When they text you 10 times in a row, although you haven't responded in 2 days to any of their texts. When they leave you 10 Voice Messages a day, each one basically saying the same thing... and each lasting until your Voicemail is full. When you meet them, they giggle at every little thing you say, and then tell you:" I love you" after the first date. When they call or text asking you:" Why are you online, I thought you loved me?" When they call you 50 times a day, until you pick up. When you don't respond to their IM or e-mail and the next IM or e-mail they sent is totally insulting, calling you names. When they delete you off of facebook/myspace, after you have not acknowledged them for 20 minutes. But then 1 hour later, they request you to be their friend again.

fireflysgirl Joined Mon 10/18/10 Posts: 2957	Wed 04/20/11 03:59 PM
Actually, one of my ice breakers when meeting a new girl is "So, can you chew through duct tape?" I would answer him: "Are you wearing a bullet proof vest?" If he is, I would aim for the forehead.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Wed 04/20/11 04:34 PM
When you first meet someone, what might be a good sign that they are nuts and that you should not continue dating? If we post it on here then it won't be a good way to tell anymore. They will know.

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Thu 04/21/11 09:58 AM
When you first meet someone, what might be a good sign that they are nuts and that you should not continue dating? 1. When your date starts nibbling at the menu. 2. When he begins to tear up his newspaper and his coffee cup in to tiny pieces, creates a mountain of abused paper in the center of the table and whispers to it. 3. When you pass by a dog, it barks furiously, growls or howls at your date. More so, if your date growls back. 4. When he starts asking you if you can feel pain because he can't no matter what he does.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Thu 04/21/11 10:27 AM
When you first meet someone, what might be a good sign that they are nuts and that you should not continue dating? well the fact that they are meeting me is a good sign they are crazy I tend to attract crazy

Aries151 Joined Fri 02/20/09 Posts: 1077	Thu 04/21/11 10:37 AM
1. When your date starts nibbling at the menu. Bah, I do this just to make a point to the waiters that I'm still waiting for my food.

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Thu 04/21/11 02:44 PM
1. When your date starts nibbling at the menu. Bah, I do this just to make a point to the waiters that I'm still waiting for my food. I rest my case.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 04/21/11 03:07 PM
if they have their clothes on upside down, I 'd tone it down a notch

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 04/21/11 03:26 PM
1. When your date starts nibbling at the menu. Bah, I do this just to make a point to the waiters that I'm still waiting for my food. I rest my case. ya, it's Aries

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 04/21/11 03:30 PM
if they have their clothes on upside down, I 'd tone it down a notch Clothes? Pfft, who wears clothes on a first date?

mylifetoday Joined Sat 01/08/11 Posts: 1943	Thu 04/21/11 03:31 PM
When you first meet someone, what might be a good sign that they are nuts and that you should not continue dating? 2. When he begins to tear up his newspaper and his coffee cup in to tiny pieces, creates a mountain of abused paper in the center of the table and whispers to it. I was worried there for a minute - until you said "whispers to it." Whew, I'm safe...

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 04/21/11 03:34 PM
When you first meet someone, what might be a good sign that they are nuts and that you should not continue dating? 2. When he begins to tear up his newspaper and his coffee cup in to tiny pieces, creates a mountain of abused paper in the center of the table and whispers to it. I was worried there for a minute - until you said "whispers to it." Whew, I'm safe... Yelling at it isn't much better.

mylifetoday Joined Sat 01/08/11 Posts: 1943	Thu 04/21/11 03:34 PM
Bummer I never spot crazy... I just hink they are all lovely and dont see a thing until its way to late... Yep I seem to attract crazy.. I didn't know AA was crazy.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 04/21/11 03:37 PM
if they have their clothes on upside down, I 'd tone it down a notch Clothes? Pfft, who wears clothes on a first date? depends on who it's with I guess

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 04/21/11 03:38 PM
I usually just wear a bowtie and a top hat.

Nicolesnooki Joined Sat 02/19/11 Posts: 4952	Thu 04/21/11 03:50 PM
When all their love letters to you are written in crayon, and they ask if the straight jacket they're wearing makes them look fat. Lmao.That's crazy right there.

Scorpio_WJR Joined Mon 04/04/11 Posts: 235	Thu 04/21/11 05:34 PM
When you first meet someone, what might be a good sign that they are nuts and that you should not continue dating? 2. When he begins to tear up his newspaper and his coffee cup in to tiny pieces, creates a mountain of abused paper in the center of the table and whispers to it. LMAO now I want to try that on my next first date just to see what kind of reaction I get!!

mylifetoday Joined Sat 01/08/11 Posts: 1943	Thu 04/21/11 07:18 PM
When you first meet someone, what might be a good sign that they are nuts and that you should not continue dating? 2. When he begins to tear up his newspaper and his coffee cup in to tiny pieces, creates a mountain of abused paper in the center of the table and whispers to it. I was worried there for a minute - until you said "whispers to it." Whew, I'm safe... Yelling at it isn't much better. Dang --- foiled again...

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 04/21/11 07:28 PM
I've been called crazy :( Yea in my last relationship, I started talking about moving in after about 2 weeks. I don't see what's wrong with moving things along, some of us guys actually know what we want... Why waste time?, why hold your feelings back?, why pretend? Why do you think we're insecure and crazy just because we are serious about getting serious and "going steady" as it was once called? Not insecurity, it means that we know what we want and have confidence to move on to that stage. The guys and gals like those above me who are afraid of commitment are the ones who are insecure. This thread offends me >:( How is someone afraid of commitment if they're not wanting to talk about moving in and serious things like that after a week or two? It's definitely a red flag to me if someone brings that up that quickly. Why rush it? Why not actually take time to see how you feel about each other? I don't believe that your feelings can be that strong that quickly.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 04/21/11 07:32 PM
How is someone afraid of commitment if they're not wanting to talk about moving in and serious things like that after a week or two? It's definitely a red flag to me if someone brings that up that quickly. Why rush it? Why not actually take time to see how you feel about each other? I don't believe that your feelings can be that strong that quickly. I agree with this.