okay, I'm picturing you catching him with his favorite blow up doll...

You take out the knife and puncture it.

It deflates.

That is quite understandabole. But how do you think: are you cheating "them" if you make love to a doll? It's not about them, it's about you. Would you feel YOU are cheating both, when you had a male lover and a female lover, and they both loved you?

I am not trying to pry, I just wanted to see if this is what the original question asked... not how you feel when others do it, but how you feel when you do it.

I don't think it is cheating to use a blow up doll.

If you feel that is cheating then you probably feel its cheating when he masturbates. That's just much to controlling. In fact, that's a control freak.

Josie you are so right even playing around with a blow up doll is chatting..., You two are the best ever

Chatting? You chat with a blow up doll?

Its not cheating unless you lie about it, but then its only lying.

There is no emotional 'relationship' between the guy and the doll (unless he is insane.)

There is little chance that the doll will ask the man to give up his girlfriend or wife.

Point is, a person (the man) is not involved with another person. Its just a doll. What he does in the privacy of his home with a doll or with his own hand is his business. A woman who is so insecure that she calls that 'cheating' is a bit of a control freak. IMHO.

It is cheating, not the same as with another person, but it is a form of cheating.

Cheating is exceeding the proper bounds or limits of something. Being a bi doesn't give someone dual rights for romantic relationship. Now, decide for yourself.

think of how you would feel if the guy or girl had someone esle on the side too, without telling you...

So you would let your girl friend control you to the point that masturbation was considered cheating? Okeeee dokeee.

Nope I would just turn around and leave....FOREVER..

Actually to call me a control freak is really not acceptable..

Firstly I am about as far from that as you can get.

Secondly a person who would judge so harshly would not be easy to live with.. Hmmm or is a control freak.

I live by what I believe, Anaconda and i have discussed what we would and would not do, that is the basis of a relationship.

If each person in a partnership is completely honest about how they feel, you would never get into a spot where one feels controlled.

So my opionins is my opinion, if you want to masturbate and play with your doll then to you thats not playing up..

To me if I have a man it would be.. Its a matter of my own opinion and that is what was asked for..

Thank you kindly for your judgement.

Dooh

If my man needed to masturbate , I would be seriously looking at why he needed to when he had me.

Personally and please remember that in these threads we are just stating our opinions not trying to make each other look bad..


But to me, if I am not satisfying my man in everyway he needs, I am seriously not doing something properly, or we have serious issues that need fixing..

No way should he prefer his hand or a plastic doll.

And actual sex feels SOOOOOOOO much better!

Now put that Fleshlight away!

i would hope so... Otherwise you might as well have a whole bunch of plastic dolls

NOBODY TOLD ME THAT CHEATING WAS A BAD THING!!!

YOU MEAN I CAN ONLY HAVE ONE??? BALONEY!!!

Ditto